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Eulogies are pieces of writing or funeral speeches that are typically shared at a funeral or gathering for someone who has passed away. The speeches often contain a description of the person who passed away, the kind of person they were and personal memories that the person delivering the eulogy finds meaningful to share. That being said, eulogies can be fully customized to fit your writing style and needs and can come in all types of formats. Somber eulogies, eulogies filled with stories, short eulogies, and funny eulogies are all common. The best eulogy speeches are those that are written from the heart.

How to write a eulogy

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Not sure where to start? Don’t know how to write a eulogy for a mother? Friend? Sister? Grandfather? Try to relax and remember that many people don’t know how to write a eulogy, especially for someone important in their life. To start, the main parts to include in a standard eulogy are as follows:

Introduction

A brief introduction usually looks like “Thank you all for being here” or “Thank you all for coming”. You’re acknowledging the audience and thanking them for sharing this time with you and yours.

Short story

Including a short story about your loved one is customary and is usually a story that really shows their personality or what about them made them special. If you’re interested in a lighter eulogy, consider sharing a funny story. For more somber atmospheres, stories about lessons taught by the individual or a story about their achievements is a great alternative. Other popular story topics include major accomplishments, life events, the impact the person had on others, childhood memories and years, stories about traveling, marriage, family, children, or other important stories.

Favorite memories

Similar to the story, it’s not unusual to see eulogies include one or two favorite memories the person had with the deceased. These memories can be of simple or complex moments; this is up to you and what feels right.

Important quote

If your loved one had a favorite passage, verse, quote, or poem, you can include it in the eulogy itself. Alternatively, if you have a passage or quote that you feel is relevant and important to share, you can include that as well.

You can end the eulogy by summarizing the impact this person had on the lives of others and by acknowledging the family and those who chose to attend the services again. It may also feel fitting to end the eulogy with a treasured quote or passage.

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Shannon McMasters' eulogy

Written by Stephen McMasters Shannon McMasters' eulogy, written and read by her brother, Stephen, is a beautiful testament to a woman who Stephen describes as a "shining star that burned out too soon". Shannon's life was far from easy, but reading about her perseverance, determination, and strength and hearing her brother recount meaningful moments in their life and the impact she had on him and those around her is powerful. Shannon's eulogy is an example for those who are looking to honor the struggles and difficulties their loved one dealt with while remembering other important aspects of their life. Visit Shannon's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Shannon's full eulogy below:

Shannon had such a big life and touched so many people, it’s hard to know where to begin. Other than our mother, Shannon was the closest person to me growing up. I was basically raised by my mom and sister. Many of my earliest memories are of the two of us, singing Disney songs together, watching The Breakfast Club on rerun, and of course, fights in the backseat of the car. Later in life, she was the cool big sister. And I wanted to be just like her. I have so many fond memories with Shannon, from the University of Florida to moving cross-country to Los Angeles and on to Atlanta. I would not have done many of these things if not for her. Shannon was my best friend. We laughed at everything together, our sense of humor was nearly identical. We bonded over music sharing two of our top three favorite bands. People even said we look alike, which I was never sure was a compliment or not. The bulk of my life was spent with Shannon; it’s hard to believe she’s gone. She was a shining star that burned out too soon. I don’t know too many people that met Shannon and didn’t have something wonderful to say about her. She truly had a gift to connect to people, understand them, make them feel special and like they mattered. I believe she got this gift from our mother who also had a knack with people. Everyone’s life was brighter having known my sister, especially mine. People think Shannon was lucky to have me, but I was lucky to have her. I know I would not be the person I am today without her. She was always positive and believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself. Because of her, my dreams were bigger, my achievements were bigger, my life was bigger. Shannon was fearless in her pursuits; she accomplished so much in her short life. She graduated from UF, double-majoring in Political Science and Theatre. She then graduated from UCLA Law. She obtained degrees from both institutions while enduring bone marrow transplants. Later she went to cosmetology school at the Aveda Institute in Atlanta. I think it’s fair to say Shannon was dealt a rough hand from the start. In 1997, and again in 2004, she was diagnosed with Aplastic Anemia, an extremely rare disease in which the bone marrow quits producing red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets. Even with a donor, chances of survival are still not 100%. Fortunately, I was a match. I was Bone Marrow Boy as Shannon liked to call me. Throughout both transplants, she had to undergo chemotherapy, hospital isolation, and months of recovery before returning to her normal life. Her oncologist declared her in remission in 2012, but she suffered from graft versus host disease, which caused numerous side effects both internally and externally. For years she took cancer-causing immunosuppressant drugs to suppress her immune system so her body would not reject my marrow. Not only did Aplastic Anemia do tremendous damage to her body, it wreaked havoc on her mind. Doctors told Shannon she would not live passed 40 and would likely be barren. I can’t imagine hearing this as an 18 year-old. Living more than half of her life with a terminal illness resulted in clinical depression and PTSD. She was also told she may develop mental disorders later in life due to her extraordinary illness. As a young adult, her way of dealing with the condition was to not be emotional or vulnerable. She dealt with her illness by pushing it aside and pursuing her academic and career goals, leading many of us to forget that she was ever sick at all. Music, painting, and dancing also played significant roles in my sister’s healing. Shannon viewed dance as therapy. In 2014, she was a research participant in one of my school projects. She tied her connection to music and dancing directly to her illness. She stated, quote, “It’s where problems don’t exist. When you’re not thinking of everything else going on in your life, therefore your anxiety is reduced. Moving and dancing to music makes you happy. You’re not feeling depressed. It’s all about the whole getting lost in the moment. That’s a lot of what Buddhist practice is, staying in the present.” My sister seemed to have found peace in those moments of presence on the dance floor. She also found peace through painting, which she spent a lot time doing the last five years. I think that’s one of the many reasons we all loved Shannon, she made us feel special every moment we were with her. We were present because we felt her presence. In the summer of 2015, Shannon had her first psychotic break. Later that year, she was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder borderline Schizoaffective Disorder. Mental illness would prove to be the battle of Shannon’s life. She really struggled those last few years. During this time, her mind was changing and she was helpless to stop or reverse it. She lost many of her close connections, not because she OR we didn’t want them, but because she was trying to navigate her new reality that included mania, paranoia, and delusions. Losing our mother in 2021 and her dogs Osa and Kiki back-to-back was just too much to handle. She was hurting and trying to survive the only way she knew how, but I know she did not want to hurt herself and what happened was an accident. She told me not too long ago that she knew she was never going to be the same again, and she hated her illness and what it had done to her. It just isn’t fair what happened to Shannon. In the end, I think she felt misunderstood and no longer accepted, and that’s what hurts the most. I think she felt alone, like she didn’t have anyone. That’s the tragedy of mental illness, not just because of what she went through, but it’s hard for us to understand and even when we try to help, relationships suffer. Unfortunately there were no easy answers or quick fixes, and I underestimated her ability to cope with her illness. The transplants may have saved her life before, I just wish I could’ve saved it again. Sometimes I feel I didn’t do enough and maybe I’ll always feel guilt for that. Shannon recently told me she prayed to God frequently to take her. I think she was ready to go. I think she has been ready for a while. She felt she had a bigger purpose beyond this place. She came into our lives briefly, laughed with us, cried with us, danced with us, made us smile, made us feel special, then left as quickly as she arrived. Maybe that was her purpose here, to have a positive impact on all of us by leaving us better than she found us. I suppose death is what makes life beautiful, knowing that our time here is finite, to make the most of it and remember what is important. Shannon reminded us of that. When she died, a part of me died too, but a part of her and our mother will always live on in me because they make up so much of who I am. While my heart is broken that she is gone and I will never see my sister again in this life, a part of me feels that she is no longer suffering and is at peace with our mother in God’s kingdom. Some birds simply aren’t meant for this world, their feathers are too bright. That’s how I’ll always remember Shannon, and God called her home to be with our mother.

Juanita Pearce's eulogy

Written by Christopher Cost Juanita Pearce's eulogy, written with love and forethought by her grandson Christopher, is a wonderful example for those who are looking for a unique way to deliver a eulogy for a loved one. Christopher gives beautiful insight into Juanita's life by describing one of his earliest memories, describing how she was throughout her life, and what kind of emotional impact she had on all those she knew. Her dedication to her family and willingness to sacrifice for the good of others is detailed throughout his tribute. Additionally, Christopher takes the time to address members of the family, a beautiful departure from the standard eulogy format that makes Juanita's eulogy incredibly heartwarming and unique. Visit Juanita's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Juanita's full eulogy below:

Good morning. I am Christopher, Juanita’s grandson from her daughter, Debbie. My nearly 42- year life is right about the length of the job she retired from. She made it to her 89th birthday and then some. From her birth in 1933 to her retirement was just around 60 years. I still have 18 years to get to that point. A lot can happen within that time span. Memory and Truth are funny things. My memory tells me that of all the family, I feel I may have spent the most time with her. The truth is that of all the people that have been in my life, my grandma is the one that has been the most present and participatory. One of my earliest memories of time with my grandma, which is a bit fuzzy at this point in my life, is going to work with her during a summer I was staying with her. She was a manager at Southwestern Bell and visitors had to wear a special badge. What I remember is that I was playing with the alligator clip on the badge and managed to pinch and hurt my finger. I remember my grandma and many other grandmas running to my rescue. I remember my grandma taking me to see these giant catfish that were bigger than me at the time. I remember that I was being a dumb kid and fell and hurt my wrist and she found a way to get me patched up. I still have the scar. My earlier memories may be fuzzy and even failing me, but the truth isn’t: my grandma was always there for me, no matter what. For many of you, perhaps family most of all, that knew grandma before our car accident in 2004, there may be memories of a woman with strong beliefs. You may have memories of her sharing her opinion, and perhaps even memories of some strong judgments and prejudices. For those of us that were especially close to her, we likely also have memories of her always learning and growing into a person that overcame her prejudices. What I remember is she became a woman that even with her opinions, and attitudes, and judgements, never let that get in the way of doing the right thing and rendering aide and support when it was needed. The truth is I’ve only collected two-thirds the memories that my mother and uncle can recall. Her elder sister and only surviving sibling Helen may be able to recall my grandmother’s entire lifetime as memories. The truth is memories are but glimpses and moments and no singular memory or even the collection of memories from a single person will ever adequately define an individual. A lot of you may be blessed by only the last few years of my grandma’s life. I dare say they may be some of the richest blessings you may receive. Truth be told, for as long as I have memories of her, they are made up of sacrifice and offering, one after another. Be it driving to Texas to take care of her grandchildren when my uncle and aunt had to go on a trip or an overnight drive into the mountains of Arkansas to help my mom care for me and my sisters. Or middle of the night runs to the emergency room when one of my sisters or myself had an emergency and mom needed support. No matter the reason, no matter what she was doing, my memories are of a woman who was always there for her family. These last 18 years of my grandma’s life were some of her most challenging. Yet, while she always brought her ornery and cantankerous personality, she also brought every bit of survival fight and strength of character to fill my memories with a woman who scaled an ever-increasing mountain of health and physical and mental challenges. For the 8- and one-half years I directly cared for my grandma following the accident, we tackled daily physical and occupational therapy at my parents’ house and then at the clinic until she could finally return to her own home. We later battled through a relocation to find her and me a new home that was better suited for her ongoing needs and care, to only then face breast cancer before getting into thyroid surgeries. My mother then took over for a few years on daily care before my sister Rebecca took over principal care and support in 2020, just as the pandemic hit. Most of you have your own memories of these last two or three years that I ask for you to recall as I share what I believe of the last few years of my grandma’s life. I believe the truth is that our individual and collective memories tell of a woman that continued to be there no matter what the situation was. They tell of her being a person of support, care, and growth both personally and as an example for everyone around her. And I believe that she will continue to be that person in spirit through the end of each of our lives and the lives of each life we touch. I would like now to speak directly to a some of our family that have been part of Grandma’s daily life and were crucial in the ongoing fight my grandma put up these last 18 years. Kylie, You may never understand how important you were to Grandma Juanita. You were born just ahead of our car accident that changed her life forever. By the time she came to your grandma’s and grandpa’s house for her recovery, you were a source of ongoing reason for her to keep going. I hope that you will from time to time calm your mind and heart to just let her example of love and value for family guide you as you enter your adulthood. RyLee and Lora, She didn’t play favorites often--I should know because I did spend so much time with her--but she does have a special connection with each of you. Ava, Your video calls lighted your Grandma Juanita’s day and gave her a bright smile. To Owen, You don’t understand this today, but Grandma Juanita will always be with you. You were her source of strength and inspiration to keep fighting when her life was turned upside down going from living alone to living with you, your two big sisters and brother, your mom and dad, and the dogs. It was not an easy adjustment for her, but she was able to make that transition because of you. And as your Grandma Debbie and mommy will remind you in the years to come, your partner-in-crime will always be with you, even if you cannot remember her. And, to Kaison and Gavin, the twins, You brought her fresh spirit when her life was yet again shaken with a relocation and then her stroke earlier this year. To my dad, David, Despite your own health, you found the energy to help grandma with her laundry and as always, the two of you continued to keep each other on your toes in conversation. To my brother-in-law Matthew, you helped to clean up messes and did a lot of the heavy lifting with RyLee to relocate her lifetime of things to the new house and storage. To her sister Helen, I know that having a close relationship with you, and your brothers Dillard and Dalford when they were still with us, was very important to her. And, to all of grandma’s family and friends with whom she spoke or saw, there have been so many “cooks in the kitchen,” but she was always grateful for each of you. You each played a role greater than you may know in her ability to continue bringing us blessings and love for 89 years. To my sister Rebecca, who possesses a soul of infinite compassion and caregiving, I want to thank you for the life you were able to let our grandma keep. I may have taken care of her first, but you stepped up and took care of her when she needed support and assistance that allowed her to retain her dignity and privacy in a way a grandson couldn’t provide. And, finally, to her daughter, my mother, You’ve been here as a coordinator and source of medical knowledge and wisdom that completed out and has been no less important than the direct care Rebecca and I provided. Life has thrown you one personal or family health challenge after another, and you have continuing challenges in front of you. Always remember that you too can always calm your mind and heart to allow your mom’s strength and guidance to pick you up when you’re in doubt or facing uncertainty. Death is not the end! It is merely another step we must all take. For those of faith and spirituality that believe Juanita is in Heaven with God, death on Earth is but her means to move to that eternal life. And, for all of us, her death is merely a transition to an ongoing presence on Earth for as long as we each continue to keep her memory within us and grow from her and for as long as you each keep her as part of your truth. In a few hours, some of us will go on a bit of drive to Anadarko to inter her body with her parents and two of her brothers. For as far back as I can remember, this was an annual pilgrimage over Memorial Day weekend. Each year, I can recall the same story as we would pass by Sonic on the highway. Grandma would always remind us that she grew up in a house behind that Sonic. I don’t think that specific Sonic is still there. But for any of you that join us for the burial this afternoon, as you enter Anadarko and see what looks like an old Sonic on your right, let it be a reminder of how precious memories are. For me, I will always remember my grandmother as the woman that took me to the store to get hamburger meat, go home and cook spaghetti and Ragu, spread towels on the floor in front of the TV, and watch movies while we ate on those towels. No matter what memory of her beliefs, opinions, and judgments, I will always know the truth is Grandma loved me, her family, and her friends. The truth is she wasn’t only present, she was actively participating when present. It is in great part through her example and pruning that I am the person I am today. I thank you, Grandma, for every gift and lesson and moment you gave me, and there are nearly 42 years of them to draw on. I love you and carry you with me always!

Barbara Burton Kleinert's eulogy

Written by Christine Maszkiewicz This beautiful eulogy is a wonderful example of how to interweave testament to someone's personality and character with the core occassions of their life. Barbara's eulogy is able to paint a thorough picture of what she enjoyed, what she was passionate about, how she was as a mother, her educational and career choices, and so much more. It's clear that anyone who had the privilege to listen to this eulogy (or to read it in its written form) was given a wonderful opportunity to learn deeply about who Barbara was as a mother, partner, friend, and person. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

Read Barbara's full eulogy below:

Hello everyone, I am Christie Maszkiewicz, Barbara’s daughter. Today we come to honor and remember the life of Barbara Kleinert. My mother passed away four months exactly from the day my father passed away this year. We sit here in the same spot where we held his memorial back in February. It’s surreal. My family is still dealing with raw heartache from his death and now we are all feeling the pain from hers as well. They both left a void in our hearts. My brother and I are now without our dear parents. My nephews have lost both grandparents on their father’s side. It’s been a tough year so far so I want to thank you all for coming out to remember Barbara and to support this family once again while we are all trying to come to terms with such a great loss. I know many people could not make the trip to Colorado for health reasons or travel reasons. Barbara’s sister Laurie, brother Dave and niece Jenny all are here in spirit and watching online from the east coast and beyond. They wish they could be here today. They joined my brother and I and our spouses in the days leading up to my mother’s passing. We sat around her bed and talked with mom and reminisced about our time with Mom. At times I know for sure that Mom heard and reacted to what we were saying. She was surrounded with family and love in her last days and to me that is the most important thing. Love you Laurie, Dave and Jenny. Thank you, guys, for being there and for being here virtually today. My mom, Barbara was a sincere and warm person. She was a daughter, a grandchild, a niece and then a big sister. She was a close friend, a parishioner, a nurse and a teacher. She was a wife, a sister-in-law, an aunt, and a grandma. To many in her life she was a listener, a singer and a hand to hold. To me she was my mom. My mom loved to care for others throughout her life. My aunt Laurie told me one of her earliest memories was Mom, known as Barbie to Laurie, picking her up out of her crib when she was upset one night, holding and comforting her. During my mom’s childhood she grew up feeling unseen and unheard; she felt she didn’t really fit in or live up to her mother’s expectations. Her heart though was full of love, she turned those feelings of hurt into good. She reached out and helped others to make them feel seen, to make them feel heard. Her passion growing up was very much the church and music. She learned piano but found the guitar to be her instrument of choice and she used it throughout her life to bring song into a youth group or on a mission trip. When she was older, she went to nursing school to help others. Giving of herself was her calling. In her mother’s last year’s my mom was by her side and took care of her and the two eventually made peace. My mother was persistent about peace and understanding between those she loved. Mom was always involved in hobbies that helped others; she even met my dad through her volunteering activities. They met at the U.S.O. in New Jersey where she volunteered. Through her giving spirit she and my dad saw each other through some rough early years. Mom worked nights so dad could work and go to school. She juggled raising a young son while working long hours and supporting her husband. Eventually when a second child came along, she stopped working to be a stay-at-home mother and continue supporting her husband as he continued working and pursuing a Master’s Degree. My brother and I don’t have early memories of daycare, we have memories of being home with mom. Memories of being loved and cared for by her. That was a sacrifice she made, family was very important to her and I know we both appreciate the fact that our parents made that choice. When she went back into the workforce, she had to volunteer to get experience, since a Nursing degree wasn’t enough apparently. She volunteered and eventually worked in the school district with severely handicapped children. The passion she had for helping others became a lifelong career. Mom was always devoted to helping others, through her church St. Michaels in Colorado Springs, she joined the prison Ministry Kairos. I remember as a child answering the phone on weekends when mom was away on a Kairos Retreat. I very politely told the caller that mom was not here right now, she was in prison, could I take a message? My parents always got a chuckle out of that. As a child I connected with my mom’s fun spirit. She was childlike in the sense that she found wonder and beauty in the world where ever she went. She loved animals and nature. As child she had a bunny named Thumper that she adored. Later when she married my dad they acquired a pet skunk named Flower….I think we can figure out what name a pet deer may have acquired. Growing up we couldn’t have a dog or a cat since dad was allergic. With two kids and a wife wanting a critter he and mom figured out a way to make a guinea pig work with dad’s allergies. We had a spotted female named Cutie for a time and then we brought home Skeezics, a red spiky haired guinea pig. My mother had so much fun with him. We’d let him run around the living room and race down the hallway of the house. Many times mom had to help dad dismantle the huge sleeper sofa to get the guinea pig out from underneath where he was hiding. My mom would also sing various songs to the guinea pig, especially at treat time. That little pig would squeak so loudly when he heard the song….”What Shall we get for the Pig” since he knew he was getting a tasty treat. When we moved from CO to VA it was very hard on our family. Mom made sure to help us kids adjust and get involved in activities. As a horse crazy 8-year-old I wanted my own pony. The next best thing, riding lessons. My mom was at every single riding lesson camera in hand. She stood at the fence cheering me on as I learned new things like cantering or jumping. When I had my first fall she rushed to my side and as the old adage tells you, encouraged me to get back on. I’m sure as a mother that goes against many instincts to encourage a child to continue something that injured them. That next week she got me up early every morning so I could soak in a warm bath to ease my pain. In VA my mother continued with Kairos Prison missions but also got involved in Therapeutic riding for special needs children. I joined her a few times at the farm helping with the horses. She loved working with the children. They would come alive up on horseback, it relaxed them and they responded to the games mom and other volunteers played to engage the children. The smiles were just as bright on her face as they were on the children’s. My mother continued to love critters even after our family didn’t have any more pets. Our deck in the back of the house was not our deck. We didn’t have patio furniture or a hot tub out there. Nope, we had birds and squirrels lined up on every single railing eating the seeds and peanuts placed out there by mom. At night we ended up having raccoons at times. One evening there must have been 12 raccoons eating the seeds and other goodies mom fed to the critters. A special guest was Petey, a Virginia Opossum. This little critter loved noodles with BBQ sauce a specialty my mother whipped up for for her culinary delight. Mom spent hours taking photos of this sweet little creature. One day the opossum was still there in the morning and we watched her run off the deck to the underside of the front porch. She came back out with 10 babies clinging to her back and headed off into the woods. Mom made sure we all there to see it and she took pictures of the spectacle. Growing up loving animals just like my mother I didn’t have to look far to find a fuzzy or feathery friend to enjoy. My mother would often take in the birds that flew head first into the window. She would let them rest in a darkened aquarium until they came out of shock and then released them back to the woods. One such incident occurred with a little Tufted Titmouse, aptly named Tufty. He hit the window and needed help. When mom went to catch him, the little guy flew into the house and into the powder room that I was just exiting. My mom and I spent 15 minutes trying to catch that little bird to get him back outside. As I got older and moved on to college and beyond, I acquired the pets I didn’t have growing up, the fuzzy allergy triggering ones. My mother and father loved their grand-dog Spencer. He was a silly little Jack Russell Terrier. Mom never begrudged the fact that I didn’t want children of my own she accepted her four legged grandchildren. Every time I brought Spencer over you would hear the shrill voice of mom bellowing “Grand-Dog! Grand-dog”. He certainly was a spoiled grandchild. When I finally got my pony, my mother was there to meet her, happy as a clam to see me with Daenerys and to share the moment. My mother was constantly documenting our lives with photos. This was before digital photos which now everyone takes pictures of EVERYTHING. My mom invented that; out would come the camera and us kids would groan. Now we have boxes and boxes of memories to sort through that I know we will cherish as we walk down memory lane and thank her for being the shutterbug she was. Kodak stayed in business for a long time because of mom! My mother was the ever-present cheerleader and moral compass of our family. She brought a light to our lives, she often instigated fun but was also patient when we stepped out of line. Surviving my teenage years is a testament to the patience and love my mother had for her family. One hard part I’ve learned about losing someone is having to go through their belongings. Though I will state this act can shed light on memories that will warm the heart. So honestly this burden is one my brother and I are happy to take on. While looking through some books I came across a note mom wrote. She made many notes and comments in nearly every book she read. This particular note though was about parenting. She wrote that parents will make many mistakes. These mistakes shouldn’t really matter if the child knew they were loved. And mom, yes….we knew we were loved. Very much so. This year has been a hard year but with all the tragedy and difficult times we’ve had to endure, this year has been a year full of love, last moments and memories. I cherish these memories and they bring me comfort that there was so much love. I hope each of us can reflect on the memories we have of my Mom, Barbara….and that those feelings can bring us all comfort. We will love you forever Mom. We will love you forever.

Barbara Fritsche Olmanson's eulogy

Written by Leif Olmanson Written in the form of detailed descriptions of different memories Leif had with his mother, Barbara's eulogy is a perfect example of the how the accumulation of small moments woven together end up creating a beautiful landscape of a life well lived. Leif's description of each memory that he cherished with his mom is a perfect way for the reader to gain an understanding of the type of woman Barbara was and the effect she had on those around her. For those looking to share a eulogy that's built on memories, Leif's eulogy is a wonderful place to gain inspiration. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

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Remembrances of Mom: When she was ten years old our mother was baptized at St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in New Ulm, but I think one reason she chose the Church of the Holy Communion for our family was because of the beauty of the church and its history. I recall being told that the ceiling was designed to look like an upside-down ship—basically a vessel to bring the parishioners to heaven. And that the stained-glass windows came from England by sailing ships and overland by ox cart. The Dodd family grave in the back of the church evokes pioneer history. Mom had a keen interest in local history, and this Episcopal Church building is a living reminder of that history. The obituary focuses on Mom’s love of travel, especially their long trip to Burma and their service to a disadvantaged part of the world under difficult conditions. I think this was a formative experience for them—at times a trial by fire. In some ways, they must have been different people by the time they returned to resume their life in St. Peter. It was a few months after they returned to St. Peter that I (Leif) was born, and my little sister Lori followed shortly. With six kids you would think that the adventures would stop, but that was not the case. Although sometimes they traveled without the kids, often they brought all of us or some of us along. There were memorable trips to the Boundary Waters, Canada, the Black Hills, Florida, Yucatan, and the Cayman Islands. These trips instilled a sense of travel in all of us. Long after we all left home, when Mom was 70 and my sister Trudi was 40, she decided to fulfill her bucket list. It started with Trudi and Thor traveling with my parents to Ecuador and the Galapagos Islands. Other adventures included Peru - Machu Picchu and Lake Titicaca, Panama (with Trudi and Eric), Norway and Germany (with Trudi and Eric), and Trinidad and Tobago (with Trudi, Leif, and grandkids Britta and Anders) where I made the mistake of calling my parents elderly when we were inquiring about a boat trip. I was set straight by Mom right away but had reason to be concerned since the docks were in bad shape and the captain had to time the waves to get them on and offboard. There were also several trips to Mexico with each of her children and several grandchildren joining them. The most memorable trip was for Mom’s 80th Birthday where Trudi and I were with them for the entire 21-day trip and all but one of the other siblings and Anders joined for a week. We started in Puerto Morales (a great discovery and location we returned to many times for easier traveling as our parents aged) and then went to Tulum. From there we headed to Xcalak (which was one mile from Belize) and ended up staying at a scuba diver training facility which was cool since they had students from around the world and for the diving trips, we were outnumbered by diving instructors. Mom and Dad enjoyed the snorkeling and bird-watching trip. For such a small fishing village they had some great restaurants with some interesting locally sourced gourmet dishes. We were having a great time and I was using my iPod to text my brother Thor to tell him to come to Xcalak. He misunderstood my messaging and indicated he would meet us in Punta Allen. When Mom heard that we were off to meet Thor in Punta Allen. The travel books said the road from Tulum to Punta Allen was anywhere from 1 to 4 hours depending on road conditions. Well from Xcalak we had a 4-hour drive to Tulum and what turned out to be another 4 hours to Punta Allen. (This long drive was the first time I noticed signs of Alzheimer’s in my dad.) Amazing how well my mom and dad were able to cover it from us. So back to the story. It had been raining so the roads were more like small lakes than a road. With mud puddles covering most of the road and as it turns out it was the route for the adventure Jeep tours you would see if you would go on a cruise or to a big resort. So, there we are in our Jetta size car with luggage and five passengers, Anders on the hump in the back seat. Since the few people that lived on this route did not like the jeeps ripping up the road, they would put in Jeep size road bumps to slow them down. So, every time we came upon one, I would stop and have everyone get out of the car to make it over the bump. After we finally got to Punta Allen the streets were not any better since they were also flooded. We met up with Thor and his girlfriend at the time and had a wonderful time with some great food and company. The adventure continued with Schelli, and Lori joining us Back in Puerto Morelos and trips to Chichen itza to recreate childhood photographs and Ek Balam. A great and memorable trip. Other memorable occasions: Dad and Amby were working on the Ford Model As that were being used for Schelli and Amby’s Wedding parade. Right before the ceremony, Mom saw Amby and took him into the bathroom of the church and said no man would marry her daughter with greasy hands, so she helped him scrub the grease off. When she was babysitting Marty when he was 3, he helped her pick berries and make jam. When Schelli picked him up, he had dark red around his mouth, and she said “the jam must have been good”. Mom gave her a funny look and brought a washcloth over and said, I think he got into a Woodtick that fell off the dog. Picking Morel mushrooms, canoeing, her amazing cooking inspired by traveling including braunschweiger dip, kawswe, elderberry Kiekle, Burmese curry, homemade sauerkraut, and her conch ceviche Mom was always willing to go, whether it was dancing, fishing, going to the lake and tubing behind the boat, and paddle boarding at 80, and they really enjoyed garage sales. Mom was an anchor for our family. She took care of us when we were sick, fed us, taught us about nature and history, and encouraged our interests. She was the keeper of holiday traditions, adapting her more German Christmas traditions by adventurously adding her husband’s annual Norwegian delicacy: LUTEFISK. Regular Christmas guests were: Violet, Charles, and Pauline Kinson (Violet’s shrimp paste), Bernie Bornhagen (black mustard for the lutefisk), and other friends we adopted along the way. One Christmas when we all arrived Mom said they had noticed an awful smell in the house. They remembered their Springer Spaniel dog (Spike) had a dead squirrel in the yard. Sure, that she must have brought the carcass into the house they did a thorough search of the house and to their surprise, they discovered a piece of lutefisk under a chair. The dog must have grabbed it out of the bucket it was soaking in. Dad told us that he rinsed it off and put it back in the bucket. We were pretty sure he was joking. Lots of great memories and we will miss her greatly!

Juliann Therese Weimholt's eulogy

Written and read by Josef Weimholt In Juliann's eulogy, Josef does an excellent job at delivering many of the details you'd find in a eulogy in a loving, descriptive, and beautiful way. In addition to thanking the community, describing his mother's impact on those around her and her character, Josef includes a beautiful and creative tribute to his mother with additional context and pledges for what he aims to do in the future to honor his mother. To learn more about Juliann's life, visit her memorial website .

Good morning. Before I begin, I want to take the opportunity, on behalf of our entire family, to thank all of you for being here today—in person, in this beautiful, old church that our mom loved so much, or virtually—to help us celebrate our mom’s life. We’d like to thank everyone who travelled from out of state to be here today, including those on our dad’s side of the family who traveled from as far away as California. Let that sink in for a second—there are people here today who flew from warm, sunny California. To Chicago. In February. To attend the funeral of an in-law, essentially. Now, I know they came in part to support our dad in his time of grief, but I think it really speaks to the impact our mom had on people. And that’s been evident as well in the flood of messages we’ve received since Mom passed, which have come not just from close friends and family, as you’d expect, but from those who worked with her briefly decades ago, those who met her only recently—including members of the Breakers community in Edgewater, where our parents have lived the past couple of years—from friends (and friends of friends) of my sisters and mine who may have met her only once at one of our weddings years ago. So many have reached out with a kind note, a memory, a heartfelt message about how our mom affected them. As everyone here can attest, to meet Mom was to know instantly what a beautiful person she was, inside and out; a kind, caring soul; sharp, funny, and fun to be around; someone who brightened the lives of all those around her. I heard it said recently that grief is simply unexpressed love. The moral, I think, is that grief isn’t something we should avoid or try to overcome, but something we should embrace. If grief really is just a reflection of the love we feel for the person we lost, then we should hope to always feel some measure of grief for our departed loved ones. I like that sentiment; I think there’s some wisdom there, and perhaps some solace for those of us who are grieving our mom’s loss so deeply still. But it got me thinking about that notion of "unexpressed love." Unexpressed love: that was a foreign concept to Mom. Like our dad, she never missed an opportunity to tell my sisters and I how much she loved us, how proud she was of us, how happy we made her, how lucky she was to be our mom. And we always reciprocated—in person, on the phone, over text (including, in recent years, through liberal use of heart emojis in any text with Mom). Now, I don’t know whether that has lessened our grief any, but I do know that I speak for my sisters, our dad, our Aunt Mary Kay, and everyone who was on the other end of those exchanges with Mom, when I say that we are incredibly grateful for each of those moments, each of those expressions of love that my mom would simply not let go unexpressed. It was in that spirit that I set out some time ago to put down in writing exactly what my mom meant to me—an impossible task, to be sure. I regret deeply that I didn’t finish it before she passed, but I’m grateful I can share it here today with her and with all of you. I initially intended for it to be a poem, as that’s the language that she loved best, but I’m afraid I didn’t inherit her poetic voice (or talents). So I ended up with something else, I’m not sure what exactly. But I call it, “My Mother’s Son.” My Mother’s Son I knew it was coming, every time I would visit Mom at work—usually to ask for money for the movies or to pick up the car to meet friends or for some other equally important reason—never just to say hi, or ask about her day, or tell her how much I loved her. (There would always be time for that later, right?) “You must be Julie’s son!” It was probably my nose or the shape of my face; perhaps the hazel eyes or brown, curly hair. At first, I was annoyed. I didn’t want to resemble a short, middle-aged woman—beautiful though she was—and rued the fact that I didn’t inherit a chiseled jawline or muscular physique instead. So I usually just smiled sheepishly. But beyond an amusement at the resemblance, there was something else evident in their tone. “You must be Julie’s son!” The front desk staff, her fellow nurses, the doctors and residents, the custodial workers—they always made sure to tell me how much they loved working with Mom—how kind and skilled she was with patients, how supportive and generous she was with colleagues. They were quick with an anecdote or an expression of admiration. Eventually, I came to embrace the comparisons—proudly wrapping my arm around her (and sometimes giving her a playful pat on top of her head, which by then came up only to my chest) whenever a new friend, colleague, or stranger remarked on the resemblance. In her later years, as her health declined and the Parkinson’s loomed like a storm cloud growing nearer and more ominous by the day, I would reflect often on the connection I shared with my mom, on what it meant to be her son. Apart from any physical traits she may have passed down, I knew she would be leaving for her children and grandchildren something truly precious and rare. Something that couldn’t be simply inherited, but would need to be earned—brought to fruition through the countless small acts and daily decisions that make up a person’s life. Now that she has passed, and I think about the man I strive to be for my own family—for my wife, Sarah, and our daughter, Tessa, who will grow up without having truly known her Ama—I find in my mom’s legacy a clarion call, a beacon guiding my way, a pledge I must continually renew: I will be kind to friends and strangers alike—especially the less fortunate, the marginalized, and the forgotten among us. I will be generous with my time, energy, and resources, and will commit to causes greater than myself. I will laugh, loud and often. My patience will know no bounds. I will smile constantly and exude warmth so that others are uplifted even when I’m down. I will be selfless and unfailingly loyal. I will not swoon at the sight of blood, but will swoon over a mariachi band (or really any live music). I will create. I will nurture. I will dance with enthusiasm. I will be open to all things, and constantly seek out new adventures, foods, cultures, and people. I will find happiness in the simple things, and peace in nature. When my health fails me or curveballs inevitably come my way, I will put on a brave face to spare my loved ones their worry, and will fight with a strength and tenacity that will make them proud. I will laugh some more, through everything. I will be grateful for all that I have been given. I will love, and be loved, and the world will be a richer, better place for my having been here. I will, I pray, truly and forever be my mother’s son.

Richard "Dick" Floyd Messalle's memorial speech

Written and read by Renee Messalle In this memorial speech, there are plenty references to memories, passions, hobbies, and delights that Richard took part in during his time. These references help paint a loving and broad picture of what Richard's life was like and the kind of person he was. In addition to the personal stories shared, Renee also includes a beautiful poem at the start which kicks off the metaphor of the Train of Life for the rest of the memorial speech. To learn more about Richard's life, visit his memorial website .

