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Carrie mullins on literature about maternal mental health.
Posted June 20, 2024 | Reviewed by Kaja Perina
Carrie Mullins, author of The Book of Mothers: How Literature Can Help Us Reinvent Modern Motherhood , was tired of following an unexamined set of expectations for what motherhood looks like, so she wrote a book in hopes that it would offer insight into the social constructs around what it means to be a mother.
“We don’t talk enough about how our understanding of motherhood—i.e. why we think mothers should look, act, parent, and love in a certain way—is simply a set of cultural expectations that’s been built up over time, and rarely by women themselves,” she explained. “I hope the book encourages readers to treat mothers as equally important, interesting, and unique as any other character. When we flatten fictional mother figures to cliches, it becomes easier to treat real women the same way.”
Undoubtedly, society’s set of expectations for mothers impacts maternal mental health. However, limited peer-reviewed research has been done on mothers’ mental health outside of the perinatal period. One survey conducted through the community app Peanut revealed that 72% of women feel invisible in the mothering role. 93% reported feeling unappreciated, unacknowledged or unseen, and 93% said that, since having a child, they feel their identity is now limited to “mother” (Peanut, 2023).
With mothers bearing the brunt of the “invisible family load,” in addition to their professional responsibilities outside the home, it's no wonder that moms often feel stressed and burnt out. From managing the home, to remembering to send grandma a birthday card, to holding space for her child’s big feelings about losing the game, mothers tend to be the one holding it all together at home, regardless of their outside commitments (Wayne, J.H., Mills, M.J., Wang, YR. et al., 2023). Data collected by CVS Health in 2022 found that 42% of working mothers surveyed were diagnosed with anxiety and/or depression , compared to 25% of their coworkers without kids. Working moms were also more likely to report that their mental health had worsened in the last year.
The societal pressures don't end there. Legislation impacting mothers can lead to significant mental health implications, particularly for historically marginalized populations who are already at risk (Ogbu-Nwobodo, L., et al, 2022). I spoke to Mullins, who urged, “We need to legislate for mothers, and we need to do it now! It’s unacceptable that only financially well-off mothers in this country are assured quality health and childcare. If, as so many politicians claim, the family is the heart of America, then we need to put the policies in place that prove it. Our bottom line cannot be simply that these families exist, or have been forced to exist, but that they have a chance to thrive."
Mullins explores these themes and more in her refreshing take on motherhood through the lens of literature. Here are her thoughts on motherhood and mental health:
Q: What mental health themes emerged as you were doing research for your book? What mental health issues plague modern mothers most, from your perspective, and in what ways does this differ (or reflect) the picture of motherhood found in classic literature?
A: I think many mothers today suffer from both feelings of overwhelm and, not unrelatedly, anxiety. Anxiety is nothing new; Mrs. Bennet in Pride and Prejudice is understandably worried about securing husbands who can provide for her daughters. What’s changed is how we think about a mother’s role. Mrs. Bennet basically had one job, whereas today’s mothers are told they are in charge of their children’s health, safety and emotional, social, and financial well-being. If their child “fails” in any of these metrics, it’s somehow a reflection of their ability as a parent.
Q: In Chapter 3 you examine Little Women by Louisa May Alcott and explore Marmee's anger , reflecting on how modern moms are often expected to be endlessly gentle and joyful. Do you feel moms today are expected to repress their emotions? What effect do you suppose this has on maternal mental health? What does this teach the next generation about emotions?
A: Unfortunately, I think it’s all women and not just mothers who are expected to repress their emotions. As a society, we’re uncomfortable with female anger. But the situation has reached a crisis point with many mothers of my generation because of the rise of gentle parenting , which is essentially the idea that you should remain emotionally neutral with your kids at all times—even if your one child purposefully rips up your other child’s art project and then throws paint at the wall. The idea that the best way to parent is to never show anger not only places an impossible burden on parents, it leaves me wondering what happens to our kids when they inevitably feel or see anger themselves. How will they be able to process and normalize it? And how, if we’re always hiding ourselves, will our children get to know us as people? I think the key to a lasting relationship between kids and their parents is everyone knowing—and loving—each other as individuals.