Welcome everyone. Thank you so much for coming today. Carl and I wanted to share a few memories about our Dad before the service started. I wanted to start off by reading this lovely poem that I saw recently. Train of Life At birth, we boarded the train of life and met our parents, and we believed that they would always travel by our side. However, at some station, our parents would step down from the train, leaving us on life's journey alone. As time goes by, some significant people will board the train: siblings, other children, friends, and even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we won't realize that they vacated their seats! This train ride has been a mixture of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. A successful journey consists of having a good relationship with all passengers, requiring that we give the best of ourselves. The mystery that prevails is that we do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. Thus, we must try to travel along the track of life in the best possible way -- loving, forgiving, giving, and sharing. When the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty -- we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who continue to travel on the train of life. And let’s remember to thank our God for giving us life to participate in this wonderful train ride. I am so glad that I was on my Dad’s train for 51 years. And thanks to those that joined the train at one time or another. His stop and his step down was so very unexpected for us – but he left so many great memories, and we are so grateful he stepped off on a high note! We have all loved hearing what others thought of my Dad – and am so happy that it was what we knew of him. The prevailing theme – he was such a kind and gentle and smart person. And several people said he was a “Renaissance Man”. And I totally agree – he loved to learn and knew a lot about everything. He was so happy in his recent move to Greenspring where he had a big office surrounded by at least 1,000 of his books, all in one room. And most importantly my Dad loved math and data. He had a bachelor and master’s degree in Math. He worked for the Navy using his math skills. And in going through things in his office – we saw that my Dad doodled math everywhere. And he did at least a sudoku a day. I have great memories of him helping us as kids with homework, which he enthusiastically did, and especially of course with math. My high school friends even fondly remember his tutoring us in math. After retirement, he even spent many years tutoring various students – even his grandsons. Just recently he helped Brandon and me with some math homework and sent us detailed descriptions and steps to help us. And he was still the volunteer Treasurer for the Four Corners neighborhood association, which he had been doing for many years. After grad school with his advanced degree in Mathematics, he met my Mom on their first day of work at US Navy, David Taylor Model Basin as they were both trying to find the math lab! My Mom worked there until I was born. And then, when I was looking for a summer job in college, I decided to apply where my Dad worked. This turned out to be the start of my government career as well, and I eventually worked in the same Directorate with my Dad for the summers and then for 7 years after college. It was a great chance for us to know and see each other in different ways, learn what my Dad did at work, have similar co-workers, etc. After my Dad retired, he had so much fun taking liberal art classes at the community college. He also loved going to see plays with my Mom, so they both ushered at various local theaters for over 30 years. And he even directed and acted in some community theater plays. Despite my Dad’s quiet demeanor – he definitely had had a wild and adventurous side …. He loved rollercoasters. Even as recent as about 5- 10 years ago, he was still going on roller coasters and rides at Disney and Universal with my husband and niece and Brandon, and even on the water slides at the water parks. When we were younger, he took us on a hot air balloon ride. He loved to bike – biked to work, biked with friends, biked long distance rides of 100 miles, and biked as a family. He did Hang gliding for a while – and even bought one. I remember playing in fields while my Dad would hang glide off of small hills. He even bought a Unicycle. He also loved science fiction, and he introduced us to Star Wars as kids. And I was able to take my parents to the new Disney Star Wars theme park in February, right before Covid. And I just took him to the movie theater at Thanksgiving to see the new Dune movie, which he loved. My Dad was always around and involved when we were younger. We always had family dinners, he made breakfast every Sunday (where I was introduced to and then loved scrapple), he washed the dishes every night for my Mom, and was always willing and around to assist us with our school and homework. And then he continued to be present and involved in my life as a grandfather to Brandon, especially since we lived somewhat close by. He set such a great example for me of what a father and what a spouse should be. And I am so happy that he met the love of his life, and that he and my Mom had such a wonderful marriage of 53 years – best friends - truly soul mates. In summary, my Dad had a fun life on that train for 79 years, sharing 55 of those years (70% of his life) with my Mom! He left many great memories for me and for others. Thanks Dad – I love you and you will be missed.

Following you will find some eulogy examples, with most of them being short eulogy examples. Shorter eulogies can become longer simply by adding in stories and memories that you hold dear or different aspects of your loved one’s life you’d like to share.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with [Name]’s friends, family, and others in remembering [his/her] life.

I met [Name] [number] years ago at [description of meeting location]. I immediately liked [Name]’s [sense of humor / personality / presence] and knew we would make fast friends. Once, when we were [description of memory], [Name] turned to me and said “[Quote]”.

[Longer description of memory]

After we met, I [description of life after meeting person] and [he/she] went on to [description of what they did]. When [Name] met [spouse], everything changed. [He/she] became [description] and was one of the best [husbands/wives/fathers/mothers] a family could ask for.

I know I’ll always miss my best friend and that no one can replace [him/her]. With that, I’d like to leave you all with one of [Name]’s favorite quotes, by [author]: “[quote]”. Thank you.

[Name] was my best friend, confidante, partner in crime, and one of the best people I’ve ever had the honor to know. I first met [Name] in [location] and we quickly became fast friends. We shared a love of [hobby] and a desire to [description], something that very few others connected with me on.

[Name] taught me a lot about [description], something I will never take for granted. Our other friends refer to [Name] and describe [him/her] as [description]. What I know for certain is that anyone who knew [Name], knew how [brave/special/funny/kind/unique] they were. You don’t meet someone like that every day.

One of my most cherished memories with [Name] was the time we [description]. If not that, then it’s definitely the time we [description].

I want to thank you all for gathering today in honor of [Name], I know it would’ve meant the world to [him/her]. Let’s honor [his/her] memory by continuing to spread love in this world and to try our best each and every day. Thank you.

For those who don't know me, [Name] and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We grow up in [town] together, lived down the street from one another, and went to the same schools from elementary to high school. We planned on going to the same college together (but [Name] was smarter than I and got into some schools I didn't). We weren't just friends, we were [brothers/sisters].

When I was younger, [Name] used to take me to [area]. We'd play [game] and sit out in the field, talking about [subject] for hours on end. [Name] was there for my life's most important events. [He/she] was there for [list out important life events] and always remembered my birthday and other important anniversaries. [He/she] was beyond thoughtful -- [he/she] was one of the kindest and most compassionate people I've ever met and will ever meet.

Losing [Name] is akin to losing a family member. [He/she] is irreplaceable and their loss is felt deeply, more than words can ever describe. At the same time, I know [Name] would hate it if they saw me up here crying, talking only about their loss and ignoring all the wonderful things [he/she] did with their precious time here on Earth. So, I'd like to take this time, to thank [Name] for everything [he/she] taught me: [list out lessons or important takeaways]

Let's honor [Name's] memory today (and all days) by being kind to one another and remembering the struggles that we all have to face during our time here.

Joie and I met before we were born -- our mothers were in the same prenatal group and bonded over their hatred of the lack of sushi in their lives. We were born only a few days apart, spent our first years of life held by each other's moms and had almost no chance in not becoming great friends. Little did our moms know -- they'd given us more than friendship when they became friends. They'd made us family -- sisters.

Both of our families had decided to only have one child, so Joie and I filled the void that every only-child experiences. She was my sister, through and through. I was there for every one of her life's major accomplishments (and letdowns). She returned the favor in kind. Joie was my support through my first relationship, my first heartbreak, my first degree, my first marriage (and second!) and my first child. I was there for so many of her firsts, seconds, and thirds in life. That's the kind of person Joie was. Supportive. Constant. Foundational. She was my rock and the rock for so many people around her.

Even in death, Joie knew we'd be lost without her support. Her husband, Robbie, is constantly finding small notes that Joie left behind, just little reminders that she still cares for him and is supporting him, despite this complication we call existence. Two days after Joie was diagnosed with cancer, she gave me a call. She told me to sit down and to get ready for the "shit to hit the fan". I thought it was just another rant about her job or some stupid thing she saw at the store or a 30 minute monologue on the downfall of American reality TV.

When she told me she had cancer, I nearly passed out. But she explained to me that now, more than ever, she needed me to be the strong one. Not just for her, but for her husband, for her family, and for myself. She told me not to embarass her in this eulogy, so I'll restrain myself from doing that by going over the top. Please just know, if you're here today, you meant something to Joie. If you're here today, you matter and are important. If you're here today, please honor Joie's memory by being the rock for someone else in your life.

Joie, I love you so, so much. I can't wait to see you again.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with our friends, family and community and join in remembering [Name]'s life and ongoing legacy.

I met [Name] at [location] around [number] years ago and instantly knew we'd become lifelong friends.

We spent all our time during that summer [description of activities] and the following years were spent periodically visiting [location] and inviting friends out for our annual [description of trip].

[Name] was the kind of person who you never forget. [He/she] was [describe personality]. [He/she] instantly made people feel like [description]. [He/she] was endlessly [selfless, loving, caring, etc.].

I know this loss is one that runs deep for many of us gathered here today, but I also know that [Name] wouldn't want us to sit around mourning [his/her] loss and instead would want us to look towards the future and think on what we can do to make this world a better place.

In [his/her] memory, let's try our best.

For those who don't know me, [Name] was my childhood best friend. We met when we were [age] and instantly connected. We bonded over [subjects], we spent summers at [location] and I could almost always be found at [his/her] house on the weekends. I spent so much time at [Name]'s house that I was known as [his/her] [brother/sister], even by [his/her] parents own admission.

A lifelong friendship is incredibly hard to find and even harder to live without once you've experienced it. To say that this loss is hard is an understatement. [Name] was one of the [describe personality] people I've ever met. [He/she] was unique. [He/she] was hilarious. [He/she] was irreplaceable.

For all those that are gathered with me today, I ask that you join me in honoring [Name]'s life by practicing the values they held so dear. Be kind, be loving, enjoy life, and live life slowly.

Before I get started, I wanted to thank each and every one of you for showing up to honor and remember the incredible life of [Name]. If you knew [Name] (which, if you didn't, why are you here?), you know how magnetic they truly were. Standing up here with only a few minutes to speak on how amazing they were and what they meant to me feels impossible. How can I describe [Name] in a way that's accurate? How can I sum up the impact they had on me, on those around them, on the field of [career field], on the world? It's a near impossible task, so I decided to list out the top 10 things I appreciated most about [Name]. I plan on integrating these top 10 things into the way I treat others as a way of honoring their memory.

Things I learned from [Name]:

Thank you for joining me and listening to me today. I hope you take some of these values and ways of being with you.

Memories of [Name]

Instead of a standard eulogy, I wanted to use this time to share some of my most cherished memories of [Name]. These are ones I've picked out intentionally as I feel they best represent the type of person [Name] was, at least to me. While not all of these memories are ""positive"", they are the ones that have stuck with me the most.

[List memories]

We are gathered here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable young man, who was taken from us far too soon. [Name] was a 25-year-old Marine, who loved hunting, woodworking, and theater. He had a stoic, but kind personality that drew people to him, and he had a deep passion for nature, exploration, and family.

[Name] was a skilled hunter, who spent many hours in the woods, quietly observing the world around him. He had a deep respect for nature and all of its creatures, and he loved nothing more than being out in the wilderness, breathing in the fresh air, and feeling the sun on his face.

In addition to his love for hunting, [Name] was also a talented woodworker, who enjoyed creating beautiful objects out of wood. He had an eye for detail and a steady hand, and his creations were always stunningly beautiful.

But perhaps most of all, [Name] loved theater. He was a gifted actor, who had a way of bringing his characters to life, and he had a deep appreciation for the art of storytelling. He loved nothing more than being on stage, basking in the spotlight, and entertaining his audience.

Throughout all of his endeavors, [Name] was guided by his dedication to his family. He was a loyal son, a devoted brother, and a loving friend, who always put the needs of others before his own. He had a heart of gold, and he never hesitated to lend a helping hand or a listening ear to those in need.

[Name] was a remarkable young man, who touched the lives of all those who knew him. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those he loved. Rest in peace, [Name]. You will always be remembered.

First, I want to thank everyone here for showing up today. It means a lot.

Losing my dad is one of the most difficult hardships I’ve ever had to go through. That being said, this process has made me realize just how lucky I was to have a father like [Name]. Without his example, encouragement, advice, and love, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am eternally grateful for his life as an example for how I should live my own.

My dad was difficult to sum up in a few words, but some that come to mind are: [hardworking/gentle/loving/caring/strong/hilarious/funny/serious/crafty/intelligent]. When I was younger, we’d spend time [description of memory]. That’s where I first learned to [description of skill].

I remember once when I was younger, we [description of memory].

Dad, you will never be forgotten. Our family is eternally lucky to have had you as the head of our family. We will honor your memory by [way you’re going to honor memory].

Thank you all for coming today.

Growing up, my father was always [description of attitude / personality]. My friends would always say that he was [description of friends’ thoughts]. His coworkers would describe him as [description]. But to me, he was just my dad.

One of my favorite memories with him is when we [memory description].

Another time, we went to [memory description].

Those are the times that I keep in mind whenever I think of my dad, some of the best times of my life. It’s impossible to describe the amount of love I hold in my heart for my father, so I’ll leave it to someone else to describe for me. In the words of [author name], “[Quote]”.

Hello, everyone. Before I get started, I just wanted to acknowledge everyone's presence today. It means so much to me and to my family that you decided to be here with us today to remember my father's life. I know he's smiling on us from above and is absolutely thrilled that so many of you showed up today to remember him.

My dad is impossible to sum up -- we'd be here all day if I had the opportunity to share with you all all the wonderful things he did, taught, and accomplished in his life. To spare you all from that (and to shield you from watching me cry for a few hours) I've decided to restrict this to a short list of some of my favorite qualities of my dad. Without further ado, here's the things that made my dad the man he was:

• My dad taught me and my brothers the meaning of what is was to be a man.
• He was compassionate and kind, funny yet stoic, bubbly yet reserved, and quietly bonded our family together through difficult storms and joyful moments.
• He was the BEST on the grill and 5 year winner of the Best Chili award at our annual chili cookoff.
• He hated the Patriots, with a passion.
• He'd sneak out in the middle of the night when we were younger to take us to midnight premiers of our favorite movies -- much to Mom's dismay.
• He once drove over 500 miles to help me move out from an ex's apartment -- again, in the middle of the night.
• He was known by my entire group of friends as "The Cool Dad".
• Even during his last months, he was ensuring me and my brothers knew what to expect, knew what was coming, and what our responsibilities to each other were.
• His family was the most important thing in his life.
• My mom was the love of his life and never failed to put a twinkle in his eye.

My dad is the reason I am the person I am today. He was endlessly encouraging, loving, caring, and intelligent. To lose him is to lose a piece of who I am, though I know he's with me in spirit. Thank you once again for showing up to support our family and remember this great man.

[Author] once said, "[Inspirational quote]". Little did he know, this quote would go on to be the foundation of my father's life.

While most knew my dad as a [descriptor] person, those closest to him knew him for his [kindness, bravery, love, caring, tenderness, softness, etc]. A man of few words and many talents, my father spent much of his life in [work / career description] and caring for [his children/family/wife/etc.]. His greatest love in life was [Name] and his favorite pasttime was [pasttime]. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and not a day goes by that I'm certain the world is worse off without him in it. Losing my dad has taught me two things: [list lessons]

Thank you all for joining me, please tell your parents how much they mean to you and please do kindness, wherever you can.

My father was not an easy man. He was someone who hated the idea of small talk, celebrated people who worked hard (but knew when to take a break), and would be more than happy if no one talked to him for months, leaving him to read through his favorite detective novels.

His life could also not be described as easy. My father grew up poor, he lost his own father at the young age of 8 and had a mother who could be described as absent (at best). His youth was spent attempting to make ends meet through illegal jobs he held while attending school. He ended up dropping out of highschool in order to pursue a job as a dishwasher and support himself.

It was at this point that he met my mother, who seemed to be one of the only people on the planet who could charm my dad. He described her as "The first sense of relief I felt on this earth." and would refer to her as the love of his life for the rest of his life. He did his best to shield me and my brothers from the harsh upbringing he endured. He pushed us to attend college, he pushed us to stay in school, and he pushed us to cherish those in our family -- something he never had.

He worked hard to get to where he was and without a doubt, could be described as a successful man. My father was resilient, generous, and reserved. Though he was a man of few words, he made sure that my brother and I knew we were important, were loved, and were cherished.

I love you Dad and I hope you rest easy. You did a wonderful job.

Lessons from [Name]

Instead of delivering a 20 minute eulogy on my father, that I know he would've hated, I've instead decided to share some of the lessons he taught that could go on to help others. These are lessons that have helped me navigate this life and are lessons I'll cling to now that he's gone. If they resonate with you, please feel free to take them for your own. I love you, Dad.

[List lessons]

My father laid the foundation for my life as a man. He took the lessons his father taught him (rather harshly), picked them up, brushed them off, and buffed them, turning them into the lessons he shared with me (much less harshly than his father did). He was patient. He was kind. He was handy. He was incredibly intelligent and well-spoken, yet preferred to let others speak. If there was a party, you'd often find him on the balcony, in the backyard, or in a corner somewhere, people watching and smiling kindly at anyone who wandered near him. He preferred learning above all else and would most often be seen in his study, with ten different books at varying stages of being read. I owe my father everything and I credit my success in life to the way he raised me, each and every day. To lose him, means to lose a piece of myself. Dad, I love you.

To say my dad meant the world to me is an understatement. A man of few words, and even fewer faults -- he was the stoic figure in my life, the foundation that stayed true no matter what was thrown at him, and the reason I became the woman I am today. I learned to let things go, to love people who loved me back, to befriend those without, and to stay close to those who mattered. My dad meant everything to me, and more. Rest in peace, Dad.

We all dream of having a mother who is kind, loving, and genuine. [Name] was exactly that type of mother. She guided us through years and years and years of hardship, difficulty, joy, and achievement. Our mother was the foundation of our family and without her, it’s difficult to know what to do or what comes next.

I’ll miss her [laugh/smile/generosity/humor/jokes/other descriptor], but am lost without her [guidance/thoughts/advice/other descriptor]. I know we’ll all miss her [insert personality trait or something she was known for].

One of my absolute favorite moments was when my mom [description of memory].

Another one of our family's favorite memories with [Name] was when she [description of memory].

Thank you all for showing up today to honor my mother’s memory and legacy. I know it would’ve warmed her heart to see you all here and I appreciate it greatly. In the words of my mother, “[quote]”

It is an impossible feat to sum up the importance that one’s mother has in one’s life, so I’d like to instead, share some of my favorite memories that I had with my mother. Before I start, let me give you a breakdown of the type of woman my mom was. [Name] was [hardworking/intelligent/ferocious/hilarious/kind/gentle/etc.]. She was always [description] and she never [description]. Her top three favorite things were: [name three things]. One of my favorite memories with my mom was the time we [description]. This is followed closely by the time we [description]. Her [smile/laugh/voice] would light up a room and bring joy to those around her. Her presence was deeply felt and her loss is almost too much to bear. So thank you to everyone who decided to come here today, it means the world to me. One of my mom’s favorite quotes is from [name of author]. It reads, “[quote]”. I’d like to leave you with that today as we celebrate my mother. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today as I navigate the impossible task of summing up the life of someone incredible, in only a few minutes.

I guess I'll start by sharing one of my favorite moments with [Name]. I was [age] and had just [descriptor]. My mom took me to [location], one of my favorite spots. We had just gone to [location] the previous year, so this was a nice change. We spent the day [descriptor], working on [descriptor] and eating [food]. At night, we [description] and met with [people you met with].

Nights like this weren't uncommon with Mom -- she constantly made sure we had the most fun possible whenever we could. Her free time was spent supporting us, cheerleading for us, driving us to various activities, picking us up, hosting sleepovers, paying for our (many) mistakes, and being known to all as "the best Mom". My friends have all insisted I was blessed with her as my mom, and I know this to be true.

Today, I want us to join together to remember that. To remember the kind of woman she was and the kind of person she taught me and everyone who knew her to be. A woman of joy, light, kindness and warmth. A woman of love and positivity and a ray of sunshine that will be so desperately missed from this world. Mom -- I love you.

To my mother,

I miss you so much. You were the glue that held our family together. You were always there for me when I needed you. I am so grateful to have had you in my life.

You were an amazing woman and an even better mother. I will never forget all the things you taught me. I will never forget your unconditional love and support.

I know you are in a better place now, but I still wish you were here with us. I know that we will see each other again one day, but until then, I will cherish all of our memories together.

I love you, mom.

My mother was the most incredible woman I have ever known. She always supported me in everything that I did, and she was my biggest cheerleader. I know that she is up there looking down on me now, watching over me and guiding me as I navigate through life without her by my side.

Although my mother is no longer with us in this life, I know that she lives on in the memories that I have of her, and the love and support that she gave me throughout my life. She was strong, kind, and warmhearted, and I will always treasure the time we spent together.

I know that it is difficult to lose someone so important to you, but my mother's memory will live on forever in my heart. In her honor, I plan to spend the rest of my days living a life full of kindness and compassion, just as she did. She will never be forgotten.

I am so grateful to have had such an amazing mom, and I know that I will never be able to forget all of the wonderful things she taught me throughout my life. We will cherish all of the amazing memories we have of her until we meet again someday.

Hello all. Before I get started, I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has decided to join us today (and even those who reached out and mentioned they couldn't make it). We're gathered in this beautiful location to celebrate my mom's life. For all of those who decided to travel long distances, who reached out to us during our time of need, and who took the time to help us get this set up -- you have no idea how much this has meant to our family.

What's been most clear to me during this difficult time is simply the staggering amount of people my mom influenced, cared for, and loved. So many folks, even those she hasn't seen in over a decade, have written in and let us know the impact she had on their lives. To say she made you feel loved, seen, and appreciated at all times was an understatement. She was the pillar of our family, a pillar of her community, and would take each and every opportunity available to her to make those around her feel supported and seen.

This has been one of the hardest times our family has gone through and I'm so warmed to know all these bright and smiling faces here today. Thanks for coming to honor my mom.

To lose a mother is to lose a piece of your soul. My mother was no exception. Some would say our relationship was too close and my father used to warn me against "relying" on her too much, since he was trying to protect me from this exact day. My mom was the center of my life and without her, I feel lost. I'm angry, I'm confused, and I miss her so, so, very much. I want to ask each and everyone one of you visiting today, who took the time out of your busy schedules to show your support to my family -- please huge your parents. Please resolve any unresolved issues you currently have, if you love them -- none of it matters. Once you don't have the opportunity to make amends, it feels like everything was so silly. Mom, I miss you, I love you, and I'm lost without you.

Friends and family, today we gather to remember and honor the remarkable life of a woman who truly made a difference in this world. She was a devoted mother, a compassionate humanitarian, and an inspiration to all who knew her.

As we heard from her obituary, this incredible woman faced immense tragedy at a young age, losing her husband in a tragic accident. But instead of giving up, she channeled her grief into a powerful force for good. She joined the Peace Corps, dedicating her life to helping those in need in underdeveloped countries around the world. Her commitment to service was unwavering, and she spent years traveling the world, spreading love and kindness wherever she went.

But she was not only a humanitarian. She was a devoted mother to her son, who was her greatest joy in life. She instilled in him the values of kindness and compassion, and he is a testament to her incredible parenting.

Though we mourn her loss, we can take comfort in knowing that her legacy lives on. She touched so many lives with her kindness, generosity, and unwavering dedication to making the world a better place. She will be deeply missed, but her memory will always be a source of inspiration for us all. Rest in peace, dear friend.

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Chef Kimmino, a beloved chef who has left us too soon. Chef Kimmino was a true culinary artist, whose passion and creativity inspired all who had the pleasure of experiencing their dishes.

Sadly, Chef Kimmino's battle with breast cancer came to an end at the age of 45. But let us not mourn their passing. Instead, let us celebrate the life they lived and the joy they brought to countless individuals through their delicious and unforgettable meals.

Chef Kimmino was a true master of their craft, always experimenting with new flavors and techniques to create dishes that were both innovative and mouth-watering. Their culinary creations were a reflection of their adventurous spirit, and they were never afraid to push the boundaries of traditional cooking.

But Chef Kimmino's impact went beyond their culinary talents. They were a mentor and inspiration to many aspiring chefs, always encouraging them to pursue their passion and follow their dreams. They were also a philanthropist, using their talents to give back to the community by donating their time and resources to various charities and organizations.

Chef Kimmino's passing is a great loss to the culinary world and to all who knew and loved them. But we can take comfort in knowing that their legacy will live on through the countless lives they touched with their passion and generosity.

So let us honor Chef Kimmino's memory by continuing to share their love of food and cooking with others. Let us keep their spirit alive by embracing their adventurous approach to life and always striving for excellence in all that we do.

Rest in peace, Chef Kimmino. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

We’ve all heard the heartwarming stories many have about just how great their [grandmother/grandfather] was, but I’m here to tell you today that mine was the best. Our [grandma/grandpa], [Name] was such a classic [grandma/grandpa] that it’s almost too difficult to believe. [She/He] was the best at [baking/cooking/fixing things/trips/parties/crafts/giving advice/etc]. [She/He] made the most amazing [food/hobby]. [She/He] also was a part of many clubs, including [list of clubs]. Loved by everyone around [him/her], [name] was the star of the show from the very beginning. When [she/he] was young, [she/he] participated in [activity]. As [she/he] grew older, [she/he] became a fan of [description of hobby/interest]. As [her/his] grandchildren, we were lucky enough to spend time with [him/her] doing [description of time spent]. Now that [she’s/he’s] gone, a hole is left in our hearts and in our souls, but we know we will see [her/him] again soon. One of [name]’s favorite passages was, “[passage]”. I think that sums up who [she/he] was quite well. Thank you all for being here today and I know that [Name] would’ve been in tears just seeing all of you who loved and cared for [her/him] show up for [her/him] today.

My [grandmother/grandfather] was one of those women who [description]. [She’s/He’s] incredibly difficult to sum up in just a few words so I’ll do my best. To start with, my [grandmother/grandfather] was most known for [his/her] [description of something they were known for]. Every single person who came into contact with [her/him] would tell me stories about how [he/she] would [story] and [story].

My favorite memory with [her/him] was the time we went to [description of memory].

I’ll always remember [her/him] as a [loving/caring/kind/gentle/wise/intelligent/hilarious] soul who would try [her/his] best each and every day to put a smile on the faces of others.

For those of you who knew my [grandmother/grandfather], you knew just how special and important [she/he] was to our family. I thank you all for spending time with us here today in honor of [her/him] and the person [she/he] was.

My grandmother was an amazing woman. She was always so kind and loving, and I will never forget all of the wonderful moments we shared together. I am so grateful to have had her in my life, and I know that she will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

She was a strong and independent woman, who always put others first. She was always there for me when I needed her, and she was such an important part of my life. I know that she is now at peace, and I take comfort in knowing that she will always be with me in spirit.

Those who knew her, knew how much she loved her family, and she was always so proud of us. She was the heart of our family, and we will never be the same without her. We will cherish all of the memories we have of her, and keep her in our hearts always.

Thank you for everything, Grandma. I love you so much.

My grandmother was one of the most influential people in my life and the lives of so many others. Never one to back down from a fight, she spent almost her entire life dedicated to trying to improve our system, to the best of her ability.

Whether this was through community service, time spent volunteering, or simply being a listening ear to those who needed one, her time spent on this planet was time spent caring for others.

I want to honor my grandmother's legacy by continuing in her footsteps and ask all here to do the same. Be kind to each other. Find ways to help those who cannot help themselves. Figure out how to invite joy into your life and how to cultivate it in the lives of those around you.

Grandma, thank you so much for being the bright soul that you so were. I adore you always and forever.

Before I get started, I wanted to say thank you to every single one of you who has shown up today to honor the life of my grandmother, [Name]. Each and every one of you meant something to her and I know that you know that, without a doubt.

Now, to the hard part -- summing up the life of such an accomplished, loving, and special woman. [Name] -- you were one of the most unique and special souls that has ever graced this earth. Everyone who encountered you immediately felt like one of your best friends. You held that special talent of conversing easily with strangers, of making newcomers feel like oldtimers, and of holding space for anyone and everyone that needed it. I have run into so many people that have said to me, "I'm so sorry for your loss, [Name] was one of my best friends." I've heard this phrase so often it's astounded me -- how did [Name] have so many best friends?! It's because she was special and she knew how to make others feel just as special.

To say the loss we've suffered is great is an understatement -- there is no way to describe the hole that is left by her passing. That being said, I aim to honor her life and legacy by attempting to make others feel just as loved, held, and cared for as she made them feel. I invite everyone here, to do just the same. Thank you.

I know my grandmother would be rolling in her grave if she could see me up here giving her even the slightest bit of praise. Always one to tut at any kind of recognition of her good deeds, she'd absolutely hate that we were all gathered here today to do just that. I can say, without a doubt, that my grandmother was the love of my life. She was the first person to make me feel like I had a home and a place in this world. She encouraged me to pursue my passions, no matter what they were. She was the first person I called when I decided to switch majors at college. She was the first person I called when I needed relationship advice, or advice on how to fix my toilet, or instructions on how to change a tire. She was endlessly crafty, knowledgeable, loving, and hilarious. She hated sad movies and loved a good horror film. Her church group referred to her as "The Old Commander" because she was so stringent in getting them to submit their projects on time. It didn't matter if it was for a church potluck or a wedding reception, she kept people in line and kept all of us in her orbit. Grandma, I love you endlessly and have no idea how I'm to navigate this scary world without you by my side. But I know you're out there, somewhere, looking over me. I love you.

Ladies and Gentlemen, friends and family, we gather here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable man, a loving grandfather, and a proud veteran - [Grandfather's Name]. He lived a full and fulfilling life, filled with joy, laughter, and countless precious memories that will be cherished by all who knew him.

[Grandfather's Name] was born in San Francisco and spent his early years exploring the city and all that it had to offer. He was an adventurous spirit, always eager to try new things and see new places. When he was called to serve in World War 2, he answered the call with bravery and honor, defending our country and our way of life. His service to our nation was a testament to his character, and it was a source of great pride for him throughout his life.

When [Grandfather's Name] returned home from the war, he began a new chapter in his life, one filled with family, friends, and all the things he loved. He was blessed with five grandchildren, and he cherished each and every one of them, spending countless hours camping, fishing, and exploring the great outdoors with them. His love of nature was second only to his love of his family, and he always took time to share his knowledge and appreciation of the natural world with those he loved.

[Grandfather's Name] was also a talented artist and woodworker. He spent many hours in his workshop, creating beautiful pieces of art and furniture that will be cherished by his family for generations to come. His passion for creating was matched only by his love of giving, and every year he donned a Santa Claus suit to bring joy to children in his community.

In the end, [Grandfather's Name] passed away peacefully in Florida at the age of 82, surrounded by the love of his family. He left behind a legacy of love, kindness, and generosity that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. Today, we say goodbye to a beloved grandfather, a proud veteran, and a true friend. May he rest in peace and may his memory live on in our hearts forever.

Today, we gather to honor and remember the life of Louis Pereira, a Senior Program Manager and passionate writer. Louis had a love for writing, a passion that he was able to pursue in his final years, penning over six short novels that were close to his heart.

Though Louis may be gone, his legacy lives on through his family, particularly his two beloved grandchildren. His kindness, wisdom, and love will continue to guide them throughout their lives.

Louis's dedication to his work and his commitment to his passions serve as an inspiration to all of us. He was a beloved member of the community, known for his compassion and his willingness to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

As we say goodbye to Louis, we take comfort in the memories he has left behind and the impact he has had on our lives. May he rest in peace, knowing that his spirit and his legacy will live on through his family and his writing.

You were always determined to be the best – on the field, on the court, in the classroom. You set your sights high and worked hard to achieve your goals.

I am so proud of everything you have accomplished in your short life. You were an amazing son, brother, and friend and you will be deeply missed.

You had a passion for sports and a natural talent for competition. You were always driven to win and I know that you would have gone far in your chosen field, no matter what that ended up being.

I will miss watching you play and excel at what you loved so much. You brought joy to everyone around you and I am grateful to have been a part of your life.

Rest in peace, my son. You will be forever in my heart.

First, let me take this moment to thank each and every one of you who showed up today (and to those who are joining us online). It means so much to our family to have this support system in place after the sudden passing of our beloved son, [Name].

I'm not a person of many words, but at this point in time it feels almost like there aren't enough words in the English language to describe how I feel or the impact my boy had on those he met throughout his short life. From the day he was born, I knew he was something special. It was in the glint of his eyes when he couldn't figure out a problem, in the sound of his laughter as it reverberated through our home, in the shine of his smile whenever he came home from school. He was special. I know every parent feels that way about their kid, but it's true -- [Name] was unique.

Losing him is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with and I know the spot left behind by him is irreplaceable -- I will deal with that for the rest of my days. At the same time, my son was absolutely not the kind of person who would want his friends, his family, and his loved ones to stand by and let grief consume him. He would want his memory to be celebrated and honored through love, laughter, adventure, and a deep appreciation of everything our lives have to offer.

In honor of my son, please hug your children a little tighter today. Please take a few minutes to appreciate what this planet has to offer. And please, most of all, be kind to one another.

I knew from the second I held you in my arms for the first time, how special, unique, and incredible you were going to be. And I was right.

My heart was overflowing with love and joy each and every time I saw your sweet face. Every time you said "Mom!", even if it was said in anger or frustration. I knew how much you loved me, our family, and life itself. Our talks were some of the most special moments of my life -- whether they lasted 2 minutes or were one of our infamous "loving debates" that lasted hours.

Your mind was brilliant, your passion for justice was admirable, and you were everything I wish I could've been at your age. I love you so very much son and to say this loss is unimaginable is simply an understatement.

I will follow your trajectory through life and attempt to celebrate your spirit in everything that I do. You are my sweet boy and I cannot wait until I get to see your sweet face and hold you in my arms once again.

I love you, son.

[Name] was my [youngest/oldest] [brother/sister] and one of the most important people in my life. I know [he/she] would’ve been amazed to see all of you who have come out today in support of [him/her] and us as a family. For those who don’t know me, I’m [Name]. From the very beginning, [Name] and I were inseparable. I loved having [Name] as a [brother/sister] more than anything else in my life. I’ve tried to protect [him/her] as though [she/he] was my own [son/daughter] throughout our lives and it is incredibly painful to be here letting [him/her] go today.

Even though [Name] was taken from us too soon, I know that I will see [him/her] again soon. [He/she] lived a full and happy life, one that touched the lives of so many people. I take comfort in knowing that [his/her] legacy will live on through the lives of others.

I’d like to leave you with one of my favorite quotes that I feel sums up [Name] perfectly: “[quote]”

Thank you all again for coming.

Today we’re gathered in memory of [Name], my [brother/sister] and biggest supporter. I’m [name], [Name] [oldest/youngest/older/younger] [brother/sister]. When we were younger, [Name] & I had a difficult relationship. Lots of fights, screaming, yelling; things that siblings tend to do. As we got older, I started to realize how important [Name] was to me and how much of a supporter [he/she] was to me as an individual.

A couple years ago, we went to [location] for [reason]. We [description of memory]. Another moment that I’ll always remember is the time we went to [description of memory].

[Name] was nothing but [generous/kind/loving/helpful/hilarious/determined/accomplished] and was the pride of our family. [He/she] was my best friend, my partner in crime, and someone I knew I could always rely on. Our family is not the same with their loss, but we will press on and live our best lives as a way of honoring [his/her] memory.

Thank you all for joining me and for allowing [Name] to have a space in your heart and in your life.

Every day, after school, my brother would wait (sometimes over an hour) for me to get out of my last class. He would stand at the bus stop, a huge smile on his face every time he heard the bell ring and saw me running towards him. This tradition continued all the way from when I was around 6 to my very last year of high school.

He was one of the most protective, kind, smart, annoying, hilarious, and goofy individuals I've ever known and will surely, ever meet. Going out of his way to stand at a bus stop just to make sure I had some consistency in my life, a friendly face at the end of the day, and a safe way to get back home was the kind of person he continued to be throughout my life (and throughout the lives of his own family).

Everyone who knew him knew what it meant to him to protect those around him, and that kind of protection was one he enacted until the day he passed away. Without my brother here, I feel a piece of me has shuttered itself away. At the same time, his loss has sparked a desire in me to be better. For him, for his family, for my family, and for myself. His impact on others was incalculable and immeasurable; his life is equally difficult to sum up in just a few words in just a few minutes. I don't doubt I'll be sharing small stories from his life for the rest of my own, but I do want to make sure I make one thing extremely clear.

My brother was the best of us and this world is less bright now that he has passed. Please, keep him in your memory and in your thoughts. Honor his memory by being kind and trying your absolute best. Thank you for coming and for joining my family in remembering my brother.

If I were to say that my sister was the most important person in my life, it might be a bit of a life. (Technically, my mom is the most important person in my life.) I didn't consider my sister as a separate individual -- she was part of me. We were two parts of a whole. Together, we were a full being. Without her, I feel as though half of me is gone.

When we were young, we would stay up until way past our bedtime, whispering down the hallway to each other as we slept in separate beds. We would share our dreams, our fears, our anger, and our joy for a few hours each night. I learned about her dream to be a veterinarian and she celebrated my desire to be a janitor. (We were young!)

Each summer we would go to summer camp together (which we hated), prompted by our parents' need to get some much needed alone time. We were fused at the hip and made almost no friends during summer camps (much to our joy and delight). When we'd get home, our parents would ask if we made new friends and had a great time, we'd lie and make up names for the friends we never made.

When we graduated from college (we both attended [name of college]), she was right behind me on the stage, clasping her degree in [subject] while I held mine in [subject] -- far from our dreams as children.

Throughout our 20's we played around with moving apart and traveling but would ultimately reunite in our hometown every two years or so. When we lost [name], we lived only 20 minutes from each other and would see each other nearly every other day. She was the first person I called when I needed someone to hear me out, someone to listen to me rant, someone to comfort me as I cried, and someone to advocate for me when I wasn't kind to myself.

Losing my sister is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I will never feel whole again. At the same time, I know she would want me to remember her in a bright light and know that I carry her with me at all times. I truly aim to do this. In her memory, please give your loved ones a hug today and let them know how much they mean to you.

Many of you attending today know my sister through her immensely successful career as a nurse, some of you know her through her brief stint as a filmographer, and many of you know her because she made a deep impression on you at some point during our childhood. To say she was a lifelong friend to many wouldn't be doing her justice. My sister was the kind of person who somehow found the stragglers, the outcasts, the nerds, the misfits, and the people who didn't feel like they had a community -- and gave them one. She opened up her home to those in need, rented out (and sometimes just lended out) her extra rooms, constantly helped people find jobs, resources, and connections when they were new to the city. She was everything to so many and I'm so blessed to see you all here today. Please try your best to fill your life with generosity and gratitude as a testament to her and her life. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today in honoring my sister's memory. From a young age, I knew my sister was special. She would pick me up each and every day from school. When I went to college, she was there to drive me to the dorms. When I graduated, she drove me across the country. Without her constant and unrelenting support, I wouldn't have made it through the last 40 years of my life. She showed me how to be a better sister, a better person, and a wonderful mom. I owe everything to her and don't know how to navigate life without her.

My grandson, [Full Name] was an amazing young man. He made his family immensely proud of him every single day he lived. A teacher, an educator, a passionate writer, and a talented artist, his multifaceted personality and talent arsenal impressed everyone he met.

He was a strong and independent man, who always put others before himself. Even when he was younger, he'd be the first of my grandkids to ask how he could help. If I was fixing the car, he'd want to watch. If I was working in the garden, he'd want to help. If the lawn needed to be mowed, he'd be up on a Saturday morning taking care of it. When his grandmother, my wife, had hip surgery, he was the one to run and grab us groceries every week. All of this without complaint and without making us feel as though we were burdens.

I am so proud of the man that he had become and only wish he had the opportunity to live out the rest of his days. A rare and special soul, he will be missed so very much.

Thank you for everything, [first name]. I love you and miss you so much.

To my beautiful granddaughter,

You were the light in my life – always happy, always smiling. You lit up a room every time you entered it and I will miss that light so very much.

I am so proud of the woman you were becoming and I know that you would have accomplished great things in your life. You had such a bright future ahead of you and I am heartbroken that it has been cut so short.

I will cherish all the memories we have together – from your first steps, to your first day of school, to your high school graduation. You were always my pride and joy and I will miss you more than words can say.

Rest in peace, my sweet granddaughter. You will be forever in my heart.

Example # 3

Those of you who know me, know how much my grandson meant to me, our family, and our community. [Name] was a rare individual -- someone that, in today's day and age, is becoming increasingly more rare. He thrived on connecting with others and building up his community in any way he could. Countless hours were spent volunteering with the food bank, the humane society, setting up various cancer walks and runs and trying his hardest to do good in this world and to provide a sense of togetherness with the few precious years he had on this planet. His loss is deeply felt by everyone in our family and of course, many of those who are not (but according to him, would be called family). Please consider honoring [Name]'s memory by volunteering your time in any way that you find meaningful. Maybe that means setting up a walk or run (or any other fun activity) for a charity that you hold dear. Maybe that means picking up trash on the road. Maybe that means spending time in the community garden. In any case, know that any time spent building up the lives of others is time spent remembering and honoring the life of [Name] -- and for that, we are forever grateful.

When I gave birth to [Name], my life was permanently changed. I'd heard how this can happen from friends and family, stories about how having a child changes your life. I'd known this would happen but no amount of warning could've prepared me for how rapidly and totally my world was consumed by my baby. When I held her in my arms for the first time, I knew. I knew my life's purpose. I understood the unspeakable bond that tethers a mother to her child. I was hesitant to release her, to let anyone else but me hold her, even her father. I was obsessed.

With each day, she grew into the bright, confident, and cheerful little girl she ended up being. Every flower was a burst of laughter, interactions with puppies and dogs was a cause for joy, she cried incessantly and wouldn't let me sleep for over 2 months -- but it was so worth it. Seeing her bright, chubby cheeks light up as I turned the corner into her room made it so very worth it.

My daughter was my world and I have no idea how I am to cope with her loss. No parent should undergo the rage and grief that accompanies picking out a casket for your small child. Her life was tragically taken from her and I'll never get to know what kind of person she would've been -- though I have theories. I know she loved every day she got to spend on this earth and I know she felt loved for each and every day.

What I learned from her was to embrace joy, to find a spark of happiness in each and every day, and to cry it out when you have to. [Name], sweet girl, you are so loved and so very missed.

Thank you for joining me and my family today to celebrate, remember, and honor the life of [Full Name]. [Name] was a [man/woman] of [describe characteristics] with a penchant for [description] that always showed itself whenever [he/she] would [description]. A [man/woman] of many talents, [Name] showed us that it was never too late to start [hobby/career].

My [father/mother/sister/brother/relation] was, without a doubt, my best friend, my biggest cheerleader, and my constant supporter. When I was interested in [hobby], [she/he] showed up to all the events. When I decided I was obsessed with [hobby], [he/she] went out and purchased [item]. When I decided to [description], [she/he] was the first person to [description].

My [mom/dad/relation] was an unforgettable and truly remarkable human being. I endeavor, with all my heart, to follow in [his/her] footsteps for the rest of my life. I will honor [his/her] time on Earth and [his/her] contributions to our society by [describe how you'll honor their life]. I ask that everyone here today join me in this endeavour as we aim to honor the life of [full name]. Thank you.

To my wife,

You were my best friend and my partner in life. We shared everything – our hopes, our dreams, our lives. You were the love of my life and I will miss you forever.

We had so many happy years together and I am grateful for every moment we shared. You brought joy to my life and I will cherish our time together always.

I am so proud of the woman you were and I know that you touched the lives of everyone around you. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

Rest in peace, my love. You will be forever in my heart.

Choosing a favorite moment from my life spent with my wife is impossible. Was it the time that we went to Lake Minetonka and passed out on the shores after sharing a box full of wine? Was it when she surprised me with tickets to see The Black Crowes in concert, only two months after I'd mentioned it to her? When I'd wake up in the morning to a hot cup of coffee and a brief rant on the political state of the world? The way she mothered our children effortlessly and still took the time to ask me about specific relationships at work? My life has been full of these warm memories -- I can't land on one. What I do know is that my wife emanated love each and every day. Every single day I felt loved, supported, and known. It made me want to make sure she was taken care of in each and every way. I did my best. I tried to give her the life she so deserved, but even if I could give her the life of a queen, it wouldn't have been enough for what she deserved. My wife was everything and is the center of my joy. I miss her each and every day and I know I will see her again.

Ever since I was a little girl, I wanted to be married. I was obsessed with any and all films of prince charmings, beautiful and big weddings, and women being swept off their feet. I was convinced that my time would come by the time I was 20 (how naive!). I went through college and by the time I was 32 realized I'd never had a boyfriend. I'd never been courted. I wasn't even sure I liked men. My desire to be swept off my feet dwindled and I became secure in myself.

Until I met [Name].

Immediately, within the first 20 minutes of meeting [Name], I was absolutely smitten. I thought of almost nothing else when we were apart -- and we hated each other! She was competing with me for the same promotion at work and we were both tenacious and fierce women. She was stubborn, confident, and sure of what she wanted -- much like myself.

After she got the promotion I so desperately wanted, she invited me out for a conciliatory drink -- a move I never would've made. She would go on to refer to this as our first date, though I considered it the first brick towards building a bridge away from dislike and towards camaraderie.

I was swept off my feet, in a completely unexpected way. During our first years of dating, I found myself wanting to provide for her, take care of her, make her smile at all possible moments. When she ranted about work, I wanted to defend her. When she managed to burn chicken each and every time, you wouldn't hear a peep from me. When she suggested we get married, I wanted her to be the star of the show. I wanted to show her off to every important person in my life. She'd lovingly refer to me as her ""Princess Charming"" -- a role I happily inhabited.

My wife brought joy, kindness, love, courage, strength, and purpose into my life. Without her by my side, I feel an unhealable void. At the same time, in her way, she prepared me as best she could. I ask those gathered here today, in her memory, to help me keep her presence alive. Please spread joy in all the ways you can. Tell people how you feel. Advocate for yourself. Be free.

My life's greatest years were spent with [Name], the love of my life. She loved everything about life, even the downsides -- she embraced it all. Life was hard, but it was also worth it for her. From the moment I met her, I knw my life would be different and that I'd found the one.

[Name] made such a massive difference in the community around her, especially after becoming president of the charity she worked for. Her favorite things in life were witnessing others transform their lives for the better, helping people access community resources wherever possible, and advocating for those less fortunate. Go out today and try your best to emulate everything she did, and more.

I am so saddened by the loss of [Name]. We didn't always see eye to eye, but I always respected [him/her] as a hard worker and a great person. [She/He] was always so kind and helpful, and I will never forget all of the times [she/he] went out of [him/her] way to help me. [She/He] will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing [him/her].

When we first met at [company], [name] was one of the first people to make me feel welcome. I’ll never forget how [she/he] took the time to get to know me and helped me feel like I belonged there.

I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to work with [him/her], and I know that [she/he] has left a lasting impression on everyone [she/he] met. [She/He] was an amazing person, and I know that [she/he] will be deeply missed. Thank you for everything, [name].

May you rest in peace.

Throughout my career, I've met plenty of personalities, characters, and people -- but none as special as [Name]. When [Name] first entered the front doors to our building, I immediately knew we would get on. [Name] was the type of person you'd easily become friends with. People who met [him/her/them] would immediately want to work alongside them. As one of my first direct reports, I can't tell you how many people would come to me on the side and request to be paired with or on a team with [Name]. Why? [He/she] was special. People gravitated towards them. People wanted to be in their sphere of influence. People wanted to work alongside them and get to know them.

That's rare. This is the first time I've seen the majority of my company in one room that wasn't our building -- and it's for the funeral of our very special friend and colleague -- [Name]. Thank you to [Name's parents] for raising such an incredible human being. Please know that your [son/daughter/child] changed the lives, every day, of so many people around them. I have never in my 50 years of managing imagined running into someone like [Name] and I am blessed to have known them. Rest well and peacefully, [Name], you did well.

Today we come together to honor the life and legacy of a beloved retired musician, who touched so many lives with his passion for music. He was a kind-hearted man who enjoyed pushing boundaries and exploring new horizons. He was an avid traveler, having visited countries all over the world. He also had a strong connection to animals, particularly cats. His home was often filled with cats of all shapes, sizes and colors.

He had a variety of musical influences, which he blended together to create his own unique sound. He was an incredibly talented musician who could play various instruments including the guitar, piano and flute. He wrote some beautiful melodies that will live on long after him.

He was also a generous soul, always ready to lend a helping hand. He had an open door policy and welcomed people into his home with open arms. More than anything else, he loved sharing stories and swapping ideas with those around him.

Today we celebrate the life of this incredible man who left behind a beautiful legacy of music and of kindness. He will be remembered for all that he has accomplished and the many lives that he touched. May we strive to follow in his footsteps and honor his memory by living our own lives with love, humility and caring. Thank you.

These eulogy examples are for those who would like to focus on a loved one's profession or career choices as their way of honoring their life's work.

Eulogy for a speech pathologist

Dear friends, family, and colleagues,

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Sarah Kwambe, a remarkable woman who touched the lives of so many people during her time with us. Sarah was not only a skilled speech pathologist but also a former professional soccer player who had to leave the sport she loved due to a career-ending injury. However, Sarah didn't let that setback stop her from pursuing her passion for helping others.

Sarah's journey began in South Dakota, where she lived with her beloved cat, Sam. She dedicated her life to making a difference in the lives of young people, particularly middle schoolers, whom she worked with as a speech pathologist. She had a remarkable ability to connect with her students and inspire them to achieve their full potential.

Despite the challenges she faced early on in her life, Sarah never gave up on her dreams. She was an accomplished athlete who excelled in soccer, but when her injury put an end to her career, she channeled her passion and determination into her studies. She pursued a degree in speech pathology, and her dedication to her work was evident in everything she did.

Sarah was a compassionate, caring, and selfless person who always put others first. She was a mentor to many, a friend to all, and a source of inspiration to everyone who knew her. She had a warm smile and a kind heart that could light up a room, and her love for her students was evident in the way she interacted with them.

Although Sarah never had children of her own, she had a deep love for her cat, Sam, who was always by her side. Her commitment to her feline friend was just one of the many examples of her kindness and compassion.

In conclusion, Sarah Kwambe was a truly remarkable person who touched the lives of many people in ways that will never be forgotten. Her legacy will live on through the countless students she helped, the colleagues she inspired, and the friends and family who loved her dearly. She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Rest in peace, Sarah Kwambe.

Eulogy example for an environmental activist

Dear friends and family,

Today, we gather to remember and celebrate the life of Rachel Chen, a remarkable woman who dedicated her life to protecting and preserving our environment. Rachel was an accomplished environmental scientist, mother of three children - Irina, Bliss, and Mario, and a loving partner to her husband of many years.

From a young age, Rachel had a deep love and appreciation for nature. Her passion for the environment inspired her to pursue a career in environmental science, and she quickly became a respected expert in her field. She spent many years working tirelessly to protect our national parks, and her dedication to this cause never wavered.

Rachel was also an avid gardener, and she had a remarkable ability to bring beauty to everything she touched. Her love for nature was evident in everything she did, from the way she tended to her garden to the way she spoke about the natural world.

As a mother, Rachel was loving, patient, and kind. She instilled in her children a deep respect for the environment and a desire to make the world a better place. Her children were the light of her life, and she was so proud of the people they had become.

Rachel's passing is a great loss to us all. She was a remarkable person who touched the lives of so many people in countless ways. Her legacy will live on through the countless national parks and natural spaces that she helped to protect, as well as through the love and memories that her family and friends will always carry in their hearts.

Rachel, we will miss you dearly, but we know that your spirit will live on through the beauty of nature that you cherished so deeply. Rest in peace.

Eulogy example for a young adult

Today, we come together to celebrate the life of Zach Peterson. Zach was a talented mechanic, a loving son, and a loyal friend. He passed away far too soon, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

Zach had a passion for auto maintenance that was unmatched. He loved nothing more than working on cars, and he was always happy to help a friend in need. His skills were truly remarkable, and he had an uncanny ability to diagnose and fix any issue that came his way.

But Zach was more than just a mechanic. He was a gentle soul who cared deeply about those around him. He had a warm smile that could light up a room, and he was always quick with a joke or a kind word. He had a way of making everyone feel welcome and included, no matter who they were.

Zach's passing has left a void in our lives, but we take comfort in knowing that his memory will live on. We will remember his kind heart, his infectious laughter, and his unwavering loyalty. Zach was a special person who made a lasting impact on the world around him, and we are all better for having known him. Rest in peace, Zach.

Eulogy for an infant

With heavy hearts, we gather here today to mourn the loss of a precious child who has been taken from us too soon. We know that God has a plan for each and every one of us, but it is still difficult to understand why a young life has been cut short.

As we come together to remember this beautiful child, we take comfort in knowing that they are now in the loving embrace of our Lord. Though their time with us was brief, they brought immense joy and love into the world, and we will cherish the memories we have of them forever.

We know that this is a time of deep sorrow, but we can find solace in the fact that this child is now at peace in the arms of our Heavenly Father. May we all find comfort in our faith, and may we hold this precious child close in our hearts as we navigate this difficult time. Rest in peace, little one.

Eulogy for a grandmother

Today we gather to remember a truly remarkable woman - my grandmother. She was a woman of many talents: a masterful cross-stitcher, an incredible fudge-maker, and a loving grandmother to a whole gaggle of grandchildren.

Grandma was the kind of woman who made you feel like you were the only person in the world when she was talking to you. She always had a smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye, and she had a way of making even the most mundane tasks seem like an adventure.

And oh, her fudge! I think we can all agree that Grandma's fudge was a work of art. It was creamy, decadent, and so rich that you could only eat a tiny piece at a time - not that it stopped any of us from trying to eat the whole batch in one sitting!

But beyond her talents and her love of fudge, Grandma will be remembered most of all for the love she had for her family. She was a guiding light for all of us, a source of wisdom and strength when we needed it most.

So, as we say goodbye to this incredible woman, let us not mourn her passing, but celebrate the incredible life she lived. She was one of a kind, and we were all blessed to have known her. Rest in peace, Grandma - we will never forget you.

Eulogy for a farmer

Today we gather to celebrate the life of a man who loved nothing more than working hard under the sun, watching his land grow and thrive. [Name] was not just any farmer - he was a tireless advocate for agricultural reform and change. His passion for sustainable farming practices, conservation, and education knew no bounds.

He was never afraid to get his hands dirty or put in long hours because he believed that every crop mattered; every seed planted had the potential to make a difference. His dedication inspired those around him and helped shape the landscape of our community.

[Name] will be remembered by all as an honest, kind-hearted man who always put others first. I’ll miss his unwavering determination to better this world through agriculture and his infectious smile that brightened up everyone’s day.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when he taught me how to plant corn by hand while sharing stories about his childhood on the farm.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a fundraiser for local farmers affected by droughts and natural disasters.

Thank you all for being here today to honor my friend’s memory and legacy. In [name]’s words “Farming is not just a profession but also an art form”. May we carry on this art form in honor of him.

Eulogy for a teacher

We are gathered here today to say goodbye to someone very special: A teacher who dedicated her life towards social justice inside her classrooms, making sure each student felt valued and respected regardless of their background or ethnicity. She empowered students from underserved communities with access to quality education - she showed them they could achieve anything if they worked hard enough.

[name]'s legacy lives on through every student she touched during her career as an educator, instilling confidence in them whilst fighting against systemic oppression within school walls.

I’ll miss her contagious energy, witty humor, and deep compassion for everyone she met.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she invited me to speak in her class about my personal experiences and background, empowering me to share my story confidently.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when she organized a rally with her students for Black Lives Matter movement that brought people together from all walks of life.

Thank you for being here today, honoring the memory and legacy of someone who dedicated their life towards ensuring social justice inside classrooms. In the words of [name], “Education can change how we view ourselves, other people, and the world”. Let’s carry on this legacy in honor of her.

Eulogy for a foster dad

We gather here today to celebrate the life of a man who was known for his unwavering dedication towards family, golfing and fostering kids - [name]. If there’s one thing that everyone knows about him- it's that he loved nothing more than spending time with those he loved and helping those in need.

[name] had an infectious personality which brought joy to all those around him. He made sure to always put his family first no matter what, while also making time for the sport he was passionate about: Golf.

He would often take foster kids along with him on these trips; providing them a chance at a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

I’ll miss his contagious laughter, generosity, and his commitment to living every day to its fullest potential.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went out golfing together by the lake, enjoying each other’s company over some good shots.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a youth-golf tournament fundraiser raising funds for underprivileged children.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who lived their life so fully dedicated towards their passions - Family, Golfing & Fostering Kids. In the words of [name], “Life is like a round of golf; try your best from tee to green but don't forget to enjoy the moments along the way."

Eulogy for a soldier

Today we come together as friends and family members mourning the loss of someone whose bravery knew no bounds- [name]. A soldier who sacrificed everything including her own life during deployment serving her country valiantly.

Her courage has inspired us all and reminded us that freedom sometimes comes at great cost—she gave up everything she had just so others could have something better tomorrow.

She will be remembered not only as a hero but also as a friend whose selflessness touched countless lives on and off-duty alike. Her positivity knew no bounds even in times where things felt like they couldn’t get any worse.

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unbreakable spirit and her ability to inspire people around her even in the darkest of times.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went on a vacation together after she returned from deployment, catching up on life post-duty and just enjoying each other’s company.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] was when she organized a fundraiser for veterans who had been wounded during active duty.

Thank you all for being here today. We celebrate someone whose profound sacrifice has given us the freedom that we enjoy today- Freedom which comes at great cost. In [name]'s words: "Duty first; self second." Let us never forget this sentiment as we honor those brave men and women who serve their country valiantly.

Eulogy for an animal activist

Today marks the passing away of a woman whose compassion for animals was unmatched - [name]. She served as President at local ASPCA chapter where she inspired others through her dedication towards animal rights advocacy and protection. Her tireless efforts led to increased awareness within our community regarding animal welfare issues such as abuse or neglect.

[name] will be remembered not only as an advocate but also as a friend to all animals; big or small. Her kindness knew no bounds and it extended beyond just domesticated pets like dogs or cats- advocating for wildlife preservation too!

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unwavering passion and her ability to inspire empathy in those around her.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she rescued several abandoned kittens outside our office building during lunch breaks.

Another one of our local communities’ favorite memories with [Name] was when she coordinated fundraisers which helped raise funds for medical treatment costs associated with pet care amongst low-income families.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who made it their mission to ensure well-being among some oft-forgotten members in society: animals. May we strive each day to extend kindness towards them, carrying on what [name] started so passionately.

Eulogy for a writer

Thank you so much for attending the services today as we gather to say goodbye to Kaleb Morris, an incredibly talented author and journalist. His work delved into the darkest corners of human behavior, shining a light on the most heinous and unthinkable crimes. Kaleb had a gift for telling stories that not only captivated readers but also helped to shed light on important issues that might have otherwise gone unnoticed.

Tragically, Kaleb's life was cut short in a boating accident, leaving behind his child and former wife, Shareece. Though we grieve for the life that has been taken from us too soon, we can also take comfort in the legacy that Kaleb leaves behind.

His writing was not just a means to entertain, but a way to make a difference in the world. Kaleb shone a light on issues that needed to be addressed, and gave a voice to those who had been silenced by violence and tragedy. He was a gifted storyteller, and his impact on the true crime genre will be felt for years to come.

Kaleb will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his work will live on as a testament to his incredible talent and dedication to his craft. Rest in peace, Kaleb.

Eulogy for a nurse practitioner

We gather to remember and honor Cherish Abrams, a beloved nurse practitioner who touched the lives of countless patients and colleagues during her 25 years of service. Cherish was known for her compassion, dedication, and expertise, and her loss is deeply felt by all who knew her.

Cherish was like a ""grandma"" to the NICU where she worked, comforting and caring for infants and families during their most vulnerable moments. Her gentle touch and kind words provided solace and hope to those in need, and her wisdom and guidance were invaluable to her colleagues.

Cherish's tragic passing is a reminder of how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken away. But even in death, she continues to inspire us with her selflessness, her unwavering dedication to her patients, and her love for her profession.

Cherish's memory will live on in the hearts of those she touched, and her legacy will continue through the lives of the countless patients she cared for and the colleagues she mentored. May she rest in peace, knowing that she made a profound difference in the world and that she will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a community leader

Today we gather to honor and remember the life of Michael Patel, a beloved community leader and philanthropist who dedicated his life to making the world a better place. Michael was a self-made businessman, a devoted family man, and a passionate advocate for those in need.

Throughout his life, Michael demonstrated a deep commitment to his community, supporting countless charitable organizations and causes. His generosity knew no bounds, and his impact on the lives of those he helped will never be forgotten.

Michael's passing is a great loss to us all, but his legacy will continue through the countless lives he touched and the causes he supported. We are grateful for the time we had with him and for the inspiration he provided to us all. Rest in peace, Michael, knowing that your life made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a high school teacher

We gather here today to remember and celebrate the life of Samantha Liu, a beloved high school teacher who passed away far too soon. Samantha was a bright, energetic, and dedicated educator who brought out the best in her students and inspired them to reach for their dreams.

In her 15 years of teaching, Samantha touched the lives of countless students, colleagues, and parents. Her passion for education was infectious, and her positive energy was felt by everyone who crossed her path.

Though we mourn the loss of Samantha, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the impact she has had on our lives. Her legacy lives on in the countless students whose lives she touched, and in the hearts of all those who were fortunate enough to know her. Rest in peace, Samantha, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a philanthropist

Eulogy example for loving mother.

We gather here today to celebrate the life of Emily Thompson, a beloved mother and grandmother who passed away peacefully surrounded by her family. Emily was a kind, caring, and nurturing woman who devoted her life to her loved ones.

As a mother of four and a grandmother of nine, Emily's love and devotion knew no bounds. She was the heart and soul of her family, providing comfort, support, and wisdom whenever it was needed.

Though we mourn the loss of Emily, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the love she shared with us all. Her legacy lives on through her family and the countless lives she touched during her lifetime. Rest in peace, Emily, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy example for teacher

Marcus was a beloved teacher who dedicated his life to helping his students achieve their goals. He had a gift for teaching and his enthusiasm for learning was contagious. Marcus always went above and beyond to help his students, whether it was staying late to help them with homework, or just lending an ear when they needed to talk. He truly believed in the power of education to change lives, and he worked tirelessly to make sure his students had the tools they needed to succeed. Marcus was also a devoted husband and father. He met his wife, Sarah, when they were both in college, and they were inseparable ever since. They had two children together, and Marcus loved nothing more than spending time with his family. He was always there for his kids, whether it was coaching their sports teams or just reading them a bedtime story.

Marcus was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, but he never let it slow him down. He continued teaching, even when he was undergoing chemotherapy, and he always had a positive attitude. Marcus fought his illness with courage and grace, and he never lost his faith in God.

Marcus was a shining example of what it means to be a good person, and he touched the lives of everyone he met. He will be deeply missed by his students, colleagues, and his loving wife and two children.

Eulogy example for a chef

Isabella was a talented chef who had a passion for creating beautiful and delicious food. She was always experimenting with new flavors and ingredients, and her dishes were a work of art. Isabella had a natural talent for cooking, but she also worked hard to hone her skills. She attended culinary school and worked in some of the best restaurants in the city. But Isabella's love for cooking wasn't just about creating amazing dishes. She also loved the way food brought people together. Isabella was always hosting dinner parties and potlucks, and she loved nothing more than seeing people enjoy her food. She had a big heart and loved to share her food with family and friends. Her food was a way for her to show her love for the people in her life.

Isabella was also a devoted partner. She met her girlfriend, Maria, when they were both working in a restaurant, and they were inseparable ever since. They built a life together, and Isabella loved nothing more than spending time with Maria and their two dogs.

Isabella's death was a shock to everyone who knew her. She had so much talent and so much to give to the world. But even in death, Isabella's spirit lives on through her food and the memories she created for those who knew and loved her.

Eulogy for a principal

Today, we honor the life of a great educator who dedicated his life to shaping young minds and transforming our community through educational reform. We celebrate Michael's passion for education and his tireless efforts in ensuring that every child in this school district received quality education. He was not only an excellent principal but also a mentor, friend, and role model to many.

Michael was committed to providing resources necessary for students' success by creating programs that would enable them to have access to books, computers, and other learning materials. His unwavering commitment towards serving disadvantaged communities will forever be remembered.

We'll miss his vision for educational reform but are grateful for the impact he left on us all.

One of my favorite memories with Michael was when he fought tirelessly to get funding from the government so that we could add more classrooms and hire more teachers. His determination inspired me always.

Eulogy for a doctor

It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye today to Dr.[Name], an incredible physician who touched many lives during his medical career. While he loved fast cars, small dogs, and Margaritaville music, his dedication towards helping others never wavered.

Dr.[Name] had a way of putting people at ease whenever they were anxious about their health issues; he made you feel like everything would be okay no matter what happened.

He lived life fully and inspired those around him while doing so - even while battling his own illness—always encouraging others never to give up hope or lose faith in themselves.

I’ll miss his sense of humor but am lost without his guidance on how I should take care of myself better!

Another one of my favorite memories with Dr.[Name] is when he took me out on a ride-along in his sports car after work one day! He loved living life vicariously through little adventures like these!

Eulogy for someone who followed their dream

Today we gather here to honor [Name], who was a brilliant data analyst with a desire to become a potato farmer in Europe. He had an insatiable love for his lineage and dreamt of starting his farm there.

[Name] loved data analysis, but he also believed that there was more to life than crunching numbers. His passion for agriculture inspired him to follow his dream of farming potatoes and reconnecting with his roots.

He will be missed for his gentle nature and quiet strength. Still, we can all take comfort in knowing that he lived life on his terms and pursued what made him happy.

One of my absolute favorite moments was when [Name] shared pictures of the farmland where he hoped to start farming someday—his eyes lit up as he spoke about it so passionately!

Eulogy for a CEO who swapped careers

Today marks the passing away of someone incredibly special- a CEO turned dog trainer specializing in corgis- [Name].

[Name]'s career shift from being a successful CEO reflected how passionate she was about dogs, especially corgis! Her love for them was unmatched, and she spent her later years training them.

She was an inspiration to many who dreamed of following their passion. She showed that it's never too late to start something new, no matter how old you are!

We'll miss her business acumen but are grateful for the legacy she left behind. [Name] lived a life filled with happiness and fulfillment, doing what made her happiest - surrounded by pups!

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when I visited her training facility and saw all the corgis happily playing under her watchful eye; it was a beautiful sight to see!

Eulogy for a small business owner

Today we celebrate the life of our beloved community leader [Name], who served tirelessly on city council while running one of the most popular sandwich shops in town.

[Name] had an unwavering commitment towards serving others; she dedicated her time, energy, and resources towards making our community better. From creating programs for at-risk youth to supporting small businesses like hers financially - she did it all without asking anything in return.

She brought people together through her sandwiches, which were not only delicious but also affordable! Her relentless dedication towards serving her customers helped establish her business as one of the best sandwich shops around town.

We are grateful for everything [Name] did during her lifetime, and we know that her legacy will continue to inspire future generations.

Another one of our family's favorite memories with [Name] is when she would often give us free sandwiches if we couldn't afford them! She truly cared about everyone who came into her shop!

5.Today marks the passing away of someone incredibly special- a CEO turned dog trainer specializing in corgis- [Name].

Ladies and Gentlemen,

We gather here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable woman, a mother, an engineer, a farmer, a community activist, and a beloved friend to many. [Name] was a beacon of strength, compassion, and unwavering love.

Born 58 years ago, [Name] was a woman of many talents and passions. She pursued an engineering degree with the determination and brilliance that defined her character. Not one to rest on her laurels, she furthered her education with a Master’s in Agricultural Sciences, a field where she found her true calling.

[Name] was not just a scholar but a practitioner. Her homestead was her haven, a place where she cultivated not just crops but a sense of community. She loved farming, a passion that was evident in the thriving fields and the abundance she shared with her neighbors. Her produce fed not just bodies but souls, fostering a sense of unity and support in our community.

As a mother of twins, [Name] was phenomenal. Her love for her children knew no bounds. She was bright and thoughtful, always finding the right balance between nurturing and guiding her children with patience and wisdom. Her love was the foundation upon which her family stood strong.

Her battle with lung cancer was a testament to her incredible resilience and strength. Even in the face of illness, she remained an active and dedicated member of our community. Her activism and her unwavering commitment to making a difference in the lives of those around her were truly inspiring.

[Name] was more than her accomplishments; she was a person of immense warmth and kindness. She had a unique ability to make everyone feel seen and heard. Her thoughtful nature, her loving heart, and her unwavering patience were qualities that left a lasting impression on everyone she met.

Today, as we mourn her loss, we also celebrate her life and the indelible mark she left on all of us. Her legacy is not just in the fields she tilled or the degrees she earned but in the lives she touched and the love she spread.

Let us remember [Name] not with tears but with the joy and gratitude for having had the privilege of knowing such an extraordinary woman. Her spirit will forever live on in our hearts and in the community she so dearly loved and served.

Rest in peace, [Name]. You will be deeply missed, but your legacy will continue to inspire and guide us.

Eulogy for [Name]

Ladies and Gentlemen, family, and friends,

Today, we gather to celebrate the life of an extraordinary man, a loving father, a dedicated foster parent, and a pillar of our community, [Name]. He was a man of boundless generosity, unwavering love, and unparalleled dedication to his family and community.

Born 62 years ago, [Name] was the proud father of four wonderful children. But his heart was so vast that it couldn't be confined to just his own; over the years, he opened his home and heart to more than 15 foster children. Each child who came into his life was embraced with the same love and care as his own. He was not just a father but a beacon of hope and love for all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Tragically, [Name] passed away after a sudden heart attack. His departure has left a void that is felt deeply by all of us, but his legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire us.

Family vacations were always a highlight of the year, meticulously coordinated by [Name]. He ensured that each trip was filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable memories. Whether it was camping in the great outdoors, exploring new cities, or simply spending time together, these moments were cherished by all, thanks to his thoughtful planning.

[Name] had a passion for cooking and baking, often seen in the kitchen whipping up delicious meals and treats. He shared this love not only with his family but also with underprivileged families, teaching them how to cook and build healthy meals. His culinary skills brought warmth and nourishment to so many lives.

His hands were never idle, always busy fixing or building something. He had a remarkable talent for organizing and creating, leaving behind a legacy of beautifully crafted items and well-maintained homes. His ability to turn chaos into order was nothing short of magical.

Every year, [Name] competed in a marathon, showcasing his determination, strength, and dedication. His participation was not just about personal achievement but also about inspiring others to push their limits and strive for their best.

Beyond his immediate family, [Name] extended his care and compassion to the wider community. He served on the board of three community food kitchens, tirelessly working to ensure that those in need were fed and cared for. His commitment to these causes was a testament to his selflessness and desire to make the world a better place.

Beloved by all his children and family members, [Name]'s love was a constant, reassuring presence in their lives. His wisdom, guidance, and unwavering support were the foundation upon which they built their lives.

As we say our final goodbyes, let us remember [Name] not with sadness for his passing, but with gratitude for the incredible impact he had on our lives. His spirit will live on in the love he shared, the lives he touched, and the countless memories we hold dear.

Rest in peace, dear [Name]. You will forever be in our hearts, a shining example of love, kindness, and dedication.

Eulogy for theater director

We gather here today to honor the life of someone truly unique, a person who touched each of our lives in ways we will never forget—[Name]. At just 59 years old, [Name] left us far too soon, taken by a sudden brain aneurysm. Though his time with us was shorter than we wished, the impact he made will remain with us forever.

As an art director and talent manager at KMC Theater in Kentucky, [Name] was a force behind the scenes, guiding creativity and passion with a quiet but unyielding presence. The arts were his true love, and he found immense joy in his work. His dedication to nurturing talent and creating beautiful, meaningful art left an indelible mark on the theater community and on all those who had the privilege of working with him. His colleagues often spoke of his stoicism—his ability to stay calm and focused, no matter the challenges they faced. But behind that calm exterior was a deep well of passion for the arts and an unwavering commitment to excellence.

Outside of work, [Name] was a homebody, an introvert who found comfort and peace in the familiar. Yet, when he was at a party, he was the life of it, effortlessly balancing his quiet nature with a surprising ability to connect with others. His friends and family knew him as a man who could make you feel seen and heard, even in a crowded room.

Though he never had children of his own, [Name] was a wonderful uncle—a figure of love, wisdom, and guidance to his nieces and nephews. He relished his role, offering support and encouragement, always with a gentle smile and a listening ear. His presence in their lives was a gift they will carry with them always.