Q: What systemic issues negatively impacting mothers today stand out to you most? What connection do you see between the ways society has shifted over time in relation to motherhood, and maternal mental health?
A: What surprised me most in researching this book was actually the ways in which society has not shifted in relation to motherhood. In America, the twin ideas that a) the individual family unit is responsible for itself and b) the best person to raise a child is its mother, are deeply engrained in our culture and continue to guide our policies. This is the case even though we’ve fallen short of our peer countries in almost all metrics for maternal well-being. We need universal paid parental leave, better maternal health services, and subsidized childcare. All these initiatives have been shown to increase positive outcomes for children, and they would certainly benefit maternal mental health.
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Heather Rose Artushin, LISW-CP, is a child and family therapist passionate about the power of reading.
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The Chinese government is encouraging women to have bigger families. These three working mothers have another idea.
We asked them to document their daily lives and to talk about why they are opting out of China’s pro-birth agenda.
By Isabelle Qian
One leads a team at a financial firm and earns more than her husband. Another is pursuing her dream of becoming a civil servant. A third is a budding influencer who aspires to be the family breadwinner.
Each woman is raising one young child and doesn’t want another — no matter what their husbands say, or what incentives the Chinese government, worried about an aging population, is dangling.
Gone are the days of China’s one-child policy . At a recent political forum, President Xi Jinping urged women to take on greater familial responsibilities and “play their unique role in carrying forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.”
These women see a different role for themselves. This generation was born into small families, with many girls growing up as only children — and getting opportunities that used to be given only to boys. Their own mothers, who didn’t have multiple children to care for, typically worked outside the home and set examples for their daughters to do the same.
Joyce Zhao, 29, Project manager
Joyce Zhao had worked for three years as a project manager at a small tech company in Beijing and was expecting a promotion. But when she became pregnant with her son, Ming, her prospects dimmed.
Her boss, a woman who had been advocating for her to be given a leadership role, left the team while Ms. Zhao was on a five-month maternity leave. When she returned to work, her new boss told her that she was behind and needed to work harder.
“ I was drowning in self-doubt, wondering whether having a child at this point in time was the wrong thing to do,” Ms. Zhao said.
But, she said, she never once thought about quitting her job and staying at home.
“I only have myself to rely on,” Ms. Zhao. “I must have my own career and not give it up for anything.”
A few months after Ming’s first birthday, Ms. Zhao, who is 29, decided to leave her company, and landed a job at one of the biggest tech companies in China.
Her husband would like a second child, but Ms. Zhao is not interested. Her days are already grueling enough. Her four-hour commute to work and long hours mean she gets home way past Ming’s bedtime. She rises at 6:30 a.m. to have one hour to herself to read and exercise, and one hour to play and have breakfast with her son.
After college, Ms. Zhao set aside her dream of becoming a civil servant to pursue a higher-paying job. Now, having checked off marriage and childbearing, she plans to study for the notoriously difficult civil servant exam.
“I divide my time, energy and money into different parts, saving the biggest part for myself, then the rest go to my parents, husband and son,” Ms. Zhao said. “I can’t let them take all of me.”
Guo Chunlei, 32, Influencer
Before Guo Chunlei got married, she worked at a bank in the eastern city of Hangzhou, making about $2,000 a month, decent by Chinese standards. Her parents bought her a small apartment and a car, so she spent most of her paycheck on beauty, fashion and traveling.
When she decided to have a baby in 2022, her husband and in-laws, who ran a booming family business in construction, encouraged her to switch to a less demanding job to have more time for the child. Ms. Guo agreed and joined a publicly traded company as an accountant. But the work was repetitive and unfulfilling, and she was earning only about a third of what she used to make.
The steep pay cut became a bigger and bigger problem. As her daughter, Tianyi, grew up, expenses began soaring. Early education classes alone ate up a third of her salary.
Seeking extra money, and a sense of purpose, Ms. Guo started a mom-influencer account on the lifestyle app Xiaohongshu last year. A post she composed about planning a traditional Chinese birthday party for her daughter got tens of thousands of views and opened the door to brand collaborations.