[Name] had a love for trying new things, even if it didn’t always go as planned—particularly in the kitchen. He was, by his own admission, a terrible cook. But that never stopped him from experimenting with new recipes, often to the amusement of those who were brave enough to try his culinary creations. It was just one of the many ways he showed us the importance of embracing life with curiosity and a sense of humor.

Today, as we say our goodbyes, we remember a man who was more than just an art director or a talent manager. He was a beloved uncle, a dear friend, a quiet soul with a heart full of passion. His life, though brief, was rich with meaning and love. We will miss his wisdom, his laughter, his unique presence. But we will carry his spirit with us, in the art he helped create, in the memories we shared, and in the lessons he taught us about living fully and with passion.

Rest in peace, dear [Name]. You will be missed more than words can express.

Eulogy example for a teacher

Good afternoon, everyone.

We gather here today to celebrate the life of Sharon Claes, a woman whose spirit, bravery, and resilience touched each of us in ways we will never forget. Sharon passed away at the age of 53, after a nine-year battle with cancer. Though she was initially given only two years to live, she defied the odds, fighting with every ounce of strength, determination, and love she had.

Sharon was a warrior, a true survivor, and to those of us who knew her, she was a badass in the truest sense of the word. She faced her illness with a tenacity that was nothing short of inspiring. Despite the physical pain, the emotional toll, and the countless treatments and setbacks, Sharon never lost her bravery. She was determined to live every moment to the fullest, to squeeze every drop of joy out of life, and she did so with grace, humor, and a stubbornness that we all admired.

Before her diagnosis, Sharon was a dedicated 9th-grade English teacher at Westfield High School. For over two decades, she poured her heart and soul into her work, shaping young minds with her passion for literature and her belief in the power of words. Her students adored her, not just because she made Shakespeare understandable or because she encouraged their creative writing, but because she believed in them. Sharon had a unique gift for seeing the potential in every student who walked into her classroom, and she worked tirelessly to help them see it in themselves.

Even as she battled cancer, Sharon continued to teach for as long as she could. When she could no longer be in the classroom, she still found ways to stay connected with her students and colleagues, offering guidance, encouragement, and her trademark wit. She never wanted to be defined by her illness, and she certainly never wanted anyone to pity her. Sharon was fiercely independent and always focused on the needs of others, even when she was going through the hardest times of her life.

Sharon was more than just a teacher; she was a beloved member of this community. She was involved in countless local initiatives, from organizing charity events to supporting the arts. Her impact was felt far beyond the walls of her classroom, touching the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Sharon was the kind of person who made you feel seen and valued, and her kindness, compassion, and generosity will be remembered by all of us.

To her family, Sharon was a rock. A devoted daughter, sister, and aunt, she loved her family fiercely and unconditionally. Her nieces and nephews brought her so much joy, and she took every opportunity to share with them her love of books, her quirky sense of humor, and her wisdom. Sharon's family was her greatest treasure, and they were the reason she fought so hard for so long.

Sharon's journey was not easy, but she faced it with a courage that was nothing short of remarkable. She taught us all what it means to live with grace, to fight with everything you have, and to love with all your heart. Sharon did not lose her battle with cancer—she lived a life that was full, rich, and deeply meaningful, and in the end, that is the greatest victory of all.

Today, as we say our goodbyes, let us remember Sharon for the incredible woman she was. Let us honor her legacy by living our lives with the same bravery, compassion, and unyielding spirit that she showed us. Sharon may no longer be with us in body, but her spirit, her laughter, and her love will continue to guide us all.

Rest in peace, Sharon Claes. You were, and always will be, a true fighter, a survivor, and a force of nature. We will miss you dearly, but we are forever grateful for the time we had with you.

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By:  Susan Dugdale  

How do you begin to write a meaningful eulogy?

And how is it possible to say everything you want to about a person's entire life story in a few, very brief, minutes?

Both those questions are natural responses to having a eulogy to write for a funeral service.

Grief, together with the desire to honor your loved-one the best way you can, and the pressure of a tight timeframe, can make it feel like an almost insurmountable challenge. 

That's why reading what others have written in similar circumstances helps a great deal.

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I am fortunate to be able to make available to you a large, and growing, collection of funeral speech examples. 

They've been written by people from all over the world, who are just like you and me. They too have family and friends whom they care for deeply.

Look and you'll find examples of eulogies for mothers, fathers, grandparents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, mentors, colleagues, a close friend..., in short: loved ones.

The people who've written them have shared them to help people like yourself. Because they've been where you are now with a funeral speech to prepare, they know how it feels to be searching for inspiration, trying to find a starting point.

Some of the speeches are short. Some of them are funny. All of them are heartfelt, and they appear in the order I received them.

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If you're looking for an example of a eulogy for a particular kind of person, and don't want to browse your way through the chronologically ordered list below, use these links to go straight to a collection of:

• eulogies for mothers
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• eulogies for  grandmothers
• eulogies for  grandfathers
• eulogies for  friends
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I've grouped all the speeches I've received through this page according to their type on a new page here: sample eulogies . Whenever a eulogy is submitted, I add its link to the category it belongs to.

The story behind this collection of eulogies

It began with two funeral speeches  I had written. 

Almost as soon as I put them online, they attracted an enormous number of visitors.

It was then I realized the need for more.  

I also knew my examples would not answer everybody's needs.

The one for my sister was different in approach.

The one for my friend and next-door neighbor was not what a grieving person with a eulogy speech to write for a close family member really wanted to see. 

My two were definitely not enough! 

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To be really useful there needed to be a wider variety of funeral speeches. We needed eulogies for mothers, fathers, sons, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, colleagues, friends, people who died unexpectedly and suddenly...

And we needed them to reflect the diverse countries and faiths of the people visiting the site.

I decided to ask for more. Lo and behold, they began to arrive through my   eulogy submission form below.

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After you've read a few eulogy examples, and you want help to prepare your own speech you'll find it here:  how to write a good eulogy .

The article has step-by-step instructions, examples, a very useful free 15-page printable eulogy planning template to download , as well as comprehensive answers for 13 FAQs about eulogies :

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Why do people share a deeply personal speech?

The people sending their eulogies to me to publish fully appreciate that writing a funeral speech under pressure can be a difficult, sad and lonely task - sometimes one of the hardest things they've ever done.

They know from experience having examples to read can lessen that burden. It's a good way of starting to find the right words to tell their own personal stories and share their favorite memories about a person they have loved.

Theirs is a kind and generous act, one that's been repeated over 70 times already. 

Wonderfully, some of the people who've come searching for help to write their own eulogy, have returned to share what they've written.

(Read Craig's comment below his eulogy for his Grandmother, Bertha  or Byrona's below her  eulogy for her Dad  for verification.

Both were helped by funeral speeches they found here and wanted what they had written to assist others in the same way.)

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It would help others enormously.

Every day people look for tips on how to a write eulogy or to find  eulogy examples  to read. I know because I see it reflected in my website visitor statistics.

I also know because of the comments people leave under speeches.  They are so very grateful to have found a eulogy expressing how they feel.

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You know how it generally is with a speech of this sort. Typically, there is not much time to prepare, and you want to get it right.

Reading what others have done helps in the best possible way.

These eulogies inspire and give people the courage to do what they need to do.

Despite our differences what we all have in common is the desire to speak about our loved ones the very best way we can. 

The more examples we have, the more likely a person is going to find a speech that resonates and meets their needs.

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17 Heartfelt Eulogy Examples to Honor Your Loved One’s Memory

• The Speaker Lab
• May 29, 2024

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It hits hard when you’re left speechless by loss, scrambling for ways to honor them in words. Crafting a heartfelt eulogy can feel overwhelming, but with the right guidance and a few eulogy examples , you can create a fitting tribute that celebrates their life and legacy. Whether you’re honoring a parent, sibling, grandparent, or dear friend, these eulogy examples will help you find inspiration and comfort during this difficult time.

Heartfelt Eulogy Examples for Family Members

Losing a family member is never easy. But one way we can honor their memory is by sharing a heartfelt eulogy at their funeral. A eulogy is a chance to pay tribute to your loved one’s life, share fond memories, and provide comfort to other family members and friends.

Whether you’re writing a eulogy for a parent, sibling, grandparent, spouse or child, it can be difficult to know where to start. You want to capture the essence of who they were and what they meant to you. But don’t worry—we’re here to help with some eulogy examples and guidance.

Eulogy for a Parent

When writing a eulogy for a mother or father, think about the role they played in your life. What lessons did they teach you? What special moments did you share? Here’s an example:

“My dad was my guiding light. He taught me the value of hard work, the importance of family, and to always stay true to myself. I’ll never forget our fishing trips together—the long talks, the laughter, the quiet moments appreciating nature. He may be gone, but his love and lessons will live on through me.”

Eulogy for a Sibling

Siblings share a unique bond, filled with inside jokes, rivalries and unconditional love. When writing a eulogy for a brother or sister, share stories that capture your relationship. Consider this example:

“Growing up, Sarah was more than just my sister—she was my built-in best friend. From playing dress-up to staying up late talking about our dreams, she was always there. Even as adults, she remained my confidant and biggest cheerleader. I’ll miss her smile, her hugs, and her unwavering support. But I know she’ll always be with me.”

Eulogy for a Grandparent

Grandparents hold a special place in our hearts. They spoil us, share their wisdom, and love us unconditionally. When writing a eulogy for a grandparent, focus on your favorite memories together and the role they played in your family. For example:

“Grandma’s house always smelled of freshly baked cookies and felt like a warm hug. She had a way of making every grandchild feel like they were her favorite. Her stories brought our family history to life and her love knit us all together. She was the matriarch, the heart of our family. And though we’ll miss her deeply, we know her love lives on in all of us.”

Eulogy for a Spouse

Losing a spouse is losing your partner, your best friend, your other half. A eulogy for a husband or wife is a tribute to your love story and the life you shared. Here’s an example of a eulogy you might give for them:

“For 40 years, Tom was my constant, my rock, my love. Together we built a beautiful life filled with laughter, adventure, challenges we overcame together, and a love that only grew stronger with time. He taught me the meaning of partnership and unconditional love. And while I’ll miss his physical presence every day, I know our love is eternal. It will carry me through until we meet again.”

Eulogy for a Child

No parent expects to outlive their child. It’s an unimaginable loss. When writing a eulogy for a son or daughter, remember the joy they brought to your life and the impact they had in their time on earth. For example:

“Emily packed more love and light into her 8 short years than most do in a lifetime. Her giggle was infectious, her hugs were healing, and her imagination knew no bounds. She made every day an adventure and taught us all the meaning of unconditional love. Our lives will never be the same without her, but we are forever better because of her. We’ll carry her light with us always.”

Remember, a eulogy doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to come from the heart. Focus on the love, the memories, and the legacy of your family member. Those are the things that will bring comfort and live on.

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Crafting a Beautiful Eulogy: Examples and Insights

Writing and delivering a eulogy is a deeply personal and emotional experience. You want to honor your loved one’s memory, capture their essence, and share the impact they had. However, putting all of that into words can feel overwhelming, especially in the midst of grief.

As you begin the writing process, remember that a eulogy is a celebration of life. It’s a chance to share the stories, qualities and moments that made your loved one so special. Below are some examples and insights to help you craft a heartfelt, meaningful eulogy.

Making it Personal and Heartfelt

A eulogy is not a biography or a list of accomplishments. It’s a reflection of the unique relationship you shared with your loved one, so don’t be afraid to make it personal. Share a cherished memory, inside joke or the little things you’ll miss most. Your perspective is what will make the eulogy special.

“Whenever I was with Grandpa, I felt like I was the most important person in the world. He always had time for a game of checkers, a story from his childhood, or to listen to what was on my mind. Those little moments meant everything.”

Covering the Essentials

While a eulogy is personal, there are some key elements to include. Typically, a eulogy touches on the person’s passions, accomplishments, challenges they overcame, and the impact they had on others. You might share:

• A brief overview of their life
• Their roles (parent, sibling, friend, etc.)
• Their passions and hobbies
• Defining moments or accomplishments
• The impact they had on you and others
• The legacy they leave behind

Gathering Stories from Others

Your loved one likely touched many lives. As you prepare to give your eulogy, consider reaching out to family and friends to collect stories and memories. Their insights can help paint a fuller picture of your loved one and may even spark forgotten memories of your own.

“In talking with Mom’s friends, I was struck by how many mentioned her famous lasagna and open-door policy. Our house was always full of love, laughter and an extra place at the table for whoever needed it.”

Considering the Length

A eulogy typically lasts 3-5 minutes. That may not seem long, but it’s ample time to share a few key stories and memories. Write out your eulogy and practice reading it aloud. Aim for about 500-1000 written words.

Being Honest and Authentic

A eulogy doesn’t have to be perfect or paint an idealized version of your loved one. In fact, acknowledging their quirks and humanity can make the tribute even more authentic and relatable. Share the silly moments alongside the serious. It’s all part of their story.

“Dad wasn’t perfect. He had a terrible sense of direction and a corny sense of humor. But he loved fiercely and showed up, time and again. He was always in our corner, cheering the loudest.”

Ending on a Touching Note

Consider ending your eulogy with a particularly poignant memory or a message of love and gratitude. You might share how you’ll keep their memory alive or the lessons they taught you. Let your final words resonate in the hearts of those gathered.

“Mom, thank you. Thank you for your unconditional love, your sacrifices, your unwavering belief in us. We are who we are because of you. And while we’ll miss your physical presence every day, we know your love surrounds us always. It’s a love we’ll carry and pass on. Your legacy lives on through us.”

Remember, writing a eulogy is a process. Give yourself grace and time as you put your memories and feelings into words. Trust that your love will shine through and know that your words will bring comfort and healing to all who hear them.

Celebrating a Life Well-Lived: Eulogy Examples

When we lose someone dear to us, it’s a time to reflect on the beauty and meaning of their life. A eulogy is a way to honor their memory, to celebrate who they were and the impact they had on those around them. It’s a chance to share the stories , the laughter, and the love that made their life so special.

As you prepare to write a eulogy for a beloved family member or a close friend , draw inspiration from the heartfelt examples below. They showcase different ways to capture the essence of a person’s life, from their passions and hobbies to their unwavering love and support. Use these as a starting point to craft your own tribute, one that truly reflects the unique spirit of your loved one.

Remembering Their Passions and Hobbies

Highlighting a person’s passions, whether it was a love for gardening, a talent for music, or a dedication to their craft, is a beautiful way to remember them. It gives a glimpse into what brought them joy and fulfillment. Sharing these details helps keep their spirit alive in the hearts of those who knew and loved them.

“My dad was an avid gardener and found such peace tending to his roses. He poured his heart into his garden just as he did his family. Even in his final days, he’d sit on the porch and admire the colorful blooms, a soft smile on his face.”

Highlighting Their Unwavering Love and Support

For many, it’s the unconditional love and support of a parent, sibling, or spouse that leaves the deepest impact. A eulogy is a chance to express gratitude for the role they played in your life, for the sacrifices they made, and the love they gave so freely. These memories of unwavering dedication are ones to cherish forever.

“Mom was always our biggest cheerleader. Whether it was a scraped knee or a broken heart, her arms were open for a reassuring hug. She worked tirelessly to give us every opportunity to chase our dreams. Her unwavering love was a guiding light.”

Sharing Funny and Heartwarming Stories

Amidst the tears, sharing funny stories and heartwarming moments can bring a smile to everyone’s faces. These anecdotes not only paint a picture of the person’s character and their humor, but also the joy they brought to others. They’re the stories that will be retold for generations, keeping the person’s memory alive and bringing comfort in times of grief.

“I’ll never forget the time Grandpa got his tie stuck in the car door on the way to my cousin’s wedding. He walked into the church, oblivious, with his tie flapping in the wind. His laughter when he realized is forever etched in my mind.”

Honoring Their Legacy and Impact

A life well-lived leaves a lasting impact on those it touched. Whether it was through their career, their volunteer work, or the way they treated others, a eulogy is a time to honor that legacy. It’s a reminder that even after a person is gone, the love they gave and the difference they made carries on.

“Though she never sought the spotlight, my sister touched so many lives with her quiet strength and compassion. She was the first to lend a helping hand or a listening ear. Her legacy is one of kindness, empathy and generosity of spirit.”

Finding Solace and Strength in Memories

As you navigate the path of grief, hold tight to the precious memories of your loved one. These memories are a testament to the beautiful life they lived and the love you shared. They’re a source of comfort, a reminder that though they may be gone, their presence forever remains in your heart.

Below are examples of memories that you might consider using in your eulogy. Although they probably won’t be the same as ones you have of your loved one, it’s possible they’ll spark ideas and stories you’ll want to incorporate into your speech.

Cherishing the Laughter and Joy They Brought

In times of sorrow, it’s the moments of laughter and pure, unbridled joy that can provide the deepest comfort. Remembering the way your loved one lit up a room with their humor, the inside jokes you shared, the times you couldn’t catch your breath from laughing so hard—these are the memories to cherish. They’re a reminder that even in the darkest times, their light still shines.

“No matter how difficult life got, my brother always found a way to make us laugh. His silly jokes and infectious smile could brighten even the darkest of days. In this time of grief, we find comfort in the joy he brought to our lives.”

Drawing Inspiration from Their Resilience

Many of us have had the privilege of knowing someone whose strength and resilience was a constant source of inspiration. Whether they faced health challenges, personal setbacks, or the ups and downs of a long life, they met each hurdle with grace and determination. In your eulogy, highlight that strength. Let their example furthermore guide the stories and insights you include in your eulogy.

“Grandma faced countless challenges in her 98 years, but she met each one with unwavering resilience. Her inner strength and ability to overcome inspired us all. As we mourn, we also celebrate the tenacious spirit that carried her through life.”

Keeping Their Memory Alive Through Stories

Stories have a magic way of keeping a loved one’s presence close, even after they’re gone. Whether it’s recounting their favorite jokes, reliving cherished moments together, or passing down the lessons they taught, sharing these stories is a gift. Not only does it ensure that future generations will know the person you loved so dearly, but it also helps their legacy live on through the memories you keep.

“Though he’s no longer with us physically, Dad’s memory lives on in the stories we share. Each tale of his adventures, wisdom and love keeps him close. We’ll continue to tell these stories, passing them down like precious heirlooms.”

Finding Comfort in the Love They Shared

The love your family member or friend shared during their lifetime doesn’t end with their passing. It lives on in the hearts of those they cherished and in the relationships they nurtured, as well as in the family they built. Take comfort in knowing that you carry that love with you always. Not only is it a source of strength, but it’s also a reminder that even in the face of loss, love endures. Reflecting that love in your eulogy might look like this:

“In times of sorrow, we draw strength from the incredible love Mom and Dad shared for 60 years. Theirs was a love that endured, a bond unbreakable. We find solace knowing they are reunited and their love story lives on through us.”

As you craft your own eulogy, speak from the heart, share the memories that mean the most, and let your words be a celebration of the beautiful life they lived. In doing so, you ensure that their spirit lives on, forever cherished and never forgotten.

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FAQs on Eulogy Examples

What is a good example of a eulogy.

A heartfelt tribute focusing on fond memories, the loved one’s virtues, and their impact. It feels both personal and sincere.

How do you start off a eulogy?

Kick off with how much they meant to you. Mention your relationship briefly in order to set the tone right away.

What is the best opening line for a eulogy?

“Today we gather to celebrate the remarkable life of [Name], whose spirit touched us all deeply.”

What is the best last line of a eulogy?

“As we say goodbye, let [Name]’s legacy inspire us every day to live fully and love fiercely.”

Remember, a eulogy is a celebration of life. This is when we gather around to treasure every laugh, bit of affection, and those special snapshots in time that highlighted what made them unique. Start with these eulogy examples, then add a dash of your own stories to whip up a heartfelt homage that reflects who they were.

As you stand before family and friends to deliver your eulogy, also remember that your words are a gift. They offer comfort, healing, and a reminder that even though your loved one may be gone, their spirit lives on through the stories and memories you hold dear.

So take a deep breath, speak from the heart, and let your eulogy be a loving testament to the incredible person you’re honoring. Their memory will continue to shine bright through the love and words you share.

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21+ Short Eulogy Examples for a Funeral

Updated 04/12/2024

Published 11/15/2019

Kate Wight, BA in English

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A eulogy is a speech given in honor of a loved one who has passed away. Eulogies are given at funerals and memorial services and are typically delivered by a family member or close friend of the deceased.

Eulogies are one of the most important aspects of a funeral or memorial service . They provide an opportunity to inform or remind guests of who the deceased was as a person. In a eulogy, the person delivering it talks about the deceased’s interests and talents. They’ll also share things the deceased was passionate about. In addition, they may share funny or moving anecdotes about the deceased.

Have you been tapped to deliver a eulogy for a loved one, but aren’t sure what you should say? The tone for your eulogy will depend on a lot of factors. The eulogy a grandson gives for his grandfather will be different than the eulogy a husband gives for his wife or one a sister gives for her brother. It will also depend on the manner of death.

A eulogy for someone who died in a tragic accident will have a different tenor than a eulogy for someone who died after a lengthy illness. Here are some tips to help you prepare, no matter the circumstances.

Tip:  You can also use these eulogy examples as a starting point for your online memorial page. Writing a memorial page tribute is very similar to writing a eulogy. If you haven't created a memorial page yet, consider using Cake's online memorial tool . It's easy to use and completely free.

Jump ahead to these sections:

Short eulogy examples for a friend, short eulogy examples for a father or father-in-law, short eulogy examples for a mother or mother-in-law, short eulogy examples for a brother or sister, short eulogy examples for a cousin, short eulogy examples for a partner or spouse, short eulogy examples for an aunt or uncle, short eulogy examples for a colleague.

Sometimes it’s difficult settling on a family member to deliver a eulogy. Family members may be too emotional, or there may be some degree of family estrangement. Whatever the reason, sometimes a friend is the best option. The honor usually goes to a lifelong friend who grew up with the deceased and can provide perspective on them throughout their life.

Here are some examples of how a eulogy from a friend might read.

“Amanda and I met on the first day of kindergarten. I was crying, because, as many of you know, I don’t do well with change. Amanda marched right up to me and took my hand. ‘Don’t worry,’ she said. ‘I’ll take care of you.’ That’s the kind of person she was. She was always the kind of person who would step up and take care of someone sad or hurt or afraid.

"That’s why none of us were surprised when she became a firefighter . On the worst day of people’s lives, she was there. She was willing to put herself on the line to protect people and their families. In the end, she died saving people, and she wouldn’t have had any regrets about that, so I can’t either. I’m still sad about it though. I still don’t do well with change. And I wish she was here to hold my hand and get me through.”

“John and I have been friends our whole lives. We were actually friends before we were even born—our mothers met in the waiting room at the doctor’s office when they were pregnant with us. We grew up a few streets apart. We went to school together.

"We played football together. We started a terrible garage band together, much to the dismay of our parents and anyone else in a three-block radius. John was always more like a brother to me than a friend, and when he married my sister that made it official. I don’t know what my life will look like without him in it. I’ve never had to live in a world without him.

"But we have sons who are the same age, and they are cousins and best friends all in one. Getting to watch them grow up together will help keep John alive in all of our hearts.”

"Many of you may know that Sarah and I have owned and operated a bakery together for several years. You might not know that we were baking together long before that. Our parents enrolled us in a summer program that taught kids how to cook and bake, and we bonded over our love for creating offbeat flavors.

"While most kids our age had lemonade stands, we were setting up mini bake sales to buy more ingredients to bake more stuff. Sarah wasn’t just a talented baker, though. She was a great person. When you’re working long hours with someone, it’s easy to get frustrated with each other. But Sarah was endlessly patient and kind with everyone, inside the kitchen and out.”

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It can be difficult finding the right words to capture everything special about your father. Some people will source  funeral quotes for a eulogy . They can make it easier for you to find an entry point. Others will instead pick a particular anecdote that sums up their father’s character. Here are a few examples.

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“The author Frank Clark wrote, ‘A father is a man who expects his son to be as good a man as he meant to be.’ My father was the best man I knew. Even so, he expected us, his sons, to be better. He did this by holding us accountable for our actions.

"If we weren’t living up to his expectations, he was sure to let us know. But was never unkind about it. He showed us that real men needed to be compassionate as well as strong. I’ll never be able to express how grateful I am for the way he raised us. But I will continue to always try to exceed his expectations about who I could be.”

“Charles Kettering once said, ‘Every father should remember one day his son will follow his example, not his advice.' I don’t know if my dad knew that quote, but it was certainly the way he lived his life.

"While some of my friends’ dads had an attitude that seemed to be, ‘Do as I say, not as I do,’ my father would have never asked that of me. If there was anything he couldn’t stand it was hypocrisy. I’m so proud of the kind of dad I had. I hope that as he looks down on me from heaven, he’ll continue to be proud of the kind of son I am.”

“My parents split up when I was quite young, and my mother raised me on her own. She did such a phenomenal job, that I never felt like I was missing out on anything. But when I met my husband, I finally realized how much different a father-daughter dynamic could be.

"Charles was more than a father-in-law to me. He truly was the father I never had. He was always there for me to offer advice or a hug. When I married my husband he told me not to feel that I was adjacent to the family—he let me know that he thought of me as one of his children. I hope he knows that I held him in just as high a regard.”

If you need more help writing a eulogy for your dad, read our guides on how to write a eulogy for a father  and how to write a eulogy for a father-in-law .

There is no love like the love that a mother feels for her child. Delivering a eulogy for the mother or mother figure in your life allows you to express your gratitude for that very unique love.

“When I was young, I remember asking my mom why she wasn’t home waiting for me after school like the moms of so many of my friends. She told me that while being a mother was an incredible calling, she felt that her skills and talents that she needed to share with the world.

"My mother was the first female surgeon to practice at her hospital. She prepared for that as one of the only female medical students in her class. People challenged her ability to be both a mother and a surgeon, but she brought the same passion and commitment to both roles. And she did it without tearing down other women who walked different paths. She has inspired me as both her daughter and as a physician.”

“There are so many rites of passage that people think are exclusive to fathers and sons. But as a boy who was raised by a single mother, I learned so many things from her you wouldn’t expect. She taught me to change my oil and change my tires.

"She taught me how to throw a baseball. But she also taught me how to cook and how to be a good listener. She played the role of two parents, and she did it in a way that never let on how many sacrifices she had to make. I am such a well-rounded person because of the way she raised me.” 

“When we were growing up, we didn’t have much to our names. But honestly, we never realized what we were missing out on. Susan, our mother, was so creative in the way she spent time with us. She could tell epic tales from the top of her head that always captured our attention.

"She created magical worlds for us to play in. Even when we didn’t have much to eat, she’d give our simple dinners exciting names to make us laugh. She taught us so much about resilience, even when we didn’t understand that’s the lesson we were learning.”

Read our guides on how to write a eulogy for a mother if you need more help, tips, or examples.

Siblings have a special and unique bond. While sometimes siblings can drive you crazy, they are also your first best friends. It can be so hard to eulogize siblings, but it is also incredibly rewarding to be able to send off your brother or sister with special, well-chosen words:

“When I used to go to my friends’ houses after school, I could never understand why their older brothers shooed us away when we wanted to play with them. After all, my older brother never treated me like that. Before long, it felt like he wasn’t just my big brother—he was everyone’s big brother.

"All my friends wanted to play at our house because they loved Manuel so much. He didn’t treat us like we were dumb or annoying because we happened to be younger than he was. He was always so generous with his time and attention. The world has lost such a special person.”

“Those of you who didn’t know us growing up might be surprised to hear that Marian and I weren’t always close. Marian was smart and beautiful. She seemed to have everything going for her. It was hard being her younger sister. I struggled academically, and teachers who had taught her would often accuse me of slacking off. In a lot of ways, I resented her because she seemed to have it so easy.

"It wasn’t until she went to college and I really began to miss her that I regretted the gulf between us. We talked more, and I learned she was jealous of how easily I made friends. I also learned she felt sad because it seemed like I didn’t like her. I vowed never to make her feel that way again. I’m proud to say that we were best friends for the last 20 years, and I’ll always be proud to be her sister.” 

“People used to ask me growing up what it was like to have an identical twin. I could never find the words. How do you explain what it’s like to have someone share your exact DNA? It’s the closest you can be to another person without being them.

"Conversely, I can’t begin to put into words what it’s like to be standing here without Emma. It would be easier to stand here without lungs or a heart because she is so essential to who I am. But because of our shared DNA, I can take comfort in the fact that as long as I’m alive, she will also exist in some form.”

Head over to our guide on how to write a eulogy for a sister and how to write a eulogy for a brother for more inspiration. 

Sometimes it can be challenging for parents or a sibling to eulogize someone in their immediate family. A cousin can be close enough to provide perspective on the deceased and retain some emotional distance.

“I was an only child growing up but in truth, it never felt that way. Rachel was more of a sister to me than a cousin. We were the same age, we wore the same size, and we both had the Andrews’ family combination of red hair and green eyes.

"We looked enough alike that no one questioned us when we said we were twins. In recent years, we lived farther away from each other than we ever had before. But we remained close, and I don’t know what I’ll do without our weekly Sunday night phone calls.”

“Growing up the only girl in a family with five brothers was a real challenge sometimes. Luckily I had Norah. While Norah was my cousin, she played the role of a big sister to me. She passed me down awesome clothes and taught me how to style my hair and put on makeup. She also offered me comfort and advice whenever I had boy troubles.

"This was so helpful because I couldn’t confide in my brothers—all they’d do is threaten to beat guys up if they made me cry. Norah left behind two daughters, and I hope I can pay forward her kindness by being there for them the way she was for me.”

“Calvin and I didn’t live near each other growing up, but every summer our families would meet up for two weeks at the family lake house. Those idyllic summers remain some of my favorite family memories. Calvin and I would be up with the sun every day. We played hide and seek. We leaped off the old tire swing into the water.

"We rode our bikes to the ice cream shop and roasted hot dogs and S’mores in the firepit for dinner. Half the nights we wouldn’t even sleep inside, opting instead to camp out under the expansive night sky. Now, whenever I look up at the stars, I’ll know Calvin is right there looking down on us.”   

When you commit to spending your life with someone, you have the intention of being with them until the end of the line. Sadly, sometimes one partner’s journey ends well before their counterpart. Here are some examples of a eulogy you might give in honor of a spouse or partner.

“Many little girls grow up planning their perfect future wedding. Anyone who knows me can tell you that I was not one of them. My family was complex and fractured. Every example I had of a marriage or partnership seemed toxic and terrible. I didn’t understand why people would voluntarily sign up to spend their lives with someone else when it just looked miserable to me. That all changed when I met Jeff.

While I had dated other people before Jeff, I never went into anything thinking it would last long-term. But Jeff was different. He quickly became my best friend as well as my partner. He told me once that he was ready to marry me two weeks after we met. But he knew I was wary about that level of commitment for various reasons. He told me that it was okay if I was never ready to get married. He wasn’t going anywhere, whether we had a piece of paper tying us together or not. And after almost a decade, I was finally ready to take that plunge.

Jeff changed my life in so many ways. He taught me that even if my past scarred me, it didn’t make me unworthy of love. He taught me that love and patience must go hand in hand. Now that he’s gone, I feel half of my heart is missing. But I will never regret loving him and walking this world side by side for the time we shared.”

“Mary Anne and I were only married for six short years, but our relationship spans decades. For so many years, we had to tell people that we were just roommates and best friends. But over time, we were able to share with our close family and friends that we were in love. Even then, we didn’t think that we would ever have the opportunity to get married. 

When same-sex marriage was legalized, there wasn’t a question about whether or not we would get married. The only question was when. We ended up having a quick courthouse wedding because we were so afraid that legislators would say, “Just kidding!” But even the most extravagant fairy tale wedding couldn’t have topped our simple ceremony. Because finally, the whole world could see us celebrate our love and commitment to one another.

A marriage license didn’t suddenly make our relationship valid or even stronger. Mary Anne and I were together for almost forty years before our marriage, and during that time, we were forged in fire. But even a decade ago, I wouldn’t have been able to stand up here and call myself her wife. I miss Mary Anne desperately. But I’m so fortunate that I was able to formalize my relationship with her in a way that earlier generations of gay people would never have dreamed possible.”

Family dynamics can vary quite dramatically across cultures. In some cultures, it’s unusual for people to form a close connection with extended family members. Meanwhile, in other cultures, every older family member is regarded as an aunt or an uncle, no matter how distant the family relationship may be. But no matter where you come from, an aunt or uncle may significantly influence your life. Here are some eulogies that honor that special relationship. 

“When people learn that I grew up without a dad, they often feel sorry for me. But the truth is, I never felt like anything was missing from my life. My mom was an amazing woman who worked hard to support us and was always there for me emotionally, too. But she also knew I needed a strong male role model in my life. That’s where Uncle Jerry came in.

My mom’s brother was a perpetual bachelor who never had much interest in starting a family of his own. But when my mom asked him if he could serve in a fatherly role to me, he stepped up without any hesitation. He played catch with me when I was young and attended all my baseball games when I got older. I could hear him bellow from the stands, “That’s my boy!” whenever I got so much as a base hit. He taught me how to shave and how to tie a tie. He taught me how to be a good man, unlike the guy who fathered me and then took off before I was even born.

When people ask me if it was hard growing up without a father, I tell them I don’t know. Because as far as I’m concerned, Uncle Jerry was and always will be the only dad I needed.”

“Both of my parents were only children, so I didn’t have a lot of family around when I was growing up. I would get jealous hearing my friends talk about their aunts and uncles, so one day when I was three or four, I demanded that my mom create an aunt for me. She told this story to her best friend Nancy, who immediately said, ‘Well, that’s it, I’m her aunt now.’ And from then on, she was Aunt Nancy.

Nancy was probably the most remarkable person I had ever met, so I was thrilled about her new role in my life. I was fascinated by her stylish bob haircut and dangly earrings. She lived in New York City, which felt so cultured compared to small-town Florida. When I would visit her, she’d take me to restaurants that served exotic global cuisine. She took me to plays. She let me sneak a glass of champagne at dinner and then took me to a fortune teller. Thanks to her influence, my world instantly expanded and became more colorful and vibrant.

Recently, my best friend had her first child. I’ve already told her that if her kid needs an honorary aunt, count me in. After all, I learned from the best.”

A eulogy is typically delivered by a family member or close friend of the deceased. But that’s not always the case. If you work a traditional nine to five job, you’ll spend nearly a quarter of your adult life at work. Over time, people often develop close, almost familial relationships with their coworkers, in addition to the people in their personal lives. Alternatively, someone who devotes themselves to their career may not have many close connections outside of the office. A coworker may be the best person to deliver a eulogy in cases like these. 

“Sally Murray was an extraordinary teacher. I could spend the next five minutes discussing her many accolades and professional accomplishments without even scratching the surface. Instead, I’d like to focus on the more personal aspects that made her a great educator. 

Sally didn’t talk about her early life too often, but she let some things slip every now and then. She grew up in the system, bouncing between foster families and group homes. When she aged out of the system, she had very few resources, save for her high school English teacher who took her in when she had nowhere else to go. Sally spent her entire life paying that forward.

Sally could have worked in any number of schools, but she chose the ones that had the fewest resources. She connected with even the most hardened kids because she had once been where they were. She was never condescending. She never painted herself as a savior. She just wanted to reach out a hand to people who were struggling and help pull them up.

One of our coworkers once asked her if she was sad she had never had kids. ‘What are you talking about?’ Sally scoffed. ‘I have hundreds of kids.’ That’s just the kind of person she was.”

“When I took over my dad’s business after he passed away, I felt like I was in way over my head. I spent a lot of nights working late, trying to get a handle on how to run the company without driving it into the ground. Every night at 10 pm, Sam, our nighttime security guard, would poke his head into my office to say hello. At first, I didn’t welcome the interruption. But I soon realized that Sam knew the company better than anyone else. He was the silent eyes and ears of the place, and he was happy to share his knowledge with me so I could have a broader understanding of what I was working with.

Soon, my nightly meetings with Sam became the highlight of my day. I started brewing coffee before he’d come by on his rounds and would cajole him into having a cup with me. He regaled me with stories about how the business had evolved over the past twenty years. It turned out he and my dad had shared the same ritual, which made me feel even closer to him.

When you run a business, you’re very fortunate if you can find people who value it as much as you do. Sam may not have owned the business, but he took ownership of it in a way that I probably never could have. It won’t be the same without his constant, steady presence.`` 

Delivering Your Best Eulogy

There is no hard and fast rule about who should deliver a eulogy. It could be delivered by a family member, a close friend, or even a work colleague or mentor. The only real requirement is that the person delivering the eulogy should have had a strong bond with the deceased. When you speak from your heart, you are sure to honor the person you cared for . 

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How To Write a Funeral Speech With Eulogy Examples

Looking for the right words to say? We’ve compiled the most heartfelt, personal funeral speech examples to help you honor your loved one’s memory.

Standing in a room full of people to deliver a eulogy for a loved one is one of life's most challenging tasks. The weight of finding the right words to honor a life well-lived can be overwhelming. It’s nerve-wracking — but it’s also an honor.

You want to do your best to get it right. And we’re here to help.

This article contains practical advice and inspiration (plus, some funeral speech examples) to help you write a heartfelt and memorable eulogy.

Whether you're a skilled orator or someone who struggles with public speaking, these steps will guide you through the process of writing a funeral speech for a family member or a friend — something that truly celebrates their life.

Step-by-Step Guide to Writing a Funeral Speech

From gathering memories and structuring your speech to writing with authenticity and emotion, here are the steps you can take to find the support you need to write a funeral speech for family members.

Step 1: Gather information and inspiration

Start by gathering memories, stories, and anecdotes. Make notes of what you feel about them. Reach out to family members and close friends to collect their memories and stories. Ask them about the moments that stood out, the qualities they admired, and the experiences that made an impact. 

These personal insights will provide the foundation for your eulogy, ensuring that it reflects the individuality and spirit of the person you’re honoring.

Additionally, spend time reviewing old photos, letters, and personal belongings. These items can stir memories and bring to mind moments you might want to include in your speech. 

Photos can remind you of significant events, travels, and achievements, while letters and other mementos might reveal your loved one’s thoughts, values, or personality in ways that words alone cannot. 

This process will help gather content and provide a comforting way to connect with your memories during this difficult time.

Step 2: Structure the eulogy

Once you’ve gathered your thoughts and stories, the next step is to structure the eulogy in a way that flows logically and emotionally. A well-organized speech helps to convey your message clearly and keeps the audience engaged.

Here are some typical components of a eulogy:

• Introduction: Begin with a brief introduction that acknowledges the gathering and sets the tone for the eulogy. You might start by introducing yourself, especially if not everyone in the audience knows you.  Then, briefly mention who the departed was to you (a parent, sibling, or friend) and touch on their importance in your life. You could include a quote, a poem, or a reflection that resonates with the person’s life. ‍
• Main body: This is the heart of your eulogy, where you share the memories, stories, and qualities that defined your loved one. Consider organizing the main body thematically or chronologically.  For example, you could focus on different aspects of their life — such as their childhood, career, hobbies, and relationships — or you might choose to highlight their character traits , like kindness, humor, or perseverance. Use the anecdotes and stories you’ve gathered to illustrate these points, making sure to balance lighter moments with more serious reflections. ‍
• Conclusion: Bring your thoughts together with a final reflection on your loved one’s life . This could be a summary of the impact they had on those around them or a message of hope and remembrance for the future.  You might also close with a quote, a final wish, or a call to action, encouraging those present to honor the deceased’s memory in their own lives. ‍

Organizing your thoughts (logically and emotionally) is crucial to delivering a eulogy that feels cohesive and heartfelt. 

Start by listing the key points you want to cover, such as specific memories, qualities, and messages. Then, arrange these points in a way that feels natural and emotionally resonant. 

For example, you might start with lighter, more joyful memories and gradually move toward more profound reflections, allowing the audience to journey with you through a range of emotions.

Remember, the goal is not to create a perfect speech but to convey your genuine feelings and memories in a way that honors your loved one. Take the time to structure your eulogy thoughtfully.

Step 3: Personalize the eulogy

This step makes your speech really resonate with those in attendance. Personalization honors the departed and provides comfort and connection to those who are grieving. Here’s how you can achieve that:

• Highlight achievements, hobbies, and passions: Reflect on the major achievements in your loved one’s life. This could include career milestones, personal accomplishments, or contributions to their community.  Discussing these achievements shows how they made a difference in the world and the lives of those around them. For example, if your loved one was passionate about volunteering, you could share stories of the impact they had on the lives they touched through their service.  ‍ If they were an avid gardener, you might talk about how their love for plants brought beauty into the lives of friends and family, perhaps even sharing a story about a particularly beloved garden or plant they tended to. ‍
• Use personal anecdotes to illustrate character and impact: Personal anecdotes bring to life the character and impact of the person being remembered. These stories can be humorous, touching, or a mix of both.  For example, you might share a story about a time when their sense of humor lightened a difficult situation or how their kindness helped a friend through a tough time. These anecdotes help highlight their personality and remind everyone present of the moments they shared. ‍
• Respect and integrate cultural traditions: Consider and respect any cultural or religious traditions that were significant to your loved one. This might involve incorporating specific rituals, prayers, or symbols into the eulogy or the service itself.  For instance, in some cultures, it’s customary to read a particular prayer or poem, light candles, or play a certain type of music. If your loved one was deeply connected to their cultural heritage, integrate these elements to make the eulogy more meaningful. ‍
• Quotes, poetry, or song lyrics: Do this to add depth and resonance to your eulogy. Choose words that reflect the spirit of your loved one or that express sentiments you find difficult to put into your own words. For example, you might include a line from a favorite poem that they loved or that perfectly captures their outlook on life. A short, meaningful quote can serve as a powerful conclusion to a section of your eulogy , helping to tie together the memories and themes you’ve discussed.

Step 4: Write with emotion and authenticity

Writing a eulogy is not just about recounting facts; it’s about conveying emotions and memories associated with your loved one. Here are some points to keep in mind:

• A well-rounded eulogy often incorporates a mix of emotions — there’s room for humor, sentiment, and solemn reflection . Humor can provide relief in a heavy moment and remind everyone of the joy the person brought into their lives.  For example, sharing a funny anecdote can lighten the mood and help the audience connect with the memories in a positive way. However, it’s important to ensure that the humor is respectful and appropriate to the setting. ‍
• Emotion and solemnity should also be present, as these reflect the seriousness of the occasion and the depth of your feelings. Share moments of tenderness, gratitude, and love, allowing yourself to be vulnerable. The audience will connect with your sincerity, and it will help them process their own emotions as well. ‍ ‍
• When writing your eulogy, speak from the heart. Use simple, direct language that conveys your feelings honestly. Instead of trying to impress with elaborate words, focus on being sincere and true to your emotions. Think about what you truly want to say to honor your loved one, and let that guide your words. ‍ ‍
• Don’t be afraid to show your emotions as you write — tears and laughter are both part of the grieving process . If you’re comfortable, let these emotions flow into your writing. This authenticity will resonate with your audience and make your speech more impactful. ‍ ‍
• It’s easy to fall into using clichés when writing a eulogy, but try to avoid them where possible. Phrases like “they’re in a better place” or “they’ll always be with us” can feel impersonal and overused.  Instead, focus on what made your loved one unique. Highlight their quirks, their habits, the little things that defined them — these are what the audience will remember and cherish. ‍
• Describe specific moments or traits that capture the individual’s essence. For example, rather than saying someone was kind, describe a time when they went out of their way to help someone else. These details bring the person to life in the minds of those listening and create a more personal and meaningful tribute.

Step 5: Craft a compelling opening and closing

Your opening should draw the audience in and make them feel connected from the start. You might begin with a powerful quote, a heartfelt memory, or a statement that captures your loved one’s spirit. 

For example, you could start with, “When I think of [Name], I’m reminded of how they always had a way of making everyone in the room feel seen and valued.” This immediately sets a warm, reflective tone.

Another approach could be to acknowledge the difficulty of the moment while expressing gratitude for those who have come to honor the person who has passed away. This helps to unify the audience in shared purpose and emotion.

The closing of your eulogy is your final opportunity to leave the audience with something meaningful. You may end with a message of hope, a reflection on the person’s lasting impact, or a call to action — encouraging those present to carry forward the values and love that their loved one embodied.

For example, you could conclude with, “Let us remember [Name] not just today, but in the way we live our lives — in kindness, in joy, and love, just as they did.” This provides a sense of continuity and honors their legacy.

Alternatively, you might end with a simple, heartfelt goodbye or a moment of silence to allow everyone to reflect on their own memories.

Funeral Speech Examples for Various Relationships

We’ve put together a few funeral-speech examples that you could gain inspiration from when writing your own.

These examples are entirely fictional and have been created for illustrative purposes only. Our goal is to inspire and guide you as you write something of your own.

Any resemblance to real persons, living or deceased, is purely coincidental. Please use these examples as a starting point to craft a personalized and meaningful tribute that truly captures the essence of your loved one’s life and legacy.

1. Eulogy example for a parent

"My father, Robert 'Bob' Caldwell, was a man of few words. He taught me more through his quiet determination than any lecture ever could. As I stand here today, I'm reminded of the countless weekends we spent in his workshop, the smell of sawdust filling the air as he patiently guided my clumsy hands through each project.

“Dad never sought the spotlight, but his impact on our community was undeniable. For 30 years, he volunteered at the local animal shelter, arriving every Saturday morning without fail to walk the dogs no one else wanted to. I remember him coming home once, covered in mud and wearing the biggest grin, because he'd finally gotten 'Old Grumpy' (our notoriously difficult bulldog) to play fetch.

“My father's love for our family was as steady as his workshop routine. He may not have said 'I love you' often, but he showed it in a thousand little ways - from never missing a single one of my terrible middle school band concerts to learning to bake the world's most lopsided birthday cakes when Mom was ill.

“In his final days, as we sat together watching his beloved Red Sox, he turned to me and said, 'You know, kiddo, I think I did alright.' Dad, you did more than alright. You showed us all how to live with integrity, kindness, and purpose. Your legacy lives on in the values you instilled in us and the countless lives you touched. 

“Rest easy, Dad. We'll take it from here."

2. Eulogy example for a spouse

"Maria Gonzalez was not just my wife. She was my North Star and the love of my life for 37 incredible years. When we met at that crowded college party, I never imagined that the woman who accidentally spilled her drink on me would become the person I couldn't imagine living without.

“Maria had this infectious laugh that could light up a room. I swear, half the neighborhood knew when she found something funny. Her passion for life was matched only by her compassion for others. As a pediatric nurse, she touched countless lives, and I lost count of the times former patients would stop us in the grocery store to thank her.

“She turned our house into a warm, welcoming haven, not just for our kids but for every stray friend or neighbor who needed a safe place. Her famous 'emergency enchiladas' became legendary; I think she fed most teenagers in town over the years.

“Maria faced her illness with the same grace and humor that she approached everything in life with. Even on her toughest days, she'd find a way to make her doctors laugh or comfort a fellow patient. In our last conversation, she made me promise to keep her garden alive and to never, ever attempt to cook her secret salsa recipe.

“My love, I will miss your terrible puns, your off-key singing in the shower, and the way you always knew exactly what I needed before I did. The world is dimmer without your light, but I promise to keep shining it forward in your memory.”

3. Eulogy example for a child

"Our sweet Lily was only with us for six short years, but in that time, she filled our lives with more joy, laughter, and love than we ever thought possible. From the moment she entered this world, with her bright eyes and curious fingers, Lily had a way of making everyone around her smile.

“Lily was our little adventurer. She approached life with an enthusiasm that was both inspiring and, frankly, a little exhausting on some days. I'll never forget the day we found her in the backyard, covered head to toe in mud, proudly showing off the 'fairy house' she'd built for the garden squirrels. Her imagination knew no bounds.

“Despite the challenges she faced with her health, Lily never lost her spark. Even during hospital stays, she'd insist on wearing her favorite tutu and tiara, declaring herself a princess. The nurses adored her, often sneaking in extra Jell-O cups just to see her face light up.

“In her final days, Lily taught us about courage and grace beyond her years. She worried more about comforting us than herself, always ready with a hug and her favorite phrase: ‘I’m okay, Mommy and Daddy.'

“Lily, my darling, you were right. You’re okay now. You’re better than okay; you showed us how to find joy in every moment and love in every challenge. We'll carry you with us always, our beautiful, brave little girl."

4. Eulogy example for a sibling

"My brother, Marcus, was more than just my older sibling — he was my protector, my confidant, and quite often, my partner in mischief. Growing up, there was no adventure too daring, no tree too high to climb, as long as Marcus was by my side.

“As we got older, our adventures changed, but our bond grew stronger. Marcus had this uncanny ability to show up exactly when you needed him. I can't count the number of times he appeared at my door with a pint of ice cream and a terrible movie, somehow knowing I'd had a rough day.

“Marcus lived life with a truly unmatched passion. He threw himself wholeheartedly into everything he did, whether it was mastering a new recipe in the kitchen (his paella was legendary), training for marathons, or fighting for causes he believed in. His work with local youth programs changed countless lives, and I know many of those kids saw in Marcus the same hero I always did.

“In our last conversation, Marcus made me promise to keep living life to the fullest and to keep seeking out new adventures. He said, 'Life's too short for regrets, sis. Make it count.' And that's exactly what I intend to do.

“As we remember Marcus today, I ask each of you to take a moment to appreciate the loved ones in your life. Let's honor Marcus's memory by cherishing every moment we have with those we care about, just as he did.

“Now, I invite you all to join me in a moment of silence. Let's reflect on the joy he brought to our lives and the lessons he taught us about living fully and loving deeply.

[Pause for a moment of silence]

“Thank you. Let's carry Marcus's spirit of adventure, laughter, and love with us always. May we all strive to 'make it count' in our own lives, just as he did in his."

5. Eulogy example for a friend

"I stand here today to celebrate the life of my dear friend, Jasmine Chen. A force of nature — brilliant, passionate, and fiercely loyal.

“Our friendship began 20 years ago in college, in the chemistry lab. She saved our experiment from disaster with quick thinking and a fire extinguisher, grinning, 'Well, that's one way to break the ice.'

“Jasmine approached everything with determination and humor. From groundbreaking research to organizing charity runs in ridiculous costumes, she poured her whole heart into it. She brought people together, creating family wherever she went.

“I'll miss our coffee dates when we'd solve the world's problems. Well, at least we’d leave feeling like we did. Jasmine made you feel heard and understood, even when challenging your perspective. Her curious mind always sought to understand more about the world and its people.

“Jasmine lived by her favorite Toni Morrison quote: 'If you have some power, then your job is to empower somebody else.' And she did. Her research will impact lives for years, but her greatest legacy is the love and inspiration she left in all of us.

“To my dear friend: Thank you for sharing your joy, support, and for showing us how to live with purpose. We'll honor you by embracing life with your enthusiasm. As you'd say, quoting your beloved David Bowie, 'I don't know where I'm going from here, but I promise it won't be boring.' Your impact will continue to ripple outwards, Jasmine. Rock on, my friend."

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How To Write A Funeral Tribute Or Eulogy (With Examples)

In times of grief, finding the strength to craft a heartfelt funeral tribute or eulogy can be a daunting task as many people find it difficult to fully express their emotions after a loss. However, for many others, sharing memories can also provide solace and comfort which is why tributes and eulogies have become a popular tradition at many funerals and celebrations of life . 

Differences Between Eulogies & Tributes

While both eulogies and tributes serve as ways to honour and remember a loved one who has passed away, there are slight differences between the two:

• A eulogy is typically a more formal speech delivered during the funeral or memorial services and its focus is on commemorating the life of the deceased by highlighting their accomplishments, qualities, and impact on others. It often includes personal anecdotes, memories, and reflections shared by the speaker. Eulogies are directed towards those attending the funeral or memorial service, providing them with an opportunity to celebrate the life of the person who has passed away and offering a sense of comfort and support to grieving family and friends. 
• A tribute on the other hand is more informal and can take a variety of forms including speeches, videos, slideshows, or other symbolic acts and can include music and even multiple people in their delivery. Much like a eulogy, the content will focus on honouring the person who has passed away but will be directed more towards the individual being honoured rather than the audience. It serves to express affirmation, appreciation, and gratitude towards the individual, acknowledging their contributions, influence, and significance in the lives of others both personally and professionally.

Who Reads The Eulogy At A Funeral?

A eulogy is typically read by a close family member or friend who has a deep connection to the deceased and can offer personal insights and reflections on their life, but in many religious funerals can also be read by a religious leader, spiritual leader, Elder, or other figure. Ultimately the person chosen to deliver the eulogy is often someone who knew the deceased well and can effectively convey their character, accomplishments, and impact on others. The decision of who reads a eulogy or tribute ultimately depends on the preferences of the deceased and their family, as well as cultural or religious customs.

What Topics Should Be Covered In A Funeral Tribute Or Eulogy?

When writing a eulogy or creating a tribute, it’s best to focus on the qualities and personality traits of the person who has passed away and this may include:

• The person’s character  
• Accomplishments or things that brought them joy or pride
• Contributions and impact on family, friends, and the community 
• Meaningful memories and experiences 
• Knowledge they imparted or skills they taught others 

How Long Should A Eulogy Or Funeral Tribute Be?

While the length of the eulogy or funeral tribute can vary depending on the message you want to portray or the customs and expectations of the family, most tributes will usually be around 5-10 minutes in duration. Using this as a guide may help you make your message more concise and impactful, but also take the pressure off speaking for a long length of time. 

You also don’t have to recite from memory – it’s common for eulogies and tributes to be read out and most venues will be able to provide you with a stand where you can place your notes and a microphone so you can be heard clearly without having to project your voice. 

How To Deal With Emotions While Delivering A Eulogy Or Funeral Tribute

It’s natural to experience a range of emotions when delivering a eulogy or funeral tribute, and understandably that can make it difficult to speak or remain fully focused. If you feel overwhelmed, pause and take a breath – the audience will be sympathetic, so take time to compose yourself and try not to worry. Similarly, if you stumble over your words, lose your place in your notes, need a minute to get a tissue, or anything else at all, try not to worry or get embarrassed – it’s an emotional occasion and showing vulnerability is completely normal. 

Examples Of Eulogies And Tributes

We hope some of the short template examples below will provide inspiration and placeholders where you can contribute your own stories and words. 

Example 1: Tribute To A Parent/Guardian

As I stand before you today, I am honoured to pay tribute to my beloved [parent/guardian], who was not only my guiding light but also a pillar of strength for our family. One of the qualities that defined [name] was their unwavering kindness. I remember [examples of interactions], demonstrating compassion and empathy in every interaction. Many of you may recall [name]’s love for gardening. [His/Her] green thumb was legendary, and our backyard was transformed into a place where friends and neighbours wanted to gather, spend quality time together, and allow us to admire [name]’s handiwork. Let us carry forward [name]’s legacy by embracing kindness, compassion, and resilience in our own lives. Though [he/she] may no longer be with us in body, [his/her] spirit will continue to inspire and uplift us.

Example 2: Tribute To A Grandparent Or Older Family Member

Today, we gather to celebrate the remarkable life of my beloved [grandparent / family member], [name]. To me, [he/she] was a source of wisdom, love, and endless stories that filled our hearts with joy. Some of my fondest memories with [grandparent / family member] were our heart-felt catchups during our weekly baking sessions. [He/She] also taught me the importance of patience and perseverance, whether we were perfecting [his/her] famous apple pie or trying out a new recipe from [his/her] childhood. Many of you may remember [grandparent / family member]’s love for animals. Growing up, we spent time playing with our beloved pets but also learned about responsibility and compassion, and we found our own love for the great outdoors through going on walks with our dog, or horseriding through the countryside.  As we bid farewell to [name], let us carry forward [his/her] legacy of love, laughter, and resilience. Though [he/she] may no longer be with us in body, [his/her] spirit will continue to bloom in our hearts, reminding us of the beauty and joy of life.

Example 3: Tribute To A Sibling Or Younger Member Of The Family

Today, we come together to celebrate the life of my beloved [sibling], [name]. Though [he/she] may have been taken from us too soon, [his/her] spirit will forever live on in the memories we cherish and the love we shared. Growing up with [sibling] was an adventure filled with laughter, mischief, and unconditional love. [He/She] was not only my sibling but also my confidant, my partner-in-crime, and my closest friend. Many of you may remember [name]’s passion for music. [He/She] had a great talent for playing the piano and we were all so immensely proud of [him/her] last year when [he/she] played for an audience for the first time.   As we bid farewell to [name], let us carry forward the love and laughter [he/she] brought into our lives. Though [he/she] may no longer be with us in body, [his/her] spirit will forever echo in our hearts, reminding us to cherish each moment and hold tight to the bonds of family.

Example 4: Eulogy For A Friend

Today, we gather to celebrate the life of our dear friend [name], whose radiant smile and infectious laughter brought joy to everyone fortunate enough to know [him/her]. What I admired most about [name] was [his/her] unwavering optimism – even in the face of tough challenges, [he/she] remained resilient, finding light in the darkest of moments and being a pillar of strength and a source of encouragement for us all.  I’ll never forget the annual road trips we took together every summer – creating small traditions through inside jokes, enjoying spontaneous sing-alongs and late-night conversations under the stars – every moment helped us bond, support each other, and take a break from everyday sameness. As we bid farewell to [name], let us remember the memories we shared and continue the traditions we started. Though [he/she] may no longer walk beside us, [his/her] spirit will live on in our hearts forever.

Example 5: Eulogy For A Mentor

Today, we gather to honour the life and legacy of my esteemed mentor, [name]. [He/She] was not only a visionary leader but also a compassionate guide who inspired countless individuals to reach for their dreams. I still recall the day I first met [name] – [he/she] saw potential in me that I didn’t even know existed and believed in me when I doubted myself. [His/Her] unwavering support and encouragement shaped not only my career but also my outlook on life – giving me a positive perspective that in turn drove my ambition not only for myself but also to do [him/her] proud. Many of you may have experienced [name]’s legendary storytelling abilities. Whether recounting tales of triumph or adversity, [he/she] had a gift for weaving words that captivated our minds, touched our souls, and truly made us think and feel. As we say goodbye to [name], let us carry forward the lessons [he/she] imparted and the values [he/she] embodied. Though [he/she] may no longer walk beside us, [his/her] legacy of inspiration and empowerment will live on in the lives [he/she] touched and we can all carry that legacy forward to inspire the next generation. 

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How to Deliver a Heartfelt Funeral Speech: A Step-by-Step Guide

Funeral speeches play a crucial role in honoring the life of a loved one who has passed away. They provide solace to grieving family members and friends, while also sharing the essence of the person’s life and their impact on those around them. A well-crafted eulog y captures the unique qualities of the deceased, allowing attendees to relive fond memories and celebrate the individual’s life.

Writing and delivering a heartfelt eulogy can be a daunting task. The pressure to create the “best eulogy ever” can be overwhelming, especially when you’re dealing with your own grief. The internet is filled with various funeral eulogy examples, from funny eulogy examples that highlight the person’s wit to deeply emotional tributes. Famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks have set the bar high.

Finding the perfect balance between honoring the person’s life and providing comfort to loved ones can be challenging. In this step-by-step guide, we will explore how to write and deliver a heartfelt funeral speech, drawing inspiration from eulogy examples and famous eulogies to help you pay tribute to your beloved family member or close friend.

II. Understanding the Purpose of a Funeral Speech

A. honoring the deceased.

A funeral speech is an opportunity to honor the deceased by highlighting their unique qualities, accomplishments, and the impact they had on the lives of others. The best eulogy ever would capture the essence of the person’s life and character, creating a lasting tribute that resonates with attendees. Famous eulogies, such as Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks, serve as inspiring examples of how to pay homage to a loved one.

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B. Comforting the bereaved

One of the primary purposes of a funeral speech is to provide comfort and solace to the bereaved family and friends. Sharing fond memories, funny eulogy examples, and heartfelt stories can help lighten the atmosphere and offer consolation to those in mourning. A well-crafted eulogy helps celebrate the person’s life while acknowledging the pain of their passing, striking the perfect balance between grief and happy memories.

C. Sharing memories and stories

A funeral speech allows you to share personal experiences and stories about the deceased, creating a tapestry of memories that paint a vivid picture of their life. Drawing from short eulogy examples and famous eulogies like Mona Simpson’s eulogy for Steve Jobs and Frank Oz’s eulogy for Jim Henson can help illustrate the impact one person can have on the lives of many. By sharing these stories, a funeral speech can create a sense of connection and closeness among the attendees, reminding us all of the special bond we shared with our beloved family member or close friend.

III. Gathering Information and Memories

A. talking to family and friends.

Before diving into writing the best eulogy ever, it’s essential to gather information and collect memories from family and friends of the deceased. This can help provide a more comprehensive understanding of the person’s life, character, and impact on others. Conversations with close friends and family members can reveal heartwarming stories and funny eulogy examples that might not be known otherwise. These anecdotes can help paint a vivid picture of the deceased, making the eulogy more authentic and relatable.

B. Reflecting on your own experiences with the deceased

In addition to gathering information from others, take the time to reflect on your own experiences and earliest memories with the deceased. This will allow you to recall fond memories and special moments you shared together. Consider how much one person’s life has influenced your own and what lessons you’ve learned from them. Personal stories and experiences can make the eulogy more genuine and create a deeper connection with the audience.

C. Organizing your thoughts

Once you’ve collected stories and memories from family, friends, and your own experiences, it’s time to organize your thoughts and determine the structure of your eulogy. Review various funeral eulogy examples, including famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks. Draw inspiration from these examples while keeping your eulogy unique and tailored to the person you are honoring.

As you organize your thoughts, consider incorporating elements from short eulogy examples, such as quotes, poems, or specific phrases that capture the essence of the person’s character. For instance, Cher shared a beautiful eulogy at Sonny Bono’s British memorial service, where she provided hope and comfort through her words.

By combining the gathered information, personal experiences, and inspiration from various eulogy examples, you can create a heartfelt tribute that honors the memory of your beloved family member or close friend.

IV. Structuring Your Funeral Speech

A. the opening: setting the tone.

Start your eulogy with an opening that sets the tone for the entire speech. You may choose to begin with a quote that represents the deceased, a personal anecdote, or simply an expression of love and admiration. Take inspiration from famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, or Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks. The opening should capture the essence of the person’s character and create an emotional connection with the audience.

B. The body: sharing stories and memories

Personal anecdotes.

In the body of your funeral speech, share personal anecdotes that illustrate the person’s life and the impact they had on others. These stories can be drawn from your own experiences, as well as those shared by family and friends. Personal anecdotes help paint a vivid picture of the deceased and offer a glimpse into their personality and values.

Humor and light moments

While grief is a natural part of any funeral speech, incorporating humor and light moments can provide relief and comfort to the bereaved. Funny eulogy examples, such as John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman or Frank Oz’s eulogy for Jim Henson, demonstrate how laughter can be a powerful healing tool. Be sure to balance humor with sensitivity, ensuring that your jokes and anecdotes are appropriate for the occasion.

Lessons learned and values cherished

Share the lessons learned and values cherished by the deceased throughout their life. This can include their beliefs, passions, and the wisdom they imparted on others. Referencing short eulogy examples or famous eulogies like Mona Simpson’s eulogy for Steve Jobs can provide inspiration for this section of your speech.

C. The closing: expressing gratitude and hope

In the closing of your funeral speech, express gratitude for the time spent with the deceased and the happy memories you shared. Offer hope for the future by sharing how the person’s life will continue to impact others, even in their absence. Use powerful words and phrases to create a lasting impression, aiming to make your eulogy one of the best eulogies ever.

Drawing from funeral eulogy examples, like Cher’s beautiful eulogy at Sonny Bono’s British memorial service, can help you find the perfect balance of heartfelt emotion and hope. By incorporating elements of famous eulogies and personal stories, your funeral speech will pay tribute to your beloved family member or close friend while providing comfort and solace to those in attendance.

V. Tips for Writing a Heartfelt Eulogy

A. be authentic and genuine.

When writing a eulogy, it’s essential to be authentic and genuine in your words and emotions. The best eulogy ever is one that comes from the heart and truly reflects the person’s life and character. Draw inspiration from funeral eulogy examples and famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks, but make sure to infuse your own unique voice and perspective.

B. Use descriptive language

Using descriptive language in your eulogy helps paint a vivid picture of the person’s life and experiences. By employing vivid imagery and evocative words, you can bring memories to life and create a more immersive experience for the audience. Descriptive language can enhance even short eulogy examples, making them more memorable and impactful.

C. Focus on the positive aspects of the deceased’s life

While acknowledging grief and loss is important, focusing on the positive aspects of the deceased’s life can provide comfort and solace to those mourning. Share fond memories, happy moments, and the positive qualities of the person to celebrate their life and legacy. Funny eulogy examples, like Frank Oz’s eulogy for Jim Henson or John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, show the power of humor in highlighting the positive aspects of a person’s life.

D. Keep it concise and organized

An effective eulogy is concise and well-organized, guiding the audience through the person’s life and experiences while maintaining their attention. To achieve this, make use of keywords and phrases that capture the essence of the person and their impact, such as “fond memories,” “beloved mother,” “best friend,” or “so much fun.” Drawing inspiration from famous eulogies and eulogy examples can help you structure your speech and ensure that it remains engaging and focused. By following these tips, you can create a beautiful eulogy that pays tribute to your loved one and leaves a lasting impression on those who hear it.

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VI. Preparing for Delivery

A. practice reading your speech.

To ensure that your eulogy flows smoothly and resonates with the audience, practice reading it aloud several times before the funeral. This will help you become familiar with the text, allowing you to convey your message with confidence. As you read, consider the pacing and tone of your speech, ensuring that it aligns with the examples of great eulogies you have researched.

B. Anticipate emotions and have a backup plan

Delivering a eulogy can be an emotional experience, especially when recounting fond memories of a close friend or family member. Anticipate the emotions that may arise during your speech and have a backup plan in place, such as pausing to compose yourself or asking someone else to continue reading on your behalf if needed. By preparing for these moments, you can ensure that your tribute remains heartfelt and genuine.

C. Speak slowly and clearly

When delivering your eulogy, speak slowly and clearly to ensure that your message is easily understood by all attendees. As you share stories and memories, use descriptive language and keywords like “best eulogy ever,” “funny eulogy examples,” and “fond memories” to paint a vivid picture of the person’s life. Drawing from famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks can help you find inspiration for your delivery style. By speaking with clarity and conviction, you can create a powerful tribute that honors the memory of your loved one and leaves a lasting impression on those present at the funeral.

VII. Delivering the Funeral Speech

A. establish a connection with the audience.

Begin your speech by establishing a connection with the audience. Acknowledge the shared sense of loss and grief, and express your gratitude for their presence. This will create an atmosphere of empathy and support, setting the stage for your eulogy.

B. Maintain eye contact and use body language

As you deliver your speech, maintain eye contact with the audience and use appropriate body language to convey your emotions. This will help you engage with the attendees and create a more immersive experience. Be mindful of your posture and gestures, ensuring that they reflect the tone and content of your eulogy.

C. Be mindful of your tone and pace

When delivering your funeral speech, be conscious of your tone and pace. Use keywords like “best eulogy ever,” “funeral eulogy examples,” and “fond memories” to guide your delivery. Draw inspiration from famous eulogies such as Earl Spencer’s eulogy for Princess Diana, John Cleese’s eulogy for Graham Chapman, and Oprah Winfrey’s eulogy for Rosa Parks. Speak slowly and clearly, allowing your words to resonate with the audience.

As you share stories and happy memories, adjust your tone to match the emotion of each anecdote. Strive to strike a perfect balance between honoring the person and acknowledging grief, taking cues from examples like Mona Simpson’s eulogy for Steve Jobs and Frank Oz’s eulogy for Jim Henson.

In conclusion, delivering a heartfelt eulogy is an important task in honoring the life of a close friend or family member. By following these tips and drawing inspiration from famous eulogies and eulogy examples, you can create a beautiful tribute that captures the essence of the person’s life, character, and special bond with their loved ones. Remember to be authentic, use descriptive language, and pay tribute to the person’s life and fond memories while providing hope and comfort to those in attendance.

VIII. Example Eulogies

  a. sample funeral speech for a parent.

Good afternoon, everyone.

Today, we come together in shared sorrow and collective admiration to bid farewell to a wonderful woman, my beloved mother, Susie. We gather here not only to mourn her passing but, more importantly, to celebrate the truly exceptional life she lived and the countless lives she touched in her time with us.

Susie was a woman of endless charm, warmth, and resilience – characteristics that deeply influenced my upbringing and those of my siblings. She had an uncanny ability to bring a sense of joy and peace to any room she walked into, even in times of chaos and confusion. With her radiant smile, she had a way of making people feel seen, heard, and appreciated. She was our North Star, the one who always guided us, always there to help us find our way back when we were lost.

When I think of my mother, a few memories immediately surface.

There was the time, in the depths of a harsh winter, when the neighborhood children were all huddled inside their homes, escaping the frosty chill. On that day, Susie gathered us all for an impromptu snowman-building competition. It wasn’t about the competition, but the unity, the shared laughter, the frostbitten fingers, and the warm cups of hot cocoa after that made it memorable. It was an embodiment of what she was to us all – a beacon of warmth, love, and unity.

Then there was the instance when I came home heartbroken from a failed math test. I remember the tears streaming down my face, the feeling of utter disappointment in myself. But Mom, she didn’t judge or criticize. She held me close and said, “In life, my dear, it’s not about the mistakes we make but how we learn from them.” And with her unwavering support, we tackled those equations together until they were no longer foreign to me. That was Susie, always there to pick us up when we stumbled, to turn our setbacks into comebacks, to show us that failing wasn’t the end but rather a chance to rise stronger.

Susie was also the core of our family, the glue that held us all together. She kept us rooted, reminding us about the importance of love, respect, and understanding in the family. Despite her struggles, despite the storms life threw at her, she never faltered in her dedication to her children and her unwavering faith in us. She was our greatest cheerleader, our most profound teacher, and our fiercest protector.

Losing her has created a void in our hearts, a silence in our lives that cannot be filled. But as we grieve, we also remember. We remember her laugh, echoing in the corners of our home. We remember her wisdom, imprinted deep within our hearts. And we remember her love, a love so powerful and so encompassing that it will continue to guide and strengthen us, even though she’s no longer physically with us.

As we say our final goodbyes today, let us remember Susie for the remarkable woman she was. Let’s honor her memory by embodying the values she taught us: compassion, resilience, love, and unity.

Susie, our dear mother, you are gone but never forgotten. Your spirit will live on within each of us, a guiding light in the dark, a comforting whisper in the wind, a constant reminder of the strength and love we carry within us, because of you.

Thank you for everything, Mom. We love you, and we will miss you always.

 B. Sample funeral speech for a sibling

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Today, we stand united in grief and solidarity, as we bid farewell to a life that touched ours in ways words can barely encapsulate. A life that was too short yet immensely vibrant, filled with love, laughter, and countless shared moments. Today, we remember my brother, my confidante, my friend, Jack.

Growing up with Jack was nothing short of an adventure. He was the peanut butter to my jelly, the yin to my yang. As kids, we were inseparable. We shared not just a room, but countless secrets, dreams, laughter, and even the occasional sibling squabble. But through all the highs and lows, there was always an underlying foundation of unwavering brotherly love.

One story that springs to mind, encapsulating the spirit of Jack, was our great ‘Treehouse Escapade’. We were just about ten and twelve then, and had set our hearts on building the perfect treehouse in the large oak tree at the end of our garden. We had no idea what we were doing, armed only with a sketch on a crumpled piece of paper and the confidence that only children possess. It took us the entire summer, hammers slipping, nails bending, and more than one accidental thump on a thumb. But Jack, ever the optimist, would laugh off the blunders, transforming our little project into a whirlwind of joy.

That treehouse wasn’t architecturally sound, nor was it a spectacle to behold. But it was our haven, a testament to our shared dreams, our determination, and the magic that Jack brought into every task he undertook. He was always the beacon guiding us towards laughter and fun, turning even the most mundane activities into cherished memories.

Jack had a heart larger than life itself. He was the first to lend a hand to anyone in need, the first to cheer you up when you were down. His sense of humor was legendary, his laughter infectious. When he walked into a room, you couldn’t help but feel the energy change – brighter, lighter, better.

But Jack wasn’t just my older brother; he was my mentor, my guide, my protector. I remember when I was about to head off to college, nervous and unsure of what the future held. It was Jack who sat me down and said, “In life, you’re going to face challenges and make mistakes, but always remember that it’s these experiences that shape us. Embrace them. Learn from them. And remember, no matter where you are, you’ll always have a piece of home with you.”

Losing Jack feels like a chapter of our shared book has abruptly ended. Yet, I find solace in the memories we created together. Every shared joke, every heart-to-heart conversation, every shared dream, and even the bittersweet tears, are all fragments of a beautiful mosaic that depicts a bond that can never be broken.

Jack, my dear brother, I am grateful for every moment we shared, for every laugh, every story, every life lesson. You were my north star in the darkest nights, my compass when I lost my way, my anchor in the roughest storms.

As we say our final goodbyes, we carry your spirit with us, your joy, your kindness, your unwavering zest for life. Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure. You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.

Until we meet again, Jack, thank you for being the best brother I could have ever asked for. I love you, and I will carry you in my heart always.

 C. Sample funeral speech for a friend

Dear Friends and Family,

Today we gather to remember a man whose life was as vibrant and dynamic as the waves of the ocean – forever in motion, brimming with energy, and touching the lives of everyone he met. A man who, in his time on earth, defined what it truly meant to be a friend, a confidante, a brother in spirit. We are here to celebrate the life of Mark.

Mark was more than a friend to all of us. He was the epitome of an adventurer, a soul that was forever curious, forever willing to explore the unknown, yet always ready to provide the comfort of familiarity when it was most needed.

One of the most unforgettable adventures we shared together was our unplanned road trip. I still remember that day. It was the kind of day when you feel the world weighing heavy on your shoulders. Mark turned up at my doorstep with nothing more than a mischievous grin and his beat-up old van, affectionately nicknamed “The Wanderer.” He looked at me and said, “The world is wide, and we are young. Let’s go get lost to find ourselves.”

What was supposed to be a day’s escape turned into a week of spontaneity. We slept under the stars, got lost more times than I can count, sang at the top of our lungs to songs we barely knew the lyrics to, and shared stories that made us laugh until our stomachs hurt. The journey didn’t just lighten the load I was carrying back then; it showed me the value of friendship, freedom, and living in the moment. That was Mark, a tornado of spontaneity, pulling you into an adventure you never knew you needed.

Yet, despite his love for adventure, Mark also had a calmness about him that was almost infectious. He had an uncanny ability to quiet the storm inside you with just a few words or a reassuring smile. He was my confidante, the one I could call at 2 AM to discuss life’s quandaries or the latest episode of a TV show we were both hooked on. He knew when to offer advice and when to simply listen, offering silence as a refuge from the chaos of the world.

Mark, my dear friend, your passing leaves a void in our lives that can never be filled. Your laughter, your spirit of adventure, your comforting presence – they are now but cherished memories, echoes of a friendship that will continue to live on in my heart.

As we say our final goodbyes, we remember you not with tears of sadness but with smiles, recalling the joy and happiness you brought into our lives. We remember you as you were – a beautiful soul, an adventurer, a beacon of light in our sometimes-dark world.

In honor of Mark, let’s not dwell in the sorrow of his departure. Instead, let’s celebrate the life he lived and the person he was. Let’s remember his unquenchable thirst for life, his deep and resounding laughter, and his unwavering loyalty as a friend.

Mark, you were the echo in the forest, the breeze on a summer day, and now the whisper in our hearts, forever reminding us of the bond we shared. Though we part ways today, the footprints you left on our hearts will remain. You will be greatly missed, my dear friend. Rest in peace, until we meet again.

Thank you, Mark, for the memories, the adventures, and most importantly, your friendship. We love you and will remember you always.

IX. Conclusion

A. the impact of a heartfelt funeral speech.

A well-crafted and heartfelt funeral speech can have a profound impact on the audience, providing solace and comfort during a time of grief. By incorporating elements from famous eulogies like Earl Spencer’s, John Cleese’s, and Oprah Winfrey’s, as well as drawing from short eulogy examples and funny eulogy examples, you can create a powerful tribute that captures the essence of the person’s life and character. A funeral speech that shares fond memories and celebrates the entire life of a loved one can be remembered as the best eulogy ever, leaving a lasting impression on those who hear it.

B. Final thoughts on honoring the memory of a loved one

Honoring the memory of a close friend or family member through a funeral speech is a significant responsibility. Writing a eulogy that strikes the perfect balance between paying tribute to the person’s life and acknowledging grief can be an emotional and challenging process. However, by focusing on the person’s life, their impact on others, and the fond memories shared, you can create a beautiful eulogy that truly honors their memory. Remember to draw inspiration from examples like Steve Jobs’ eulogy by Mona Simpson or Sonny Bono’s eulogy by Cher, and always speak from the heart. In doing so, you will not only pay tribute to your loved one but also provide hope, comfort, and healing to all those in attendance.

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What makes the best eulogy?

The best eulogy is one that captures the essence of the person’s life, character, and impact on others while providing comfort to those in attendance. Key elements of the best eulogy include:

• Authenticity: Speak from the heart and share genuine emotions and experiences.
• Personal anecdotes: Share stories that highlight the person’s personality, values, and relationships.
• Balance: Strike a balance between honoring the person’s life and acknowledging grief.
• Positive aspects: Focus on the positive aspects of the deceased’s life, including accomplishments, passions, and happy memories.
• Emotional connection: Establish an emotional connection with the audience by using descriptive language and conveying empathy.
• Organization: Structure the eulogy with a clear beginning, middle, and end to guide the audience through the person’s life and experiences.

What is the best speech for a funeral?

The best speech for a funeral is one that pays tribute to the deceased while offering comfort and solace to the grieving family and friends. This can be achieved by:

• Sharing personal stories, anecdotes, and memories of the person.
• Focusing on the positive aspects of their life and the impact they had on others.
• Acknowledging the grief and loss felt by those in attendance.
• Using appropriate humor and light moments to provide relief and healing.
• Ensuring the speech is concise, well-organized, and delivered with sincerity and emotion.

What is the best closing line for a eulogy?

The best closing line for a eulogy is one that leaves a lasting impression, encapsulates the person’s life and legacy, and offers hope or inspiration to the audience. Some examples of powerful closing lines are:

• “May we carry [deceased’s name] memory in our hearts, allowing their spirit to live on through us.”
• “As we say our final goodbye, let us remember [deceased’s name] life and the love they brought to all who knew them.”
• “In the words of [deceased’s name], ‘Live fully, love deeply, and make a difference.’ Let us honor their memory by following this guiding principle.”
• “Though our hearts are heavy with grief, we find solace in the beautiful memories of [deceased’s name] and the impact they had on our lives.”

Choose a closing line that reflects the person’s character and values, and leaves the audience with a sense of comfort and inspiration.

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Eulogy Examples: How to Write a Eulogy for a Loved One

By Bernie Flowers

How do you distill a lifetime of memories and experiences into a 15-minute eulogy? It’s an honor to hold the responsibility of eulogizing your loved one, but it can feel like a challenge to fit everything you want to say in one speech.

Instead of making the funeral attendees feel like they are reading an encyclopedia from cover-to-cover, look for ways to highlight the rich life experiences that matter most. A eulogy should be a sampling of the best the person had to offer including accomplishments, personality traits, and memorable stories.

When it comes to eulogy writing, you can search online for ideas and examples. But the most important thing you need to keep in mind: quality over quantity .

All this being said, we would advise using our professional Eulogy Template to guide you through your writing, you can find it here - Eulogy Template

What is a Eulogy?

Giving a eulogy means that you are sharing a remembrance speech with the purpose of paying tribute to a loved one. This speech is given at the funeral or memorial service by a family member or close friend.

A good eulogy highlights the lasting impact of the person on their family and community. Through your speech, you’ll have an opportunity to share their unique qualities, as well as the ripple effect of positivity and change they created in the world around them.

How can you best honor  your loved one? A eulogy can be a part of your healing, and a beautiful way to reflect on the details that were most special about them.

Eulogy Examples

One of the simplest ways to write a eulogy is to review a eulogy speech example that matches your own preferred tone and style. What makes a eulogy unique is the unique details you’ll share about the person themselves, which is why it’s essential to customize your eulogy to honor and celebrate the personality of your loved one.

You may want to start with our primer on how to write a eulogy . Then, use the following outline and eulogy examples to create a strong speech  that communicates the message you want to share about the person who meant so much to you.

Eulogy Sample Outline

Using a eulogy sample outline is a proven way to create a great speech. Remember those Mad Libs books from your childhood? This process is similar: follow the outline and plug in the personal details applicable to your loved one. 

These eulogy samples help you overcome writer's block and keep you focused on the details that matter most. Aim to cap the eulogy at a maximum of 10 minutes total. The simplest eulogy outline can be broken down into three parts, so you’ll need to consider how much time to spend on each section:

• Set the tone by beginning with a poem, quote, or scripture that was meaningful to the person.
• Names they were known by, including nicknames and maiden names.
• Cause of death (an optional detail).
• A brief insight into your relationship with the individual.
• Accomplishments
• Major life events
• Stories or fond memories
• How the person affected others
• Childhood years
• Travel adventures
• Marriage and children
• Any other thoughts you want to share about the person
• A final take away from your theme
• How you want family and friends to remember the individual
• What the person would want you to remember them for
• Quote, scripture, or song lyric
• Thank attendees for participating

Eulogy Examples for a Friend

It can be helpful to write this eulogy as if you were talking to a friend. Common talking points might include:

• Common activities enjoyed together
• What you like most about the person
• Personality traits or phrases they often use
• How you would describe the person
• What will you remember them by?

Here is a eulogy example for a friend:

I can’t imagine how empty it will feel to spend time on the basketball court without Jim by my side. Our relationship was built with a basketball in hand, and evolved to share many family gatherings and other activities together over the years. With his passing, Jim is leaving behind a legacy of kindness, compassion, and generosity.

Jim shared good humor and a big smile with everyone he met. Even though people often cursed at his practical jokes, he was an integral part of creating a solid foundation of friendship in our group. When times were difficult, he could always put a smile on my face. He held his head high until the end, showing what it looks like to finish strong.

Eulogy Examples for Your Father

Writing a eulogy for your dad may be really tough. How do you memorialize your hero amid grief and emotion? We hope these tips and the example below will help you in your process. 

• Share childhood experiences when spending time with dad
• Talk about his best qualities
• Capture his essence through “dad jokes” and the things that made you laugh
• Tell about the things you will miss most about him
• Describe his role in your upbringing

Here is a eulogy example for your father:

My dad was my hero. He could make every person feel like they were the most important person in the world. Growing up, I knew that I could always ask Dad for help – and he would be willing to drop anything to lend a hand. He was a rock of stability in my childhood and a source of strength for our whole family.

My father was a man who infused fun into the most mundane tasks. I remember how he would turn our bedtime routine into an adventure that included highlights from our favorite storybooks. He was a kind and thoughtful person. Every night at the dinner table, he encouraged us to talk about the things we were grateful for, and always had yummy treats for us kids hidden in the back of the pantry. I will miss you, Dad, and I’ll always hold onto the amazing memories we shared together.

Eulogy Examples for Your Mother

How can you ever do justice to a eulogy for your beloved mother – the woman who was always there with love and guidance through the ups and downs, the celebrations and challenging moments of your life? Here are a few tips for writing a eulogy for your mother:

• Describe the way she showed her love for you
• Celebrate the small ways she turned your house into a home
• Highlight the impact she made throughout the community
• Explain the smells, sounds, and feelings you felt when arriving home
• Share stories from childhood and adulthood that reflect her character

Here is a eulogy example for your mother:

Today we are honoring, celebrating, and remembering {mom’s full name]. She was a woman of grace and courage, with a stubborn streak that showed up when she set her mind to something, like going back to school to become a nurse at age 40. 

My mother was truly my best friend and I am humbled by the challenge of describing the fullness of her beauty and caring here today. I don't know how she did it, but Mom always found the perfect balance between work and home. Even though she worked 40 – 50 hours a week to support us, she prioritized family dinner. That time was sacred to our family. Her love and kindness were infused in everything she did, whether she was baking cookies for a bake sale to help the hospital or sewing our Halloween costumes by hand year after year. 

She had a magical way of bringing joy every time she walked into the room. No one who met her could forget her smile. And I’ll never forget the advice and the lessons she taught me. Her wisdom will forever guide the decisions I make through the rest of my life. I love you, Mom.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandmother

How do you share the details about the love you felt through your relationship with a grandmother? Follow these tips to write a good eulogy for this important woman:

• Talk about the fun traditions she brought for your favorite holiday
• What was she known for in the community?
• How did her influence touch your life?
• What are the daily moments that will remind you of her?
• Share funny stories that showcase her quirks or sense of humor

Here is a eulogy example for your grandmother:

My grandmother paid attention to the details – it was the little things that added the finishing touch to every experience. Whether she was setting out the treat jar on the kitchen table or clinking the glass while drinking her iced tea, she always prioritized food and drinks.

Since she loved to shop, grandma would often take us to the mall when we were visiting for the weekend. We would have fashion shows in the dressing rooms and often come home with bright, frilly dresses that were perfect for twirling.

When grandpa was away for the war, grandma was an example of always getting back up again when things get hard. She never complained; just worked hard and supported her family at all times. Despite the personal challenges, she always looked outside of herself – which is why she will be remembered as a beacon of light in this community.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandfather

What are the details that make your grandfather larger than life? Here are a few ideas to help when writing a eulogy for this great man:

• Explain the qualities that best describe his personality
• Tell about the details that made him stand out from other grandparents
• What hobbies or passions did he share with the family?
• How will the neighborhood or community remember him?
• Talk about stories that were life-changing moments for him

Here is a eulogy example for your grandfather:

Even though my grandfather didn’t like to be the center of attention, he had an undeniable impact on the community. If he was here with us today, he wouldn’t want us to share grief and sorrow. Instead, his desire would be to focus on the happy memories and joyful experiences shared over the years.

Grandpa was a man who set a lasting impression on everyone he met. His deep laugh and kind eyes warmed the room and brought life into the most boring daily activities. Grandpa loved spending time with his grandkids because he said that it made him feel young at heart.

He was a great teacher and a dependable friend. His advice and guidance will continue to carry me through the joys and challenges that life has to offer.

Eulogy Examples for Your Brother

Siblings share a special bond, giving you deep insights to share about your brother. Follow these tips for writing a good eulogy:

• What was it like growing up in the same house together?
• Describe the way your relationship changed in adulthood
• Share funny stories about sibling rivalries
• Explain the lasting impact he left on you and the family
• List his favorite hobbies and food

Here is a eulogy example for your brother:

While it’s tragic to think about Kyle leaving us too soon, he left behind a lifetime of memories that we can celebrate. Kyle was always ready for a fun day with friends – he would have been the one showing up today with the perfect playlist for the event.

Even though my brother was a few years older than me, he always included me in the adventures with his friends. I never felt like the little brother he was dragging along. He made me feel special and included in the group, and helped me build confidence along the way.

Kyle was my best friend and I can’t imagine what life is going to be like without him sending me funny cat memes every night. But I know that his memory will live on when I eat his favorite pizza or hear his favorite band on the radio.

Eulogy Examples for Your Sister

If you’ve lost a sibling, we are truly sorry, Writing a eulogy for your sister can be a way to honor her through your memories of your childhood and growing up with her, as well as the milestones of her life. A few ideas for this eulogy include:

• Share her notable life accomplishments
• Retell your favorite stories from growing up together
• Highlight the kind of person she was
• Summarize your relationship in a few short words
• Talk about what she meant to you and how she influenced your life

Here is a eulogy example for your sister:

My sister, Kim, might have been a little shy at the first introduction. But once she warmed up to a friendship, she always had plenty to say every time she talked. Kim loved to share stories from her time volunteering at the children’s hospital and she had a beautiful gift of making everyone feel like the most important person in the world.

We were only a year apart, which meant that I was the younger sister who was often stealing her clothes or listening in on her conversations with her boyfriend. Even though I was the pesky sibling who cracked jokes about her unique style, she was everything I wanted to be when I grew up. She was independent, strong, and beautiful. She was a free spirit who wasn’t afraid to act boldly, like moving to Paris after college and starting her own business. She was my partner in crime, and I could always tell her everything. She will never be replaced. . My dear sister, I love you and I will be forever grateful for every moment we spent together.

Short Eulogy Examples

Short and sweet is a good rule of thumb to follow when writing a eulogy. Consider these important talking points if you want to write a short eulogy:

• Highlight the person’s passions or interests
• What were the most memorable times you spent together?
• Sum up the person’s character using a story or memory
• Express your gratitude for the impact the person had on your life
• Talk about their influence on family and community

Here is a short eulogy example:

The years I spent with Kathy in my life were filled with excitement and adventure. She showed up for life in the biggest way possible. From the moment she shared her cookie with me on the first day of kindergarten, I knew we would be best friends.

She spent many years working as a teacher, and her heart was big enough to offer individual attention to every child that walked into her classroom. Kathy made a difference in the lives of hundreds of children over the years, and her kindness and positivity will leave an unwavering legacy in this community.

Funny Eulogy Examples

Sometimes a bit of humor is the perfect way to lighten the mood and showcase the personality of your loved one. Consider these tips if you want to add a few jokes into the eulogy:

• Point out the person’s comedic qualities
• Be specific about sharing their jokes or pranks
• Look for ways to communicate what the person would say if they wrote the speech
• Find the right balance of humor to share laughs without being irreverent
• Share a funny poem or a quote from the person’s favorite movie

Here is a funny eulogy example:

Anyone who met Josh quickly learned that there are always laughs to be shared. It was impossible to spend time with him without enjoying a gut-busting laugh at some point in the conversation. Josh was known as the class clown, and his jokes were quick-witted and hilarious.

Who could forget the time Josh showed up to the family reunion wearing that ridiculous blow-up dinosaur costume? He chased the kids around the park until everyone laughed until they were crying.

Many funny memories came out of our family camping trips. He couldn’t sit down to enjoy a peaceful campfire. Instead, the s’more making always seemed to turn into a marshmallow fight – with white puffs flying through the air when you least expected it. Josh kept a smile on my face through the ups and downs of life, and I will keep on smiling in his honor.

Personalizing the Eulogy

As you read through these funeral eulogy examples, the most important thing to remember is that there isn’t a right or wrong way to write a eulogy. Instead, consider the best way to share the person in the way they would want others to remember them. It’s your chance to verbalize your love and honor the memories of your loved one.

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Our printable free eulogy templates will help you to create the perfect funeral speech. Scroll down for the printouts.  

You’re asked to speak at a funeral and you have a short period of time to gather your thoughts and prepare your speech. Experiencing nervousness is completely normal, especially while you’re coping with grief and sorrow from the loss. It may feel like an overwhelming task. Which of the many details of their life do you include? How long should it be? What should you say?

Writing a eulogy doesn’t have to be scary. Even if you aren’t a writer or public speaker, using the guidelines below, you will be able to write and deliver a meaningful and heartfelt speech.  

Preparing to Write a Eulogy - Brainstorming

Begin by thinking of things you would be comfortable sharing about this person. The blank page is less intimidating if you start jotting down notes in each of the outline categories below. You won’t use every fact or memory, but will choose key pieces to include in the template. (Scroll down for ideas if the loss is of a child). 

Eulogy speech outline

• Thank everyone for coming.
• What was your relationship with the person? 
• What are some key topics you’d like to share about them? 

- Early life 

• Was he/she born elsewhere or somewhere special? 
• Is there anything interesting about their childhood and how it affected their life?  
• Education and work, marriage and children
• Did he/she have a mentionable education or career? 
• Jot down names of the family.

- Significant events and achievements, hobbies and service, beliefs and passions

• What stands out about them in these categories? 
• Significant events can be anything specific to them or their family, whether positive or negative. What are some events that made an impact on their life? 
• Achievements can be more than an award. Think of things that were important to them. Maybe he/she considered their children to be their biggest achievement. 
• Take a moment to think about what meant a lot to them, what did they value? 
• Write down several memories that come to mind when you think of this person. 
• To make a resonating speech bring it full circle at the end. That means, try refer back to something in the closing that you mentioned in the opening.  
• Lastly, thank everyone for coming to celebrate their life. 

“Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.” 

Shannon L. Alder

If the eulogy is for a child, some of the above sections may not be appropriate. Avoid anger and despair over the loss of a young life. Instead, focus on positive memories and stories that honour their memory. Consider the following points in your brainstorming:

• Write your thoughts on how the death of a child affects those around them.
• What made the child special to you? 
• Was there a favorite book or poem or song that you can share? 
• What were the child’s favorite things? 
• What’s your favorite memory of them? 

If you get stuck brainstorming or populating the template, you have options. You can ask family or friends to provide details or recall stories about the deceased. If you have access to photo albums, see what memories start to surface as you flip through. Don’t forget social media accounts, reviewing a person’s profile, feed, and photos can give you insights into their lives. 

Review the facts and memories you’ve written down. It’s perfectly okay to insert bits of humour into the eulogy, but avoid anything inappropriate or embarrassing. As you’re reviewing your notes, cross out anything in poor humour or that you don’t want to include. Circle or highlight what you definitely want to keep.  

Now, take those ideas and pull it all together, into a template.

Example Eulogy Templates for Printing

Example Eulogy Template for an Adult     Click here for the downloadable PDF.

OPENING 

I’d like to begin by thanking everyone for coming to celebrate ________’s (name) life.   ________ (name) was the most ________(adjective) person I’ve ever known and I know many of you would agree. He/She ________ (include a bit of information about the deceased here, perhaps a memory).

EARLY LIFE 

_________ (name) was born on ________ (birthdate) in _______ (city). He/She was the 

______ (first, second, only) child of ________ (father) and ________ (mother). His/her sisters and brothers are ________, ________, and ________ (add more or less as needed). His/her childhood was ________ (include a bit of information about the deceased here, perhaps a memory or a humorous story about the siblings).

EDUCATION AND WORK 

_________ (name) went to _______ (name of schools) and graduated with ________ (name of degree or training). He/She spent most of her career at ________ (name of company) as a _______ (name of position). He/She ________ (include a bit of information about the deceased here, perhaps a memory. What was his/her work ethic? Did he/she enjoy the work?).

MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN

In ______ (year) ________ (name) met _______ (spouse) and they were married in_____ (year). They had ___ (number) children: _______, _______, and _______ (names of children). Last year, ______ (name) and _______ (spouse) celebrated their _____ (number) wedding anniversary. He/She ________ (include additional information about the family, perhaps a funny or sweet memory).

SIGNIFICANT EVENTS AND ACHIEVEMENTS

In ______ (year), ______ (name) received the award of ______ (award). This award was meaningful to him/her because ______ (reason). He/She ________ (include additional information available, if it’s significant).

HOBBIES AND SERVICE / BELIEFS AND PASSIONS

______ (name) was active in the ________ (church, community, volunteer, etc). He/She spent many hours doing _______ (activity) and was known for ________ (descriptor). ______ (name) was passionate about ______ (passion). He/She ________ (include additional comments or memories about their extra-curricular activities).

My favorite memory of ______ (name) is that time when ______ (memory). (try to tie this memory back to their character – how the deceased was as a person).

The world is a sadder place without ______ (name) in our lives. But ______ (name) touched each and every one of us and has left us with memories we will cherish forever. Thank you.

Eulogy Template for a Child    Click here for the downloadable PDF.

I’d like to begin by thanking everyone for coming to celebrate ________’s (name) life.   ________ (name) was the most ________(adjective) child I’ve ever known. He/She ________ (include a bit of information about the child here, perhaps a memory).

______ (first, second, only) child of ________ (father) and ________ (mother). His/her sisters and brothers are ________, ________, and ________ (add more or less as needed). His/her childhood was ________ (include a bit of information about the child here, perhaps a memory or a humorous story about the siblings).

MEMORIES AND STORIES

My favorite memory of ______ (name) is that time when ______ (memory). (Use this section to share the memories and stories about the child. Share their favorite things, their relationships with friends and family, what made them laugh.

CLOSING (an appropriate poem, perhaps the child’s favorite)

“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they’re happy.” - Eskimo Proverb

Tips on Speaking the Eulogy

• Read the eulogy out loud several times and if you trip on any words, consider editing to make it easier to read next time. 
• Practice several times each day leading up to the event, it will prepare you for the tougher parts of the eulogy. Practice in front of the mirror. Practice in front of family or friends. Practice while standing up, as if you were at the service. Practice looking at the audience and referring to your note cards. 
• Time yourself to ensure you are around your target: no more than 5-10 minutes. 
• Your speech doesn’t have to be memorized, but the more you practice the less you’ll need to read and the more natural you will sound. You may feel comfortable switching to notecards with bullet points or you may prefer to keep to the script. Do what feels best.   
• You may fear being overly emotional or breaking down. Showing your emotion is perfectly normal. Focusing on the words on the page will help you maintain your composure.
• No matter how you choose to prepare, the most important thing is to give the best speech you can give; a speech from the heart.   

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Free Sample Eulogy Speeches (Plus Writing Tips)

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Sample eulogies can provide ideas when you need to prepare a speech for a funeral. Being asked to give a eulogy is a great honor, but it can also be daunting. Finding the right words to mark the passing of a friend or family member's life is difficult when emotions run high. There is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy, but each tribute has a basic flow. The speech doesn't have to be perfect; it just has to come from the heart.

Eulogy Example for a Friend

Following an easy format makes it easier to pull together a eulogy for a friend and takes some pressure off starting from scratch. Follow this format to make composing the eulogy easier.

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Thank you all for coming to help us celebrate Liza's life and share our grief at her passing.

• Introduction

My name is Carol, and Liza and I have been best friends since childhood. We lived just five houses apart on National Avenue, and we spent part of nearly every day together as kids.

When I think of Liza as a child, I remember how much she loved exploring the ravine behind our house. Half of our summers were spent wandering through the woods, looking for crayfish under rocks along the creek, climbing trees, and generally doing things that would have given our parents gray hair much sooner if they knew what we had been up to each day. I have to share one memory that really illustrates Liza's fearless, and sometimes impulsive, nature. Some of the neighborhood boys had built a rope swing in a tree along the ravine's edge. Liza, being fearless, decided to give it a try. As she swung out over the edge, one of the boys jokingly called out, "Jump!" My heart leaped to my throat as I saw Liza let go of the rope on her next swing out. Luckily she wound up with nothing more than skinned knees and a sheepish grin that said she couldn't believe she had just done that, but it just goes to show what a risk taker she was.

More than a simple risk taker, Liza also had a generous soul, as I'm sure many of you here this morning can attest to. She never met a person in need that she didn't find some way of helping. Her work as director of our local family shelter became her greatest passion, and she put in tireless hours organizing meals and places where "her families" could all stay together until they could get back on their feet. I say, "her families" with all seriousness because she didn't just take them into shelters; she really took them into her heart and kept contact with them even after their lives were back on track.

Mention of Family/Friends

When you combine the facts that Liza was a compassionate soul and willing to take risks, it's not difficult to understand why she ventured out in that terrible snowstorm on Wednesday night to try to take food and diapers to one of her families in need. Yes, maybe they would have been alright until morning, but that wasn't how Liza would have thought about it. She would have worried about their empty stomachs and imagined the sound of that baby's crying. She would have set any thoughts for her safety aside and gone to their aid, and that's exactly what she did.

Of course, we now know that she never made it to that family. We can second guess Liza's decision with 20/20 hindsight, or we can embrace the fact that she died doing something she believed in so deeply. Knowing her as I did, I can tell you that her only regret about her decision to go out on the road that night would have been that her husband, Mitch, is now left to carry on without her. As passionate as she was about her shelter work, Mitch was truly the love of her life.

It may comfort us all a bit to realize that Liza is now reunited with her beloved parents, Lee and Meredith, and that someday we'll all be together again when we cross over to the other side. This is only a brief parting in the larger scheme of life.

One thing you may or may not know is that Liza was a huge fan of the band Queen. She particularly loved a song called Dear Friends , and she once made me promise that if she passed before I did, I would play the song at her memorial, or at least read the lyrics. So, I'll read those now in closing, and I hope they leave you with the message that time will heal our wounds, and that life truly does go on.

Eulogy Sample for a Parent

Writing a eulogy for a parent's death can be an incredibly emotional task. Use the following sample to help you create one personalized for your parent.

Welcome and Introduction

For anyone who may not know me, my name is Jean, and I am Rita's eldest daughter. Thank you all for coming here today to help us say goodbye to Mom.

To me, Mom was my guiding light. She set the example of what a good wife, mother, and friend should be. She always did her best to be patient with all of her children, and there were five of us, so that was no easy feat. She tried to carve out some quality time with each of us, and believe me, we were all jealous when it was someone else's turn. However, that just shows you how much we all loved her and wanted that one-on-one time with Mom. When it was your turn, you found out that she hadn't really missed out on anything that was going on in your life, she just hadn't talked with you about it yet.

As for her life with Dad, she set a shining example of the kind of unconditional love required to see a marriage through good times and bad. I remember when Dad lost his job at the auto factory. He was so worried about finding work, and he felt he was letting Mom and all of us down because he couldn't provide for us. Mom gave him a big hug and told him she had no doubt that he would find another job that was as good or better than the one at the factory, and she took a job as a cashier at the grocery store to help tide us over until he found work again, this time as a manager in another factory instead of just working on the line. That was Mom; always an optimist, always willing to pitch in and do whatever was needed, all the time truly believing that things would work out in the end.

Mom was also a fantastic friend. She always saw the good in people, and if she saw the bad, she certainly didn't gossip about it. If you needed her, she was there and asking what she could do to help. I remember how she helped Mrs. Johnson get back and forth to work one week when her car was in the shop. When her best friend Mary needed a new pair of glasses and didn't have quite enough money, Mom insisted on loaning her the rest. Mom was there for all the highs and lows of her friends' lives, and I think the size of the gathering here is a testament to how much they all loved her.

Mention of Family

As much as I'd like to think I was Mom's favorite child, I know she truly didn't have one. We were all her favorite in one way or another. She always used to talk about what a wonderful artist our sister Ellie is. Our eldest brother Mark was her dependable child. She said God had "built Mark solid," and she was thankful she could lean upon him if she needed to. She adored our brother Greg's sense of humor since it was so like her own. They shared many a private laugh together about things that went over the rest of our heads. Callie was her "quiet one." Mom said that whenever Callie was especially quiet, that meant she was thinking up a storm on the inside.

As for me, Mom always said I was the keeper of the family chronicles because of my habit of journaling every night before I went to bed. She'd come in to say goodnight, and I'd let her read the day's entry. I think that must have been what inspired her request that I speak to you all today.

As you all know, Mom had a great deal of faith and rarely missed Sunday Mass. One hymn was her particular favorite, and I remember how she used to light up whenever Be Not Afraid was sung at Mass. She truly believed that she could "pass through raging waters in the sea and not drown" because God was with her the entire time. I know that's how she felt about her battle with cancer. She knew that even if cancer won, God would be there with her to carry her safely to Heaven. In honor of Mom's faith and her life, I'd like us all to sing that hymn together now...

Eulogy Speech Example for a Child

The death of a child rocks the very foundation of people's view of the world as a good place. Use the sample below to help you pull together something appropriate yet touching.

Thank you all for joining us here today, although I'm sure many of us wish we were gathering in celebration rather than in mourning. My name is Julie. I am Lisa's aunt, and I'll be speaking on behalf of Lisa's parents, my sister Gwen and her husband Mike.

I remember the day Lisa was born. She was the most beautiful little baby you could ever hope to see, and she was an especially wonderful blessing to Gwen and Mike who had struggled for years to have a family. With this one child, all their prayers had been answered.

Lisa was by all accounts an easy baby to raise. She was sleeping through the night by the time she was three months old, and she had a naturally happy disposition. Anytime someone new would enter the room, baby Lisa would give a great big smile and stretch out her arms to offer a welcoming hug. Of course, this instantly endeared her to everyone who ever came in contact with her. Lisa was definitely meant to bring love into this world for the all-too-short time we would have with her.

In light of how desperately Lisa was wanted and loved by her parents, as well as everyone here today, it's difficult to understand why her life had to end so soon. It's nearly inconceivable that God would allow a young child to become ill and suffer, let alone die. When you look at it that way, it's easy to be angry at God for taking back the gift He gave. I choose to look at it another way.

God saw how dearly Mike and Gwen wanted to know the joy of having a child of their own, and even though it might not have been meant to be, he gave Lisa to their keeping for a short time so they could know that joy. When Lisa became ill and her suffering was too much to bear, he scooped her up to Heaven, and all her suffering was gone. I believe she now waits patiently for the day when her parents will join her, and they will all live happily together once again. I believe that she would want us all to dwell on the happy times we shared with her, and let the sad memories fade.

At this time, I'd like to offer you all the opportunity to share some of your favorite memories of Lisa's brief life.

Tips for How to Write a Eulogy Speech

A eulogy is a final favor to the deceased, revealing the best parts of their life to the people who loved them. Highlight the person's life instead of focusing on how you feel about the loss.

Basic Eulogy Outline

Eulogies need not be long; the average length is between three and five minutes. You don't want to overwhelm those in attendance by speaking any longer than this. The key here is to be honest with your feelings and thoughts.

A eulogy should include:

• Give your personal sentiments
• Discuss happier times with the deceased person; include anecdotes and real-life experiences (avoid anything that might be considered offensive or vulgar)
• Describe the person's character
• Talk about family and friends left behind
• Close with a memorable poem or traditional funeral song

You should always draft a copy of your speech and, if possible, rehearse it in front of someone. Make sure you print a copy of the eulogy and give a second copy to someone who can act as a backup in case you get sick or are overcome with emotion.

Ideas for Funeral Eulogy Content

Don't try to write the eulogy in the order that you'll give it. It's easier to begin by jotting down your thoughts about various aspects of the deceased's life. Think about the following points and see if anything springs to mind. If it does, write that now, and then you can put things in the order you want them later.

• A short introduction about yourself and relationship to the person who died
• A brief biography of the deceased person
• Information about his or her career
• Remarks about his or her family, friends and pets
• List of achievements
• Favorite songs or poems
• Information about hobbies or interests
• Personal stories or anecdotes
• Memories from years gone by

Delivering the Speech at a Funeral

Funerals and memorials are very difficult times. It's okay to cry and share your emotions while delivering your tribute . However, don't try to memorize your speech. It's best to keep your notes in outline form or on note cards for reference to help you stay on track and to ensure that you cover all the key points that you plan to bring up.

What to Say at a Funeral: Plan the Perfect Memorial Speech

Introduction

Speaking at a funeral is a profound honor, yet it comes with a weight of responsibility. It’s a moment to express grief, celebrate life, and offer comfort to others in mourning, all within a few heartfelt minutes.

In facing this daunting task, you might be wondering how to craft a speech that resonates deeply and brings solace. The core promise of this article is to guide you through creating a speech that not only honors the departed but also provides comfort to those left behind.

In this article, you will learn:

• The essential elements that make a funeral speech touching and memorable.
• Strategies to convey empathy and solace through your words.
• Practical tips for both preparing and delivering your speech with poise.

As we delve into the nuances of this sensitive topic, remember that your words have the power to heal and bring closure.

Understanding the Importance of a Funeral Speech

A funeral speech is more than just a mere formality; it’s a powerful vehicle for expressing collective grief and celebrating a unique life. This is a moment where words take on a profound significance, offering a semblance of comfort in the face of loss and helping those gathered to begin the healing process.

Funeral speeches serve as a bridge that connects the audience with the essence of the person who has passed. They remind us of the impact the deceased had on our lives, their values, and the memories we cherish. It’s an opportunity to articulate the unsaid, to give voice to our feelings, and to acknowledge our shared loss in a deeply personal yet universal way.

In crafting your speech, you’re not only paying tribute to the departed but also providing a crucial part of the journey towards closure for everyone present.

Key Elements to Include in a Funeral Speech

Creating a meaningful funeral speech involves weaving together several key elements that resonate with your audience and honor the memory of the departed. Here are some crucial components to consider:

• Personal Anecdotes and Memories: Share specific stories or memories that highlight the character and life of the deceased. These personal touches not only bring the speech to life but also help listeners connect and remember their loved ones in a more vivid way.
• Acknowledging the Grief: It’s important to recognize the pain and loss felt by those present. Empathize with the audience’s grief, showing that it’s okay to mourn and that they are not alone in their feelings.
• Celebrating Their Life: While a funeral is a time of mourning, it is also a time to celebrate the life that was lived. Highlight their achievements, passions, and the positive impact they had on others. This can provide a sense of joy and gratitude amidst the sorrow.
• Comforting Words: Offer words of comfort and hope. This could be through a favorite quote of the deceased, a poem, or simply your heartfelt wishes for peace and healing for those who are grieving.

Crafting the Right Tone: Balancing Grief and Celebration

Finding the right tone for a funeral speech is a delicate balance. It’s about respecting the solemnity of the occasion while also celebrating the life that was lived. Here’s how you can achieve this balance:

• Respectful and Reflective: Begin with a tone that acknowledges the loss and the pain it brings. It’s important to show respect for the gravity of the moment and the feelings of those in mourning.
• Uplifting and Hopeful: As you progress, gradually introduce more uplifting elements. Share stories or attributes of the deceased that brought joy and laughter. This shift helps to lighten the mood and reminds the audience of the cherished moments they had with their loved one.
• Inclusive and Unifying: Use language that brings people together. Phrases like “we remember,” “we cherish,” and “we celebrate” help to create a sense of community and shared experience, which is comforting in times of grief.
• Genuine and Personal: Above all, be sincere. Speak from the heart. Your genuine emotions and personal connection with the deceased will naturally guide the tone of your speech.

Structuring Your Funeral Speech: A Step-by-Step Guide

Creating a well-structured funeral speech can help convey your message clearly and effectively. Here’s a simple guide to help you structure your speech:

• Opening with Respect: Start your speech by acknowledging the solemnity of the occasion and the shared sense of loss. A respectful opening sets the appropriate tone for the rest of your speech.
• Introducing Yourself: Briefly introduce yourself and your relationship with the deceased. This helps the audience connect with you and understand your perspective.
• Sharing Memories: Transition to sharing personal anecdotes and memories of the deceased. These stories should reflect their character, life, and the impact they had on those around them.
• Acknowledging the Grief: It’s important to recognize and empathize with the collective grief of the audience. This shows that you share in their sorrow and are there to support each other.
• Celebrating the Life: Shift the focus to celebrating the life of the deceased. Highlight their achievements, passions, and the joy they brought into the lives of others.
• Concluding with Comfort and Hope: End your speech on a comforting note. Offer words of consolation, a hopeful message, or a meaningful quote that resonates with the sentiment of the day.
• A Moment of Reflection: Consider concluding with a moment of silence or a brief reflective pause, allowing the audience to privately cherish their memories of the departed.

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Practical Tips for Preparing Your Memorial Speech

Crafting a funeral speech can be challenging, but with the right approach and preparation, you can create a meaningful tribute. Here are some practical tips to help you prepare your speech:

• Gather Your Thoughts: Take time to reflect on your relationship with the deceased and the memories you shared. Jot down notes about significant moments, qualities you admired, and the impact they had on your life.
• Consult with Others: Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends and family of the deceased for additional insights or stories. This can help you paint a fuller picture of their life and character.
• Write and Organize Your Speech: Using the structure outlined earlier, start drafting your speech. Organize your thoughts and stories in a coherent manner, ensuring a natural flow from beginning to end.
• Rehearse Your Speech: Practice delivering your speech several times. This helps you become more familiar with the content and reduces the likelihood of being overly emotional on the day.
• Manage Your Emotions: It’s natural to feel emotional while delivering a funeral speech. If you feel overwhelmed, pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and continue when you’re ready. Remember, it’s okay to show emotion.
• Seek Feedback: If possible, rehearse in front of a trusted friend or family member and ask for their feedback. This can help you refine your speech and delivery.
• Prepare for the Setting: Familiarize yourself with the venue and any equipment you might need, such as a microphone or stand. This ensures you’re comfortable and prepared on the day of the funeral.

Tips for Speaking at a Virtual Memorial or Celebration of Life

Speaking at a virtual memorial requires some adjustments to the traditional approach.

Here are tips to ensure your speech is impactful, even in a digital format:

• Embrace the Technology: Familiarize yourself with the virtual platform being used. Test your microphone, camera, and internet connection in advance to avoid technical issues during the memorial.
• Create a Suitable Environment: Choose a quiet and well-lit space to deliver your speech. A simple, respectful background can help minimize distractions for the audience. Ensure good facial lighting, and no strong lights like windows or lamps directly behind you that will silhouette your face. Refer to our resource article for more about this topic.
• Engage the Virtual Audience: Make eye contact with the camera to create a sense of connection with your online audience. Speak clearly and at a measured pace to ensure your words are easily understood.
• Keep It Concise: Attention spans can be shorter in a virtual setting. Aim to deliver a concise yet meaningful speech, focusing on the most significant points and memories.
• Consider your Device: If using a mobile phone, tilt your phone to the horizontal position so that your video fills up the view. It is also recommended that you place your device so that it is at a 45-degree angle so the camera is directly facing you, not on an angle. The device should be on a tripod or firmly set on a table or desk to prevent shaking.
• Be Mindful of Time Zones: If attendees are joining from different time zones, be conscious of this in your speech timing and references to time-sensitive aspects like morning or evening.
• Provide Emotional Support Digitally: Since physical comfort is not possible, be extra expressive in your words and tone to convey empathy and support to the virtual attendees.

Do’s and Don’ts When Speaking at a Funeral

When delivering a funeral speech, it’s crucial to be mindful of certain do’s and don’ts to ensure your words are appropriate and comforting. Here are some guidelines to consider:

Do’s:

• Be Sincere: Speak from the heart. Genuine emotions and sincerity are always appreciated and can be very comforting.
• Keep It Appropriate: Share stories and anecdotes that are suitable for all attendees, including children and elders.
• Respect the Deceased’s Beliefs and Values: Ensure your speech aligns with the beliefs and values of the deceased, especially when touching on spiritual or religious themes.
• Offer Comfort: Use your words to offer solace to the bereaved, acknowledging their pain and offering hope and comfort.

Don’ts:

• Avoid Controversy: Stay away from topics that could be contentious or stir up negative emotions.
• Don’t Speak Too Long: Keep your speech concise. A lengthy speech can be hard for grieving attendees.
• Avoid Clichés: Try to avoid overused phrases or clichés. Personalized sentiments are more impactful.
• Don’t Forget to Prepare: Even if you’re comfortable speaking publicly, it’s important to prepare and practice your speech to ensure it conveys your message effectively.

Delivering a speech at a funeral is a significant and sensitive task. Through this article, we’ve explored the essential elements of a meaningful funeral speech, from crafting the right tone to structuring your message and preparing effectively, even in a virtual setting. We’ve also navigated the do’s and don’ts to ensure your words honor the deceased and bring comfort to the bereaved.

To recap, remember to:

• Incorporate personal memories and acknowledge the shared grief.
• Celebrate the life of the departed while offering words of solace.
• Prepare and practice your speech, respecting the setting, whether in-person or virtual.

As you embark on this heartfelt journey, remember that your speech is a powerful tool for healing and remembrance.

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6 Tribute Speech Examples

Paying tribute to someone who has made a meaningful impact on your life or the lives of others is a sincere way to express gratitude and admiration.

A well-written tribute speech not only honors the person but also inspires and moves the audience.

Tribute Speech Examples

In this article, we’ll explore six examples of tribute speeches that you can use as inspiration for your own.

Whether you’re preparing for a retirement party, a milestone birthday celebration, or a memorial service, these examples will help you find the right words to convey your sentiments.

Let’s explore and discover the power of a beautifully delivered tribute speech!

1. Short Tribute Speech for a Mentor

Thank you all for gathering here today to honor an extraordinary person who has touched so many lives – our beloved mentor, [Name]. I’ve had the privilege of knowing [Name] for the past five years, and I can say without a doubt that they have been a guiding light in my life.

[Name]’s dedication to their craft and their unwavering commitment to helping others grow is truly inspiring. They have a way of seeing potential in people, even when they don’t see it in themselves. Their patience, wisdom, and kindness have helped countless individuals work through the challenges of their personal and professional lives.

I recall the first time I met [Name]. I was a nervous, unsure young professional, but they immediately put me at ease with their warm smile and encouraging words. Over the years, [Name] has been there for me through the ups and downs, always offering sage advice and a listening ear.

[Name], your impact on my life and the lives of so many others is immeasurable. You have taught us the value of hard work, integrity, and compassion. Your legacy will live on through the countless lives you’ve touched and the ripple effect of your kindness. Thank you for being an extraordinary mentor, friend, and role model. We are all better because of you.

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Commentary: This short tribute speech is perfect for honoring a mentor who has made a meaningful impact on your life. It highlights the mentor’s dedication, wisdom, and the lasting influence they’ve had on you and others. This speech is suitable for a retirement party, a milestone celebration, or any event where you want to express gratitude to a mentor.

2. Medium-Length Tribute Speech for a Parent

Today, I stand before you to honor an extraordinary person who has been my rock, my inspiration, and my guiding light – my [mother/father], [Name]. Growing up, I watched in awe as [she/he] faced life’s challenges with grace, strength, and an unwavering commitment to family.

[Name] taught me the value of hard work and perseverance. [She/He] worked tirelessly to provide for our family, often sacrificing [her/his] own dreams and aspirations to ensure that we had every opportunity to succeed. Despite the long hours and demanding responsibilities, [she/he] always made time for us, showering us with love and attention.

Beyond being an incredible provider, [Name] was also my confidant and my biggest cheerleader. [She/He] celebrated my successes, no matter how small, and picked me up when I stumbled. [Her/His] wise words and comforting hugs got me through the toughest times, and [her/his] belief in me gave me the courage to pursue my dreams.

[Name], your love and dedication have shaped me into the person I am today. You have taught me the importance of family, the power of resilience, and the beauty of unconditional love. Your selflessness and compassion have touched not only our family but also the lives of everyone you’ve encountered.

As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the incredible [mother/father] you have been. Your legacy lives on through the love you’ve given, the values you’ve instilled, and the memories we’ll cherish forever. Thank you for being my hero, my friend, and my guiding light. I love you more than words can express.

Commentary: This medium-length tribute speech is perfect for honoring a parent who has been a constant source of love, support, and inspiration. It highlights the parent’s hard work, sacrifices, and the profound impact they’ve had on your life. This speech is suitable for a parent’s birthday, retirement party, or any occasion where you want to express your deep appreciation and love for your parent.

3. Long Tribute Speech for a Friend

Friends, we gather here today to celebrate an extraordinary individual who has touched our lives in countless ways – our dear friend, [Name]. [Name] is the kind of person who lights up a room with [his/her] presence, whose laughter is contagious, and whose kindness knows no bounds.

I first met [Name] during our early years in college, both of us wide-eyed and eager to take on the world. From the moment we met, I knew [he/she] was someone special. [Name]’s zest for life, quick wit, and compassionate heart drew people to [him/her] like a magnet.

Over the years, our friendship grew, and I watched in admiration as [Name] tackled life’s challenges with grace and resilience. [He/She] faced adversity head-on, always emerging stronger and wiser. [Name]’s unwavering optimism and ability to find the silver lining in even the darkest of times inspired me and everyone around [him/her].

But what truly sets [Name] apart is [his/her] unwavering loyalty and commitment to [his/her] friends. [He/She] has been there for me through the highest of highs and the lowest of lows, always ready with a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or a word of encouragement. [Name]’s selflessness and generosity know no bounds, and [he/she] has touched the lives of countless people with [his/her] acts of kindness.

[Name], your friendship has been one of the greatest gifts in my life. You have taught me the true meaning of friendship, the power of laughter, and the importance of cherishing every moment. Your impact on my life and the lives of everyone here today is immeasurable, and we are all better people because of you.

As we celebrate you today, I want you to know how much you are loved and appreciated. Your presence in our lives is a constant reminder of the goodness in this world, and we are forever grateful for the light you bring. Thank you for being an extraordinary friend, a true inspiration, and a shining example of what it means to live life to the fullest.

To [Name], our dear friend, our confidant, and our guiding light – we raise our glasses in your honor. May your journey be filled with endless laughter, love, and the joy you so freely give to others. We love you, [Name], and we thank you for being an integral part of our lives.

Commentary: This long tribute speech is perfect for honoring a dear friend who has made a meaningful impact on your life. It highlights the friend’s unique qualities, their unwavering support, and the profound influence they’ve had on you and others. This speech is suitable for a milestone birthday, a wedding toast, or any occasion where you want to express your deep appreciation and love for your friend.

4. Long Tribute Speech for a Colleague

Today, we come together to honor an exceptional individual who has made an indelible mark on our lives and our workplace – our esteemed colleague, [Name]. [Name] is not just a coworker; [he/she] is a mentor, a friend, and an inspiration to us all.

I had the privilege of working closely with [Name] for the past [number] years, and I can say without a doubt that [he/she] embodies the very best of what it means to be a dedicated professional and a compassionate human being. From the moment [he/she] joined our team, [Name] brought a level of expertise, enthusiasm, and creativity that elevated our work to new heights.

But what truly sets [Name] apart is [his/her] unwavering commitment to excellence and [his/her] ability to bring out the best in everyone around [him/her]. [Name] is a natural leader, always ready to lend a helping hand, share [his/her] knowledge, and guide others towards success. [His/Her] patience, kindness, and genuine interest in the growth and well-being of [his/her] colleagues have made [him/her] a beloved figure in our workplace.

I recall countless instances where [Name] went above and beyond the call of duty. Whether it was staying late to help a team member meet a tight deadline, taking on additional responsibilities to ensure the success of a project, or simply being there to offer a word of encouragement during challenging times, [Name] has been a constant source of support and inspiration.

[Name]’s impact extends far beyond the walls of our office. [He/She] has been a driving force behind our company’s success, consistently delivering exceptional results and setting a high standard for all of us to aspire to. [His/Her] innovative ideas, strategic thinking, and unwavering commitment to excellence have not only propelled our team forward but have also earned [him/her] the respect and admiration of clients and industry peers alike.

As we bid farewell to [Name] today, we do so with heavy hearts but also with immense gratitude for the incredible contributions [he/she] has made to our lives and our organization. [Name], your legacy will live on through the countless lives you’ve touched, the projects you’ve brought to fruition, and the culture of excellence you’ve helped to foster.

On behalf of our entire team, I want to express our deepest appreciation for your dedication, your leadership, and your unwavering commitment to making our workplace a better place. Your presence will be sorely missed, but the impact you’ve made will endure. We wish you all the best in your future endeavors, knowing that wherever you go, you will continue to inspire and make a difference in the lives of those around you.

[Name], thank you for being an extraordinary colleague, a true friend, and a shining example of what it means to live and work with purpose and integrity. We are all better because of you, and we will carry the lessons you’ve taught us and the memories we’ve shared with us always.

Commentary: This long tribute speech is perfect for honoring a colleague who has made a meaningful impact on your workplace and your professional life. It highlights the colleague’s exceptional qualities, their dedication to excellence, and the lasting influence they’ve had on you and your team. This speech is suitable for a retirement party, a farewell celebration, or any occasion where you want to express your deep appreciation and respect for your colleague.

5. Lengthy Tribute Speech for a Teacher

Teachers play a pivotal role in shaping the minds and lives of their students, and today, we gather to honor an extraordinary educator who has left an indelible mark on countless lives – our beloved teacher, [Name]. [Name] is not just a teacher; [he/she] is a mentor, a guide, and an inspiration to all who have had the privilege of learning from [him/her].

I first met [Name] when I walked into [his/her] classroom as a wide-eyed [grade level] student, eager to learn but unsure of my own potential. From the moment [Name] greeted us with [his/her] warm smile and infectious enthusiasm, I knew I was in the presence of someone special. [His/Her] passion for teaching and genuine care for each and every student was evident from day one.

[Name]’s classroom was a sanctuary of learning, a place where curiosity was encouraged, and mistakes were celebrated as opportunities for growth. [He/She] had a way of making even the most complicated subjects come alive, infusing [his/her] lessons with creativity, humor, and real-world relevance. [Name] understood that education was not just about memorizing facts and figures but about nurturing critical thinking, fostering a love for learning, and empowering students to become lifelong learners.

But what truly set [Name] apart was [his/her] unwavering belief in the potential of every student who walked through [his/her] door. [He/She] saw beyond test scores and grades, recognizing the unique talents and strengths of each individual. [Name] took the time to get to know us, to understand our dreams and aspirations, and to guide us towards reaching our full potential.

I recall the countless hours [Name] spent outside of class, offering extra help, reviewing assignments, and providing guidance and support. [He/She] was always there for us, whether we needed academic assistance, a listening ear, or a word of encouragement. [Name]’s dedication to [his/her] students knew no bounds, and [he/she] went above and beyond to ensure that we had the tools and confidence to succeed.

[Name]’s impact extended far beyond the classroom walls. [He/She] was a pillar of the school community, actively involved in extracurricular activities, mentorship programs, and initiatives that enriched the lives of students and staff alike. [Name]’s leadership and commitment to creating a positive and inclusive learning environment were an inspiration to all who had the privilege of working with [him/her].

As I stand here today, I am just one of the countless lives that have been forever changed by [Name]’s guidance, wisdom, and unwavering belief in our potential. [Name], your legacy lives on through the generations of students you have inspired, the minds you have nurtured, and the lives you have touched. Your impact is immeasurable, and we are all better individuals because of the lessons you have taught us, both inside and outside the classroom.

[Name], on behalf of all your students, past and present, I want to express our deepest gratitude for your dedication, your passion, and your unwavering commitment to our growth and success. You have been more than just a teacher; you have been a guiding light, a role model, and a true inspiration. Your lessons will stay with us long after we leave the halls of this school, and your influence will continue to shape our lives in countless ways.

As you embark on this new chapter of your life, know that you have left an indelible mark on the hearts and minds of all those who have had the privilege of learning from you. We are forever grateful for the gift of your teachings, your wisdom, and your unwavering belief in our potential. Thank you, [Name], for being an extraordinary teacher, a true mentor, and a shining example of what it means to live a life dedicated to the service of others.

Commentary: This lengthy tribute speech is perfect for honoring a teacher who has made a profound impact on your life and the lives of countless students. It highlights the teacher’s passion for education, their dedication to student success, and the lasting influence they’ve had on shaping minds and nurturing potential. This speech is suitable for a teacher’s retirement celebration, a school event honoring educators, or any occasion where you want to express your deep appreciation and gratitude for an exceptional teacher.

6. Lengthy Tribute Speech for a Community Leader

Today, we come together to honor an extraordinary individual who has dedicated [his/her] life to serving our community and making a difference in the lives of countless people – our esteemed community leader, [Name]. [Name] is not just a leader; [he/she] is a visionary, a tireless advocate, and a true inspiration to us all.

I first met [Name] when I joined [his/her] community organization as a volunteer, eager to make a positive impact but unsure of where to begin. From the moment I walked through the doors, I was struck by [Name]’s warmth, compassion, and unwavering commitment to the well-being of our community. [His/Her] passion for service and genuine care for each and every individual was evident in everything [he/she] did.

[Name]’s leadership style was one of inclusivity, empowerment, and collaboration. [He/She] had a way of bringing people together, bridging divides, and fostering a sense of unity and purpose. [Name] understood that true change could only be achieved through the collective efforts of a community working towards a common goal, and [he/she] tirelessly worked to create opportunities for people from all walks of life to get involved and make a difference.

Under [Name]’s guidance, our community organization flourished, taking on projects and initiatives that addressed the most pressing needs of our community. Whether it was providing support for underprivileged families, advocating for social justice, or spearheading educational programs, [Name] was always at the forefront, leading by example and inspiring others to join the cause.

But what truly set [Name] apart was [his/her] unwavering commitment to empowering others and building a stronger, more resilient community. [He/She] recognized the potential in every individual and worked tirelessly to provide the resources, support, and guidance needed to help them achieve their goals. [Name] was a mentor, a confidant, and a source of strength for countless individuals who sought [his/her] guidance and support.

I recall the countless hours [Name] spent listening to the stories and concerns of community members, offering words of encouragement, and working tirelessly to find solutions to the challenges they faced. [His/Her] door was always open, and [he/she] made time for anyone who needed [his/her] help, no matter how busy [he/she] was. [Name]’s compassion, empathy, and genuine desire to make a difference touched the lives of so many, and [his/her] impact will be felt for generations to come.

[Name]’s leadership extended far beyond the walls of our community organization. [He/She] was a vocal advocate for change, working tirelessly to bring attention to the issues that mattered most to our community. [Name] fearlessly stood up for what was right,

even in the face of adversity, and [his/her] unwavering commitment to justice and equality inspired others to join the fight.

As I stand here today, I am just one of the countless lives that have been forever changed by [Name]’s leadership, guidance, and unwavering dedication to our community. [Name], your legacy lives on through the lives you have touched, the organizations you have built, and the positive change you have brought about. Your impact is immeasurable, and we are all better individuals and a stronger community because of your tireless efforts.

[Name], on behalf of our entire community, I want to express our deepest gratitude for your leadership, your compassion, and your unwavering commitment to making our world a better place. You have been more than just a leader; you have been a role model, a changemaker, and a true inspiration. Your lessons in service, empathy, and the power of community will stay with us long after you leave this role, and your influence will continue to shape our lives and our community in countless ways.

As you embark on this new chapter of your life, know that you have left an indelible mark on the hearts and minds of all those who have had the privilege of working with you and learning from you. We are forever grateful for the gift of your leadership, your wisdom, and your unwavering belief in the potential of our community. Thank you, [Name], for being an extraordinary leader, a true advocate, and a shining example of what it means to live a life dedicated to the service of others.

Your legacy will endure, and we pledge to carry forward the work you have started, to continue building a stronger, more compassionate, and more just community for all. We are forever indebted to you, [Name], and we will strive to honor your legacy through our own actions and commitment to making a difference.

Commentary: This lengthy tribute speech is perfect for honoring a community leader who has made a meaningful impact on your community and the lives of its members. It highlights the leader’s dedication to service, their ability to empower and unite people, and the lasting influence they’ve had on shaping a stronger, more resilient community. This speech is suitable for a community event honoring a leader’s contributions, a retirement celebration, or any occasion where you want to express your deep appreciation and gratitude for an exceptional leader who has made a difference in the lives of many.

Tribute speeches are a powerful way to honor and celebrate the individuals who have made a meaningful impact on our lives and the lives of others.

Whether you’re paying tribute to a mentor, a parent, a friend, a colleague, a teacher, or a community leader, the key is to speak from the heart and share the unique qualities, accomplishments, and influence of the person you’re honoring.

The examples provided in this article showcase the diversity of tribute speeches, from short and sweet to lengthy and profound.

Use these examples as inspiration, but remember to infuse your personal experiences, memories, and sentiments to create a truly heartfelt and meaningful tribute.

When writing your tribute speech, focus on the person’s character, their impact on your life and the lives of others, and the lessons they’ve taught you.

Use specific examples and anecdotes to illustrate your points and bring your words to life. Above all, let your genuine appreciation and admiration shine through in every word you speak.

As you deliver your tribute speech, remember that you are not only honoring the person but also inspiring and uplifting those who are listening.

Your words have the power to touch hearts, evoke emotions, and create lasting memories.

Embrace the opportunity to celebrate the extraordinary individuals in your life and to express your gratitude for the profound impact they’ve had on you and the world around them.

So, whether you’re standing in front of a small gathering or a large audience, deliver your tribute speech with sincerity, warmth, and heartfelt appreciation.

Your words will not only honor the person you’re celebrating but also serve as a testament to the enduring power of human connection, love, and the indelible mark we leave on each other’s lives.

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• "You will be missed, but your memory will live on in our hearts forever. Rest in peace."

This short and simple tribute is a heartfelt way to express your love and appreciation for the person who has passed away. It acknowledges the pain of loss but also reminds us that their memory will continue to live on.

• "Thank you for the memories, the laughter, and the love. You will always hold a special place in our hearts."

This tribute acknowledges the positive impact the person had on our lives. It's a way to express gratitude for the joy and happiness they brought into our lives and to honour their memory.

• "Your spirit and the lessons you taught us will never be forgotten. Rest in peace."

This tribute focuses on the person's legacy and the impact they had on our lives. It acknowledges that even though they may be gone, their spirit and the lessons they taught us will continue to guide us.

• "In loving memory of [name], who touched our lives in so many ways. You will always be remembered and deeply missed."

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This tribute is a simple yet powerful way to express our grief and love for the person who has passed away. It acknowledges the impact they had on our lives and their place in our hearts.

• "Your light will continue to shine bright in our hearts. Rest in peace."

This tribute is a poetic and beautiful way to honour the memory of someone who has passed away. It acknowledges that even though they are gone, their light will continue to shine bright in our hearts.

Good afternoon, family, friends, and all those gathered here today to pay tribute to a remarkable life. We are here to honor and remember [Name] , not just for the life they lived, but for the love, joy, and enduring spirit they shared so generously with each of us.

[Name] was a beacon of light—a person whose warmth could thaw the coldest day, whose laughter could lift the heaviest heart, and whose presence could brighten the darkest room. Today, we celebrate not just what [Name] did, but who [Name] was, and how their very essence touched and changed our lives.

Born into a family who valued love, community, and hard work, [Name] carried these principles throughout their entire life. From the mischief of childhood through the trials and triumphs of adulthood, [Name] approached every moment with a singular blend of determination and grace.

Perhaps one of the defining features of [Name] ’s character was their undeniable resilience. Whether it was battling life's challenges or standing up for what was right, [Name] had an inner strength that was as formidable as it was inspiring. This toughness, however, was perfectly balanced by a tender compassion. To see anyone suffer was more than [Name] could bear, and they moved through this world with a kind heart and an open hand, always ready to help others.

In their professional life, [Name] was both respected and admired. Through a combination of innate talent and persistent effort, they achieved remarkable success. But the true measure of their professional legacy lies in the lives of those they mentored and the colleagues they supported. [Name] was never too busy to lend an ear or to offer guidance, and their door was always open to anyone in need.

It was, however, in the role of spouse, parent, and friend that [Name] truly excelled. Their love for their family was the kind of fierce, unconditional love that forms the bedrock of a meaningful life. Together with their beloved spouse, [Name] built a home filled with laughter, learning, and countless cherished memories. As a parent, they instilled in their children not just the courage to dream, but the courage to pursue those dreams with all their might.

Friendship was not a word [Name] took lightly. To be [Name] 's friend was to know you had a steadfast ally for life. Whether sharing in joy or shouldering sorrow, [Name] was the companion on whom you could unfailingly rely—a fact that many of us gathered here can affirm.

[Name] also had a passion for the simple pleasures in life. The smell of fresh-cut grass. The sound of waves gently lapping against the shore. The taste of homecooked meals. These simple moments, often taken for granted, were cherished by [Name] . They understood deeply that the fullness of life is found not in grand gestures, but in the collection of small, beautiful moments that weave the tapestry of our days.

One of [Name] 's greatest gifts was their ability to listen—to truly hear what others were saying, and to respond with empathy and wisdom. This gift made them invaluable to those seeking advice, comfort, or simply the pleasure of genuine conversation. They rarely judged, and they always sought to understand. It is this quality that many of us will miss most deeply.

Their involvement in community affairs and volunteer work was another expression of their desire to make a difference. [Name] believed in giving back, in planting seeds for a future they might never see, but one they believed could be better because of their efforts. Whether it was coaching a local sports team, participating in charitable events, or serving on various committees, [Name] 's dedication to community service was unwavering.

Today, as we gather in the shadow of grief, it is perhaps the laughter and the stories shared with [Name] that we will miss the most. Their unique perspective and irrepressible humor brought joy to every occasion. Even now, in their absence, the memories of their wisecracks, uplifting anecdotes, and infectious smile light up our hearts and chase away some of the sadness of this day.

[Name] ’s life was a testament to the power of kindness, dedication, and love. While we mourn their passing, we also celebrate the indelible mark they left on each of our lives. As we say goodbye, let us not dwell on the silence left behind, but rather fill it with the stories, the laughter, and the love that [Name] so freely gave.

In closing, I urge you to honor [Name] not just today, but every day in the way you live your lives. Embrace their passion for life, follow their example of kindness, and carry forward the light of their spirit. This is not the end of [Name] 's story, for they live on within each of us—in every act of kindness, in every moment of joy, and in every memory we treasure.

Thank you, [Name] , for everything. May you rest in peace, knowing that your legacy will continue to inspire and guide us all.

Good [morning/afternoon/evening] everyone,

We are gathered here today to honor and remember the life of our beloved [Name]. It is with a mixture of sorrow and gratitude that we come together to celebrate the incredible person they were and the profound impact they had on our lives. [Name] was not just a family member or friend; they were a source of inspiration, a beacon of love, and a guiding light for all who knew them.

From the moment I met [Name], it was clear that they possessed a unique and beautiful spirit. Their kindness, generosity, and unwavering support were constants in our lives. Whether through their thoughtful words, their compassionate actions, or their infectious laughter, [Name] had a way of making everyone feel valued and loved.

One of the qualities I admired most about [Name] was their dedication to family and friends. They always put the needs of others above their own, and their selflessness knew no bounds. [Name] was the person you could always count on, no matter the circumstances. They were there to celebrate our joys, to comfort us in our sorrows, and to offer support in times of need.

I recall a particular instance that perfectly captures [Name]'s spirit. It was during a difficult time when I was feeling overwhelmed and unsure of the future. [Name] took the time to sit with me, to listen to my concerns, and to offer words of encouragement and wisdom. Their empathy and understanding made a world of difference, and their support gave me the strength to move forward. This act of kindness was just one of many examples of how [Name] lived their life—always thinking of others and spreading love wherever they went.

In addition to their dedication and kindness, [Name] had a remarkable zest for life. They approached each day with a sense of wonder and joy, embracing every moment and finding beauty in the simplest things. Whether it was through their love of [mention any hobbies or interests, such as gardening, painting, traveling, etc.], their passion for learning, or their appreciation for nature, [Name] taught us all the importance of living life to the fullest.

One of my favorite memories of [Name] is [specific memory]. It was a time when we [describe the memory in detail], and it perfectly encapsulates who [Name] was. Their [specific qualities, such as humor, resilience, or compassion] made that moment unforgettable, and it is a memory I will cherish forever. [Name] had a way of turning ordinary moments into extraordinary ones, and their presence brought joy to everyone around them.

As we gather here today, let us remember the many ways [Name] enriched our lives. Their legacy is one of love, dedication, and unwavering strength. [Name] taught us the importance of living with purpose, of being there for our loved ones, and of always striving to make a positive impact. Their influence on our lives is immeasurable, and their memory will forever be a part of us.

To [Name]'s family, I offer my deepest condolences. Thank you for sharing [Name] with us and for allowing us to be a part of their incredible journey. Your love and support have been a cornerstone of their life, and we are forever grateful for the beautiful moments we have shared together.

As we move forward, let us honor [Name]'s memory by continuing to live our lives with the same dedication, kindness, and joy that they did. Let us strive to be compassionate, supportive, and dedicated to making a difference in the lives of others. May we find comfort in the knowledge that [Name]'s spirit will live on through the memories we cherish and the love we hold in our hearts.

Rest in peace, dear [Name]. Your legacy will forever be etched in our hearts, and your spirit will continue to inspire and guide us. Thank you for the countless memories, the endless love, and the unwavering support. You are loved and cherished beyond measure.

We are here today to celebrate and remember the life of our beloved [Name]. As we gather in this moment of reflection, we are filled with both sadness at the loss and gratitude for having had the privilege to know and love such an extraordinary person. [Name]'s life was a testament to the power of compassion, resilience, and unwavering love.

From the earliest days, [Name] demonstrated a remarkable ability to connect with others. They had an innate kindness that drew people in and made them feel understood and valued. Whether offering a listening ear, a comforting hug, or a word of encouragement, [Name] always knew how to make those around them feel special.

One of the most memorable aspects of [Name]'s character was their incredible compassion. They were always the first to lend a helping hand, to offer support in times of need, and to extend kindness to everyone they met. [Name]'s selflessness and empathy were evident in countless acts of generosity and love.

I remember a particular instance that perfectly captures [Name]'s compassionate nature. It was during a time when a close friend was going through a personal crisis. Without hesitation, [Name] stepped in to offer support. They spent countless hours providing a shoulder to cry on, offering practical assistance, and simply being there as a source of strength and comfort. This act of kindness was just one of many examples of how [Name] lived their life—always thinking of others and spreading love wherever they went.

[Name] was also a person of remarkable strength and resilience. Throughout their life, they faced numerous challenges, but they always approached them with courage and determination. [Name]'s strength was a source of inspiration to all who knew them. No matter the obstacle, [Name] never gave up. They taught us the importance of resilience, perseverance, and maintaining a positive outlook even in the darkest times.

In addition to their compassion and strength, [Name] was a true lover of life. They approached each day with a sense of wonder and joy, embracing every moment and finding beauty in the simplest things. Whether it was through their love of [mention any hobbies or interests, such as music, cooking, traveling, etc.], their passion for learning, or their appreciation for nature, [Name] taught us all the importance of living life to the fullest.

As we gather here today, let us remember the many ways [Name] enriched our lives. Their legacy is one of compassion, strength, and unwavering love. [Name] taught us the importance of living with purpose, of being there for our loved ones, and of always striving to make a positive impact. Their influence on our lives is immeasurable, and their memory will forever be a part of us.

As we move forward, let us honor [Name]'s memory by continuing to live our lives with the same compassion, strength, and joy that they did. Let us strive to be kind, supportive, and dedicated to making a difference in the lives of others. May we find comfort in the knowledge that [Name]'s spirit will live on through the memories we cherish and the love we hold in our hearts.

Today, we gather to remember and celebrate the life of our cherished [Name]. It is with a heart full of sorrow and gratitude that I stand before you to honor the incredible person they were and the lasting impact they had on all of us. [Name] was a beacon of love, joy, and wisdom, and their presence in our lives was a true blessing.

From the moment I first met [Name], it was clear that they had a special gift for making people feel loved and appreciated. Their kindness, generosity, and infectious smile could light up any room. [Name] had a unique ability to connect with others on a deep and meaningful level, and their warmth and compassion were felt by everyone who knew them.

One of the qualities I admired most about [Name] was their unwavering love for family and friends. They always put the needs of others above their own, and their selflessness knew no bounds. [Name] was the person you could always count on, no matter the circumstances. They were there to celebrate our successes, to comfort us in our sorrows, and to offer support in times of need.

I recall a particular instance that perfectly captures [Name]'s loving nature. It was during a difficult time when I was feeling overwhelmed and unsure of the future. [Name] took the time to sit with me, to listen to my concerns, and to offer words of encouragement and wisdom. Their empathy and understanding made a world of difference, and their support gave me the strength to move forward. This act of kindness was just one of many examples of how [Name] lived their life—always thinking of others and spreading love wherever they went.

[Name] was also a person of remarkable resilience. Throughout their life, they faced many challenges, but they always approached them with courage and determination. [Name]'s strength was a source of inspiration to all who knew them. No matter the obstacle, [Name] never gave up. They taught us the importance of resilience, perseverance, and maintaining a positive outlook even in difficult times.

In addition to their love and resilience, [Name] was a true lover of life. They approached each day with a sense of wonder and joy, embracing every moment and finding beauty in the simplest things. Whether it was through their love of [mention any hobbies or interests, such as art, hiking, reading, etc.], their passion for learning, or their appreciation for nature, [Name] taught us all the importance of living life to the fullest.

As we gather here today, let us remember the many ways [Name] enriched our lives. Their legacy is one of love, joy, and unwavering strength. [Name] taught us the importance of living with purpose, of being there for our loved ones, and of always striving to make a positive impact. Their influence on our lives is immeasurable, and their memory will forever be a part of us.

As we move forward, let us honor [Name]'s memory by continuing to live our lives with the same love, joy, and compassion that they did. Let us strive to be kind, supportive, and dedicated to making a difference in the lives of others. May we find comfort in the knowledge that [Name]'s spirit will live on through the memories we cherish and the love we hold in our hearts.

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What is a memorial tribute?

A memorial tribute is a speech given or a piece of writing prepared in honor of someone who has passed away, often focusing on their life, legacy, and the impact they had on those around them. Tributes can be shared at funerals, memorial services, or on digital platforms amongst family and friends.

How long should a short memorial tribute be?

A short memorial tribute is typically around one to five minutes in spoken form or one to two paragraphs if written. The aim is to succinctly convey your feelings and commemorate the deceased while being mindful of the audience's attention span during emotional times.

What should be included in a memorial tribute?

Memorial tributes generally include a brief introduction of the deceased, their relationship with the speaker or writer, memorable traits or stories, their impact on others, and a closing that often expresses how they will be remembered or missed.

Can I include humor in a memorial tribute?

Yes, if it is appropriate and respectful. Humor can be a powerful way to remember the departed if they were known for their sense of humor or a particular funny story that encapsulates their personality and brings comfort.

Are there specific formats to follow for a short memorial tribute?

While there isn't a one-size-fits-all format, a well-structured tribute typically includes an opening, body, and conclusion, focusing on memories, personal anecdotes, and the person's qualities. Keeping it organized helps your audience follow and resonate with your words.

How do I start a memorial tribute?

Begin with a brief introduction of yourself and your relationship to the deceased, followed by a thoughtful recognition of the loss that everyone is experiencing. This sets a tone of shared grief and remembrance.

Is it appropriate to mention the cause of death in a tribute?

Generally, the specific cause of death does not need to be addressed in a tribute unless it is relevant to the deceased’s legacy or wishes. Focus instead on their life and the positive memories you have.

How personal should a memorial tribute be?

A memorial tribute should be as personal as you feel comfortable with, considering your relationship with the deceased and the setting. Sharing personal stories can be a powerful way to illustrate their character and the bond you shared.

Can I use quotes or poetry in a short memorial tribute?

Absolutely. Quotes, poetry, or religious texts that were meaningful to the deceased or convey your feelings can greatly enhance a tribute, adding depth and universality to your personal reflections.

What tone should I aim for in a short memorial tribute?

Strive for a tone that reflects the person you are remembering. It should be respectful, contemplative, and it can vary from solemn to celebratory, depending on the mood that best honors the deceased.

Should I practice my tribute before the memorial service?

Yes, practicing the tribute helps to manage nerves, enables you to work on pacing, and ensures that you can deliver it with the emotion and respect it deserves without becoming too overwhelmed.

Is it okay to read from a paper or should I memorize the tribute?

It is perfectly acceptable to read from a paper, especially during such emotional times. If you are more comfortable with reading your tribute, you can focus on delivery without worrying about forgetting any part.

How can I handle my emotions while giving a tribute?

It's natural to get emotional while giving a tribute. Taking deep breaths, pausing when needed, and keeping a small personal item for comfort can all help manage emotions. It's okay to show emotion; it reflects your genuine feelings.

What is the best way to close a memorial tribute?

A good closing could include expressing hope for how the deceased will continue to be remembered, a thank you to the audience for sharing in the memory, or a meaningful quote or statement that summarizes your feelings.

Can I give a tribute if I wasn't very close to the deceased?

Yes, you can still give a tribute if you weren't very close to the deceased. What matters is the sincerity of your words, the respect for the person's life, and the desire to offer comfort to those who are grieving.

What if I become too overwhelmed to continue while giving the tribute?

If you become overwhelmed, it's acceptable to take a moment to compose yourself or even ask someone else to finish reading your tribute. Those in attendance will understand and appreciate the effort you're making.

How can I ensure my tribute is inclusive of all attendees?

Try to speak from the heart about the widely recognized positive attributes of the deceased, and avoid controversial or potentially divisive topics that may not be appropriate for all attendees in a mixed group.

Can I ask for feedback on my tribute before the service?

Seeking feedback on your tribute from those who also knew the deceased can be incredibly helpful. It ensures that your words resonate and you're capturing the essence of the remembered individual accurately.

Is it okay to update or change a tribute last-minute?

While having a prepared tribute is ideal, if something significant comes to you or if circumstances change, it's acceptable to update your tribute. Make sure the changes still allow you to deliver a coherent and heartfelt message.

How can I personalize a tribute for someone with a common profession like a teacher?

Focusing on specific anecdotes, their unique teaching style, impact on their students, and personal hobbies or passions can help personalize a tribute for someone in a common profession.

Are there cultural considerations I should be aware of when giving a tribute?

Yes, it's important to be mindful of cultural sensitivities and practices, particularly when they influence mourning and memorial customs. If you are unsure, ask family members or others from the same cultural background for guidance.

In conclusion, a short memorial tribute can be a powerful way to honour and remember the life of someone who has passed away. It's important to find the right words to express our feelings, and these sample tributes can help you find the inspiration you need to say goodbye. Remember, it's not the length of the tribute that matters, but the love and respect it conveys.

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How to write a tribute for a loved one’s funeral

Writing a tribute for a loved one’s funeral can be a difficult and emotional task. Trying to decide which memories to share and which exact words to use isn’t always easy. To support you through the process, we’ve put together an expert guide on how to write a funeral tribute. 

4 tips to write the perfect funeral tribute

Making a start is often the hardest part when writing a funeral tribute, but take your time and don’t rush into writing straight away.

1. Do some research

Talking with friends and family can be a great way to start reflecting on what to include within a tribute. It’s likely that each person that encountered your loved one will remember them in a slightly different way. Perhaps there are some particularly memorable events which other family members or friends hold close to their heart. 

It’s worth noting down any life details and memories shared by family and friends, even though you may not need to include them all. You’ll be able to pick out your favourite and most important ones after spending some time reflecting on them.

2. Make a list of your favourite memories 

Now it’s time to reminisce on your own favourite memories of your loved one. This may be an emotional task, so make sure you take things at your own pace. Sometimes it can help to visit places that remind you of your loved one, as this can help to trigger memories. 

Remember, this tribute is entirely unique to your loved one. Don’t feel pressured to only include major life details, anything that helps people to understand the type of person your loved one was is worth including. In addition, a funeral tribute doesn’t need to have a serious or solemn tone. If your loved one enjoyed having fun or making jokes, you should include this within your list of memories. 

3. Take your time 

As previously mentioned, the whole process of writing a tribute can be hard when dealing with grief. At each step of the task, make sure you take breaks and speak to someone you trust, if you need support. 

Once you’ve collated your list of memories and details to include, you can start piecing the tribute together. You could start by planning it out and deciding what will be covered within each section. Perhaps you want to keep things chronological, or maybe you’d rather have three or four key points — it’s entirely your choice. 

And when you’re ready to write your first draft, don’t expect perfection straight away. It doesn’t matter how many tries it takes before things start to seem right, just remember to take your time. 

4. Write how you speak 

It can be tempting to prioritise grammar when writing your funeral tribute, but this is by no means the most important element. Instead, try to write as you speak and keep the tone conversational. This helps to bring a sense of authenticity and makes it easier for the audience to feel your emotions. Imagine you’re speaking with friends about your loved one — that’s the type of tone you want to achieve.

What should you include in a loved one’s funeral tribute?

There is no right or wrong answer for what should be included within a funeral tribute, but as a basis you may like to include the following:

• Notable achievements 
• Their personality
• Their hobbies and passions
• Their careers
• Positive qualities
• Their relationships with family and friends 
• Memorable stories
• Their lasting legacy 
• A short memorial quote

How long should a funeral tribute be?

A funeral tribute is usually around three to five minutes long, with the longest being around ten minutes. It’s worth checking with the funeral director how long you’ll have to speak, as some venues will allocate a specific amount of time for the funeral as a whole. 

It’s important that you keep the audience engaged with a speech that isn’t too long. It’s still possible to mention a variety of stories and memories within a matter of minutes, just make sure that you avoid spending too long on each individual point. 

Who usually reads tributes at funerals? 

The tribute is usually read by a close family member, friend or the minister. Of course, reading out a tribute might make you feel emotional. For this reason, you can ask someone else to read it on your behalf. Or, you may like to ask another family member or friend to be on hand to step in if needed.

We hope this guide has helped you to better understand the process of writing a funeral tribute for a loved one. Remember to take your time, keep it conversational and embrace the wonderful memories you shared together. 

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Funeral tribute for parent example.

“Hello, I’m Hannah, John’s eldest daughter. My brother Tom and I would like to thank you for coming today. This was painful to write and I’m going to struggle reading it, so please bear with me. My brother is on hand to take over if need be. I’m going to tell you a couple of amusing stories about my Dad because he was rarely ever serious. He liked nothing better than making people laugh and playing jokes on us all. And I think he’d want to make us chuckle today. He was always there to put a smile on your face, sometimes without planning to. Like the time when…”

Funeral tribute for partner example

“It feels like I’ve lost my right arm. We complemented each other so well. I’ve always been highly strung and Jack was my calm. We argued as couples do, but only about the little things. I already miss him leaving wet towels on the floor and I wish he was there so I could moan about how he stacked the dishwasher for the millionth time! I’m going to share with you something that he did that was close to his heart that many people didn’t know he did. Jack was a volunteer for a local charity…”

Funeral tribute for child example

“I would like to take this opportunity to thank all of you for being here today. This is unimaginable for most parents and we are only managing to keep going because of your love and support. Mia made life fun and we are devastated she is gone. But we don’t want her death to be in vain. Take a look at the information on the leaflets provided to see how you can continue to help in her memory. I’m now going to share a couple of happy memories with you…”

Funeral tribute for friend example

“The first thing I noticed about my friend Emma was her laugh. Her laugh was so joyous that her whole body would shake and her eyes would light up. It was infectious; you couldn’t stay sad around her. That’s the Emma I want to celebrate today: someone who lived life to the fullest. I’m going to tell you a story from when we went travelling together after university. I’d never imagined I’d ever be scaling sand dunes at night on the beach, dressed as a nun, but these were the kind of incidents you’d find yourself in with Emma back then…”

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A Tribute Speech is a profound way to honor and celebrate an individual’s impact or a significant event. This comprehensive guide, filled with eloquent speech examples, offers step-by-step instructions on crafting a moving and memorable tribute. Whether honoring a colleague, a loved one, or a notable figure, these guidelines will help you convey your admiration and respect powerfully. Learn to express heartfelt emotions and share impactful stories that do justice to the person or occasion being commemorated.

What is Tribute Speech?

A tribute speech is a specific type of commemorative address dedicated to expressing honor, admiration, and respect towards a person, event, thing, or idea. It is crafted to celebrate and acknowledge the significance and impact of its subject. Typically, tribute speeches highlight the exceptional qualities of the honored subject and reflect on their profound influence.

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A tribute speech is one of the most personal and emotional speech. Because it talks about the life of a particular person or a group of people. It is a speech that will inspire others and make the listeners come together as one in commemorating and honoring the life of the subject.A tribute speech is not only given to a deceased person, in fact, it is also given to a living person who still manages to give contribution or service, doing remarkable things, and still inspire and influence others. The best speeches are ones that are honest, sincere, full of admiration, and has a good speech outline .

Tribute Speech Format

Introduction Good evening, everyone. We are gathered here today not just to celebrate an extraordinary career but to honor a life that has made a profound difference. I’m here to speak about Dr. Jane Thompson, a person whose contributions have not only advanced the field of environmental science but have also inspired a generation to live more conscientiously. Body Early Life and Background Born in a small coastal town, Jane was always fascinated by the ocean. Her early years, spent volunteering at marine sanctuaries, laid the foundation for a lifelong commitment to environmental conservation. Despite facing early challenges, including limited access to advanced education and resources, Jane’s determination led her to earn a scholarship to a prestigious university, where she began her journey to becoming the influential figure we admire today. Achievements and Contributions Professionally, Dr. Thompson’s work has been groundbreaking. Her research on coral reef preservation has not only won her numerous international awards but has also played a critical role in developing sustainable marine practices worldwide. However, Jane’s impact extends beyond her professional achievements. She founded the Green Future Initiative, a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating young people about environmental stewardship, demonstrating her belief that real change begins with education. Personal Stories I remember a time when Jane organized a community clean-up. It wasn’t just about cleaning; it was about bringing people together, sharing knowledge, and fostering a sense of community responsibility towards our environment. Her enthusiasm was infectious, and her genuine care for both people and the planet was evident in everything she did. Conclusion As we reflect on Dr. Thompson’s contributions, it’s clear that her legacy is not just in her scientific achievements but in the hearts and minds she has touched. Jane once said, “Change is the collective sum of our actions.” Today, we not only celebrate her remarkable contributions but also commit to continuing her legacy through our actions. In closing, I’d like to express our deepest gratitude to Dr. Jane Thompson for her unwavering dedication, inspiring leadership, and compassionate heart. Thank you, Jane, for showing us the way forward

Tribute Speech Example

Ladies and Gentlemen , Good [morning/afternoon/evening], Thank you all for being here today as we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Loved One’s Name]. I am [Your Name], and it is both a privilege and a deeply emotional task to stand before you and share my thoughts about someone who meant so much to all of us. [Loved One’s Name] was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of everyone they met. They were a loving [relationship, e.g., parent, sibling, friend], a cherished member of our community, and a source of joy and inspiration to all who knew them. One of my fondest memories of [Loved One’s Name] is [share a specific memory, such as a shared activity, a special trip, or a meaningful conversation]. Their ability to [describe a characteristic, such as make people laugh, bring people together, offer wise counsel] made every moment we spent together truly special. [Loved One’s Name] had a unique gift for making everyone feel valued and loved. [Loved One’s Name] was a person of immense strength and character. They faced life’s challenges with resilience and grace, never losing sight of what was truly important. They taught us the value of perseverance, the importance of kindness, and the power of a positive outlook. What I will always cherish about [Loved One’s Name] is their unwavering kindness and generosity. They had a heart of gold and were always willing to lend a helping hand, offer a listening ear, or provide words of encouragement. Their selflessness touched many lives and left a lasting impact on our hearts. [Loved One’s Name] was also a person of great wisdom and insight. They were always there to offer advice, to listen, and to provide a different perspective. Their counsel was invaluable, and we all knew that we could always count on them for guidance and support. As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the time we had together. While I wish we could have had more time, I am comforted by the countless memories we created and the lessons they taught us. Their legacy lives on in the values they instilled in us, in the love they showed to our family and friends, and in the positive impact they had on everyone who knew them. [Loved One’s Name], thank you for being a beacon of love, wisdom, and strength. Thank you for the laughter, the lessons, and the countless memories. We will carry your memory in our hearts forever and strive to honor you in all that we do. In closing, I would like to share a quote that reminds me of [Loved One’s Name]: “Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” [Loved One’s Name], your love and your legacy will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything. Thank you, everyone, for being here today to honor [Loved One’s Name]. [Your Name]

Tribute Speech Short Example

Ladies and Gentlemen , Good [morning/afternoon/evening], Thank you all for being here today as we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Loved One’s Name]. I am [Your Name], and it is both a privilege and an emotional task to share a few words about someone who meant so much to all of us. [Loved One’s Name] was a remarkable person who touched the lives of everyone they met. They were a loving [relationship, e.g., parent, sibling, friend] and a cherished member of our community. Their kindness, strength, and unwavering love made a profound impact on all of us. One of my fondest memories of [Loved One’s Name] is [share a specific, brief memory, such as a shared activity or meaningful moment]. Their ability to [describe a characteristic, such as make people laugh, bring people together] made every moment we spent together truly special. [Loved One’s Name] faced life’s challenges with resilience and grace, teaching us the value of perseverance and the importance of kindness. Their wisdom and generosity left a lasting impression on our hearts. As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the time we had together. Though I wish we could have had more time, I am comforted by the memories we created and the lessons they taught us. Their legacy lives on in the values they instilled in us and the love they shared. In closing, I would like to share a quote that reminds me of [Loved One’s Name]: “Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” [Loved One’s Name], your love and legacy will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything. Thank you, everyone, for being here today to honor [Loved One’s Name]. [Your Name]

Tips for Delivering a Tribute Speech

• Practice Thoroughly: Familiarize yourself with your speech through repeated practice. This helps reduce nervousness and ensures a smoother delivery.
• Speak from the Heart: Authenticity resonates. Speak sincerely about your feelings and experiences related to the honoree. Authentic emotion is compelling and engaging.
• Maintain Eye Contact: Make eye contact with your audience to create a connection. This helps convey your sincerity and enhances the impact of your words.
• Use Notes Sparingly: If you use notes, glance at them briefly to jog your memory, but try to keep your attention on the audience. Over-reliance on notes can disconnect you from the emotional depth of your speech.
• Control Your Pace: Nervousness can lead to speaking too quickly, which might make it hard for your audience to follow. Practice pacing your speech so it’s easy to listen to and digest.
• Pause for Emphasis: Use pauses strategically to let important points sink in or to compose yourself if you become emotional. Pauses can be powerful in adding weight to your message.
• Use an Appropriate Tone: The tone of your speech should match the occasion and the personality of the honoree. Whether it’s solemn, celebratory, or humorous, ensure it’s appropriate.
• Manage Emotions: It’s okay to show emotion, as it underscores the sincerity of your tribute. However, if you’re worried about becoming too overwhelmed, find techniques to compose yourself, like focusing on a spot in the room or taking deep breaths.
• Personalize Your Delivery: Include personal anecdotes or traits of the honoree that you admire. This personal touch can make your speech more relatable and memorable.
• Conclude Strongly: End your speech with a powerful statement or a call to action inspired by the honoree’s life and achievements. This leaves your audience with a lasting impression.
• Rehearse with Feedback: Practice your speech in front of friends or family members who can provide constructive feedback. This can help you refine your delivery and content.
• Be Prepared for the Unexpected: Sometimes emotions can catch you by surprise, or the audience might react in ways you didn’t anticipate. Be prepared to adapt and continue gracefully.

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How to write a Tribute Speech

Step 1: choose your focus.

• Select the Person: Clearly define who you are honoring. It could be a friend, family member, colleague, or a public figure.
• Determine the Purpose: Understand the occasion and what you aim to achieve with your speech—celebrate their life, highlight their accomplishments, or honor their memory.

Step 2: Gather Information

• Research: Collect information about their life, achievements, and impact. This may involve speaking with friends and family, looking at their social media, or recalling personal memories.
• Select Key Points: Identify the most significant aspects of their life and work that you want to highlight. These should reflect their values, contributions, and the difference they made.

Step 3: Organize Your Speech

• Follow the tribute speech format outlined previously, organizing your speech into an introduction, body, and conclusion. Within this structure, decide how you will present the information (chronologically, thematically, etc.).

Step 4: Write the Introduction

• Hook: Begin with a powerful opening to grab attention. This could be a quote, an anecdote, or a profound statement.
• Purpose: State the purpose of your speech and briefly introduce the person you’re honoring.

Step 5: Develop the Body

• Early Life and Background: Start with some background information that provides context to their life and achievements.
• Achievements and Contributions: Highlight their professional and personal accomplishments, focusing on how they’ve impacted others.
• Personal Stories: Share anecdotes and personal stories that showcase their character and the personal side that people admired.

Step 6: Craft the Conclusion

• Summarize: Briefly recap the key points you’ve made throughout your speech.
• Reflect: Offer a reflection on their legacy and what they mean to you and others.
• End with a Tribute: Conclude with a heartfelt tribute, expressing gratitude, admiration, or a final farewell.

Step 7: Edit and Practice

• Review and Refine: Read through your speech, making adjustments to ensure clarity, flow, and emotional impact. Aim for a tone that matches the occasion and your relationship with the honoree.
• Practice: Rehearse your speech multiple times. This helps with memorization, timing, and delivery. Pay attention to your pacing, tone, and body language.

The Impact of Tribute Speeches

• Emotional Healing: Tribute speeches can offer comfort and emotional healing to those grieving by celebrating the life and accomplishments of the deceased, helping to focus on positive memories and legacies.
• Increased Appreciation: They heighten the audience’s appreciation for the honoree’s contributions, achievements, and character, often revealing aspects of their life and work that were not widely known.
• Preservation of Legacy: Tribute speeches serve to preserve and honor the legacy of an individual, ensuring that their contributions and values are remembered and passed down through generations.
• Motivation and Inspiration: Hearing about the challenges overcome and achievements made by the honoree can motivate and inspire others to pursue their own goals with greater determination and passion.
• Strengthened Community Bonds: They can strengthen bonds within a community or organization by bringing people together to celebrate and reflect on the values and achievements of one of their own.
• Public Recognition: Tribute speeches provide a platform for public acknowledgment of an individual’s contributions, offering a sense of validation and recognition for their hard work and dedication.
• Encouragement of Similar Values: By highlighting the honoree’s virtues, tribute speeches can encourage others to emulate similar values in their own lives, such as kindness, perseverance, and excellence.
• Catharsis for the Speaker: The process of writing and delivering a tribute speech can offer a cathartic experience for the speaker, allowing them to process their feelings and articulate their admiration or love.
• Enhanced Historical Record: These speeches can enhance the historical record of an individual’s contributions, especially in cases where their work has had a significant impact on society or a specific field.
• Promotion of Unity: In moments of collective grief or celebration, tribute speeches can promote a sense of unity and shared purpose among those in attendance.
• Cultural and Social Reflection: They reflect the cultural and social values of the time, providing insight into what a community or society values in its members.
• Educational Impact: Tribute speeches can have an educational impact, teaching the audience about the honoree’s field of work, their approach to challenges, and the impact of their achievements.

Purpose of Tribute Speech

• To Honor: The primary purpose is to pay homage to the person being recognized, acknowledging their contributions, achievements, and the positive impact they have made on others.
• To Celebrate: Tribute speeches are used to celebrate milestones, such as retirements, birthdays, or significant achievements, highlighting the reasons these milestones are noteworthy.
• To Inspire: By sharing stories of the honoree’s challenges, perseverance, and successes, a tribute speech can inspire others to strive for excellence and pursue their goals with determination.
• To Express Gratitude: It’s an opportunity to thank the individual for their contributions, whether to a community, an organization, or in a personal capacity, acknowledging their efforts and the difference they’ve made.
• To Educate: Through detailing the honoree’s life, work, and philosophy, the speech can educate the audience about values such as resilience, dedication, and compassion, and about the honoree’s field of work or influence.
• To Reflect: It allows the speaker and the audience to reflect on the qualities and actions that make the honoree’s life exemplary and how these can influence their own lives.
• To Preserve Memory: In cases of posthumous tributes, the speech serves to preserve the memory of the deceased, ensuring their legacy continues to be remembered and celebrated by future generations.
• To Connect: A tribute speech can foster a sense of connection among the audience, uniting them in their shared admiration or affection for the honoree, and in shared values or experiences.
• To Heal: Particularly in memorial services, tribute speeches can offer comfort and healing by celebrating the life of the deceased, providing solace through remembrance and shared grief.
• To Motivate: By highlighting the honoree’s contributions and achievements, the speech can motivate others to contribute positively to their communities or fields of work, encouraging them to make a difference.

Occasions That Call for a Tribute Speech

A tribute speech is common in funerals and memorial services. However, a tribute speech can be given at various occasions.

1. Reunions

A thank you speech can be given to honor the senior member of a family in a family reunion. In class reunion or other forms of reunion, a tribute speech is given to a person who has achieved a lot in his/her life.

2. Anniversaries

A tribute speech is given to the one celebrating an anniversary or this could be a celebration marking a historic event such as a day to remember the passing of a famous person. You may also like thank-you speech examples & samples.

This could be a tribute speech that is given by the award recipient to commemorates the person who influences him/her or a tribute speech that is given to the one who receives the award that will honor his/her achievements. You may also see presentation speech examples & samples .

4. Weddings

In wedding celebrations, although it could be a wedding speech , the speeches made by the parents of the couple can be all forms of a tribute of speech too.

5. Retirement

A tribute of speech is given to the retiree to honor and acknowledges his/her contribution and service.

How Do You Start a Tribute Message?

Begin a tribute message with a personal greeting or a poignant quote, followed by an introduction that sets the tone, such as expressing the significance of the person being honored and your relationship to them.

What Is the Central Idea of a Tribute Speech?

The central idea of a tribute speech revolves around celebrating, honoring, and remembering the life, achievements, and influence of an individual. It’s about acknowledging their contributions and expressing gratitude and respect.

How to Start a Speech?

Start a speech with a powerful opening that captures the audience’s attention, such as an intriguing question, a surprising fact, a relatable anecdote, or a compelling quote that ties into your speech’s main theme.

How Do You Write a Heart-Touching Tribute?

To write a heart-touching tribute, share personal stories and anecdotes that highlight the honoree’s virtues, impact, and the memories you shared. Use sincere and emotive language to express your admiration and gratitude deeply.

How Do You Write a Short Tribute Speech?

A short tribute speech should concisely highlight the individual’s key achievements, character traits, and impact on others. Begin with a brief introduction, include memorable anecdotes, and conclude with a heartfelt expression of gratitude or respect.

What Type of Speech Is a Tribute?

A tribute speech is a ceremonial speech that honors and commemorates the life and contributions of an individual. It is characterized by its focus on praising, remembering, and expressing admiration and gratitude towards the person being honored.

How long should a tribute speech be?

A tribute speech should be 5-10 minutes long, depending on the occasion and audience.

Can I use humor in a tribute speech?

Yes, appropriate humor can make the speech engaging, but ensure it respects the person being honored.

How do I conclude a tribute speech?

Conclude with a memorable closing statement, summarizing the person’s impact and expressing gratitude.

What tone should I use in a tribute speech?

Use a respectful, heartfelt, and positive tone to convey sincerity and admiration.

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How to Make a Funeral Toast (with Examples)

Facing the challenge of delivering a funeral toast can be daunting. You have to try and capture the essence of a loved one’s life, sharing your most beloved memories, offering comfort to others and all within a few brief moments.

It’s a significant responsibility, and doing it right not only makes you feel good about remembering a passed loved one but adds respect to the occasion. And understanding how to write a touching and memorable toast isn’t just about what you say but also how you say it.

So in this guide we’ll take you through the key elements of a heartfelt funeral toast and look at some examples that show you the power of well chosen words.

These insights will help you to speak with confidence and sensitivity and make sure your words honor the person who has passed and resonate with those who grieve.

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Understanding the Purpose of a Funeral Toast

The importance of paying tribute.

Acknowledging the purpose of a funeral toast helps you grasp its true value during such a solemn occasion. The main goal of a funeral toast isn’t just to mourn the deceased but to celebrate their life and legacy.

By paying tribute you offer attendees a shared moment of reflection and appreciation. This provides comfort, helping those gathered to process their loss and continue remembering the positive impact the deceased had on their lives.

Toasts at funerals often feature anecdotes, accomplishments and fond memories – stories about the deceased that highlight their character, values and the love they shared with others.

Guidelines for Appropriate Speech Length

Managing your toast’s length is important for maintaining the audience’s attention and respect for the occasion. An effective funeral toast typically lasts between three to five minutes .

Within this time frame you can convey your sentiments without overextending the patience of the mourning audience. Keeping your speech concise means it remains impactful and doesn’t overwhelm listeners who are already in a vulnerable state of mind.

A focused approach allows you to cover key points – personal anecdotes, memories and heartfelt acknowledgments – while keeping the emotion and intimacy that a tribute demands.

How to Prepare a Meaningful Funeral Toast

Reflecting on memories and anecdotes.

When preparing your funeral toast start by collecting memories and anecdotes about the deceased. These stories serve as the emotional core of your toast as they illustrate the character and impact of the loved one on your life and the lives of others.

Recall moments you shared that highlight their virtues, quirks or memorable events. For instance, mentioning the time they went out of their way to help someone in need, or a funny event that left everyone laughing, can paint a vivid picture of their personality.

Gather insights from family and friends to add to your narrative. This not only provides you with a broader perspective but also helps your toast hit home with all attendees.

Use specific examples, like the deceased’s favorite sayings or distinctive habits, to remind them of fond memories and allow them to reflect among the audience.

Selecting Tone and Words Carefully

Choosing the right tone and words is also really important for a funeral toast. The tone should respect the solemnity of the occasion while celebrating the life of the deceased.

Aim for a balance between reverence and warmth which can comfort the bereaved and honor the memory of the loved one. Try to use language that is dignified yet accessible, staying away from too complex vocabulary that might alienate listeners.

Simple, heartfelt words often have the most profound impact. For example, phrases like “She taught us the value of kindness” or “He lived with such integrity” succinctly show your deep respect and admiration.

Be aware of the range of emotions of your audience; some may be grieving deeply, while others might be celebrating the deceased’s life and legacy. Your choice of words should bridge these experiences, offering comfort and highlighting the values that the deceased embodied.

This careful selection of tone and words will help your toast honor the deceased’s memory and brings comfort to those mourning.

“Ladies and Genten, we gather here to celebrate and remember the life of Anna, a beloved mother, sister, and grandmother. Anna lived a life full of passion and kindness, touching each of our lives in profound ways.

She taught us the value of patience and the strength of love. Today, as we share in this moment of remembrance, let us raise our glasses in honor of her spirit and legacy. May the memories we’ve cherished serve as a beacon of hope and joy in our lives. Here’s to Anna, whose love knows no bounds.”

Be sure to bring in your own personal anecdotes that highlight the deceased’s decent and the impact they had on their family.

Example of a Toast for a Friend

“Friends and family, today we celebrate the life of Mark, a true friend and a brilliant mentor to many. Mark had an incredible zest for life, and his humor and generosity enriched our lives immeasurably. His unwavering friendship and wise counsel were gifts to us all.

Let us toast to the memories that bring smiles even on this somber day, and to the moments that showed his true character. To Mark, a friend forever in our hearts.”

Try to balance warmth and respect as you recall shared experiences or those big moments with your friend. This way the toast not only honors but also brings to life their influence on those around them.

Tips for Delivering Your Toast Practicing Your Speech

Practicing your funeral toast is essential so that it flows smoothly when you deliver it. Begin by writing your speech in advance, giving you plenty of time to refine and perfect it.

Read your toast aloud multiple times as this will help you get comfortable with the pace and tone. You might also consider recording yourself to hear how you sound and make adjustments accordingly.

Another good strategy involves practicing in front of a mirror or with a trusted friend who can provide constructive feedback. Familiarize yourself with the key points so that, if needed, you can deliver parts of the toast without reading directly from notes.

Managing Emotions During the Toast

Delivering a funeral toast involves handling your emotions effectively. It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and accept that it’s normal to be emotional during such a tribute.

If you’re worried about becoming overly emotional, plan pauses in your speech where you can take a deep breath and regain composure. Additionally keeping a small handkerchief or tissues within reach can provide a subtle means of managing tears.

By preparing mentally and accepting your emotions as part of the process, you’ll be able to deliver a heartfelt and meaningful toast that honors the deceased respectfully and warmly.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the key elements of a meaningful funeral toast.

A meaningful funeral toast should capture the essence of the deceased, offer comfort, and be brief yet impactful. It usually includes personal anecdotes, acknowledges the loss, and expresses hope or shared memories that resonate with the attendees.

How can I prepare for delivering a funeral toast?

Prepare by writing out your speech in advance, practicing it several times, and considering the emotional weight of the moment. It’s helpful to rehearse in front of a friend or mirror to gain confidence and ensure your words flow naturally.

What should I include in a funeral toast?

Your toast should include heartfelt memories, significant achievements of the deceased, and how they positively impacted the lives of others. A blend of reverence, personal anecdotes, and gratitude portrays a well-rounded tribute.

How do I manage emotions while delivering a funeral toast?

Accept that it’s normal to be emotional and plan strategic pauses in your speech where you can take a moment to compose yourself if needed. Deep breaths and a slower delivery pace can also help manage emotions during your toast.

Can I use quotes or poems in my funeral toast?

Yes, incorporating quotes or poems can enhance your toast by conveying deep sentiments in a few powerful words. Choose a quote or poem that reflects the values or personality of the deceased, or that offers solace to the audience.

Final Thoughts

Writing a funeral toast that really speaks to your audience and honors your loved one is no small task. Yet with the right preparation and a focus on genuine sentiments you can create a moment of tribute that truly reflects the spirit of the departed.

Remember to speak from the heart let your emotions guide your words. Trust in the power of your memories to bring some comfort to those who grieve. A thoughtful approach like this will pay off in how your toast is received and the impact it has on those who listening.

Sally Collins is a writer and the founder and owner of Sympathy Message Ideas. Her passion is to help others deal with grief and provide assistance with talking to those grieving.  Learn more about Sally .

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How Do You Make a Good Slideshow for a Funeral?

The Purpose of a Funeral Slideshow

Conveying the right emotion.

Choosing the Appropriate Tone

Planning your slideshow, selecting content.

• Family photos
• Childhood pictures
• Wedding images
• Career highlights
• Hobby and passion snapshots

Organizing the Narrative

• Chronological order: Start with childhood and move through life stages
• Thematic groups: Organize by family, career, hobbies, etc.

Technical Aspects of Creating a Slideshow

Choosing the right platform, compiling and editing.

Using Templates and Tools

Adding Audiovisual Elements

Selecting the right music.

Incorporating Narration and Text

Sharing the slideshow, choosing a platform for sharing.

Ensuring Ease of Access

Finalizing and presenting the slideshow, reviewing and revising.

Presenting at the Service

Preserving the slideshow as a keepsake.

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'I'm sorry, my friend': DJ Fresh apologises to Thabiso Sikwane in touching memorial speech

• Radio and TV personality Thabiso Enid Sikwane died on 30 August 2024 after a sudden illness.
• Sikwane's memorial service was held at 3C Ministries in Irene, Centurion. 
• The seasoned broadcaster is survived by her ex-husband, four children, her mom and three siblings.

Radio and television personality Thabiso Enid Sikwane was remembered for her humility, service, and love for people from all walks of life. 

On Friday, the 3C Ministries in Irene, Centurion, was filled with mourners donning bright African colours who came to bid the seasoned broadcaster farewell. 

The 50-year-old died in the early hours in hospital after suffering from a headache.

Her ex-husband, DJ Fresh, visibly emotional, stood in front of mourners facing Thabiso's white coffin and spoke his heart out. He said Thabiso was always right. She was intentional about what she wanted to do, and she did it. He said she left nothing unsaid. 

"The one thing I'm going to miss the most about you is your volatile tongue, which was linked to your ever-hard-working mind. Whenever I was in public with you, I was forever worried about what you would say to whom because you didn't agree with them. She was always quick to say when something was wrong. He said they decided to work together on the What A Week podcast because they wanted to talk about their journey and how they ended up where they did (divorced). 

"We wanted to talk about all of that because we both learnt a lot from our union because this woman personified love; she forgave me more times than I deserved; I look back at the times she forgave me for whatever I have done or not done; she would relentlessly forgive me. 

He said Thabiso was the reason they had a peaceful separation. She suggested family therapy and DJ Fresh said that's why their families don't believe they separated. He said he owed her a public apology for any heartache, heartbreak and embarrassment he caused her. 

"I'm sorry, my friend, I'm sorry, Ma T, until we meet again," he said. 

Their children paid a moving tribute to their mom. Reneilwe, Wandida, Thato Jnr, and Lefika each took turns speaking from their hearts. 

"Mama was a woman of love; I saw my mom go through the lowest of moments in life with her marriage, with work, and her faith in God and at the end of the day, she prevailed, waking up the next day happier than she was before," said Thato Jnr.

Thato Jnr added:

Her parents-in-law, Mr and Mrs Sikwane (DJ Fresh's parents), said their son did not marry an ordinary woman. Mr Sikwane said she was a resource in the family whose intellectual ability was above normal.

"We sat down and assessed what type of woman our son could marry. The first day I heard her on the radio, I knew she was not an ordinary wife. She has contributed immensely to my knowledge in terms of mind power. I'm an author as well, through Thabiso. We loved her beyond limits," said Mr Sikwane, Sr. 

Kagiso, Lebakang, and Gontse Matladi, Thabiso's siblings, paid a moving tribute to their sister, each sharing what they adored about Thabiso.

"It's been very difficult for me for the past week, but I know this is what she would've wanted, and I know she's smiling down on me.", Kagiso said. 

She thanked DJ Fresh for the love and support he has given her and her children.

She said, "The world feels a little emptier without your laughter, kindness, and beautiful spirit. I will always cherish the memories we shared. The moments of joy and lessons you've taught me, and the love we had for each other. You were a beacon of my life, and though you are no longer with us, I know your light will continue to shine in my heart."

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Gontse Matladi said she and her sister had a special bond, and the age gap did not prohibit them from getting closer, though they did not live in the same house. 

"To the world, she is a superstar and a celebrity, but to us, she is just a sister. I will miss her making my favourite food and bringing me things; she was my stylist. She was such a joker and a lovable person. I celebrate her, and we will always remember her. I hope that we keep her legacy going," she said.

The broadcaster's mom said she felt blessed because she did not know how her child was loved. She also thanked the Sikwane family for the unity they displayed even when their children announced their divorce in 2022.

She said, "She nourished so many lives; we thank God for giving us an apple with multiple vitamins."

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