She now spends weekday evenings writing captions, editing photos and doing product research. Photo shoots with Tianyi in nearby parks have become a weekend family activity.
Ms. Guo’s account has amassed more than 10,000 followers and brings in more money from product sponsorships than her day job. She’s considering becoming an influencer full time, and would like to take over as her family’s main provider.
Ms. Guo recalls her own parents sacrificing to provide for her and her younger brother. It made her determined to follow a different path.
“I see no benefits to having two children, for either myself or for Tianyi,” she said.
Tang Pingjuan, 36, Financial manager
Like many working women in China today, Tang Pingjuan, 36, has higher expectations than did many of the women who came before her.
Growing up under the old one-child policy, she got the undivided attention of her father, a train driver, and her mother, a teacher, she recalls. And like many girls in her generation, she was given opportunities that had once been reserved for boys.
When it came time to attend college, Ms. Tang went hundreds of miles away from home to pursue a degree in mathematics, a field dominated by men. (Nearly a third of Chinese women have college degrees now, up from fewer than 1 percent in 1990.)
After graduating, Ms. Tang landed a job in finance and then, at age 25, took a year off and used her savings to travel to more than a dozen countries. Now 36, she leads a team at a private financial company in Guangzhou, the bustling metropolis where she lives with her husband and 4-year-old daughter, Ning.
Ms. Tang earns more than her husband and makes investment decisions for the family.
Six months after Ning was born, Ms. Tang returned to her office, leaving the baby in the care of a grandmother. On weekends, the family likes splurging on “staycations” at luxury hotels.
Lately, she has been considering a promising job opportunity in the nearby city of Shenzhen, which could mean being separated from her family. Her husband and in-laws oppose the move, but Ms. Tang doesn’t want to be held back. She has not ruled out a second child altogether, she said, but it is not something she is considering now.
“I feel selfish for putting myself before my family, but life is long and I want to make something of myself,” she said.
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America celebrated as mothers returned to the workforce in the aftermath of the pandemic. But just because mothers are back in the workforce at pre-pandemic numbers, we shouldn’t be so quick to call it a win. Why? Because, in our current economy, having a job doesn’t protect mothers or their children from precarity, and it doesn’t guarantee that they’ll ever get ahead.
Take a mom I’ll call Akari, who is biracial Japanese and white. Before the pandemic, she was a stay-at-home mom of two young kids. She left the workforce when her oldest was born, because, at the time, she didn’t have access to paid family leave, and she and her fiancé together earned too much to qualify for childcare subsidies but not enough to pay market rates for infant care. Money was tight since they had to get by on the $30,000 her fiancé brought home from his small business. But things were stable until the summer of 2020 when Akari’s fiancé died suddenly. Without life insurance or much in savings, Akari couldn’t afford to keep paying rent. So, still reeling from grief, she moved herself and the kids into a shelter, got on a waitlist for subsidized housing, and signed up for food stamps and welfare.
Welfare rules required that Akari find a paid job as soon as possible, even though her welfare benefits would be docked for every dollar that she earned. Of course, this all happened at the height of pandemic layoffs. And so, the best job Akari could find was a very part-time job in retail that paid less than $10 an hour. Given how little she was making, Akari added a second weekday part-time job in 2021, and, a few months after that, a third weekend job at a manufacturing facility. Akari did receive some support through pandemic relief programs, but that money mostly went to pay off some of the more than $20,000 in debts that she owed, including on legal fees related to her fiancé’s death, and many of those programs—like the expanded child tax credit —were cut off almost as soon as they began.
With three jobs, Akari now barely gets to see her kids. And she’s actually worse off financially than she was on welfare because she now makes just a bit too much to qualify for programs like food stamps and subsidized housing and childcare. Yet, Akari doesn’t feel she has the option to quit any of her jobs, because of lifetime caps on benefits and because welfare rules prevent her from saving money for retirement or a rainy day.
Thus, while Akari was one of those women whose return to the workforce was celebrated as evidence of a post-COVID return to normal, her story makes clear that some of those women returned not because of how we supported them in doing so but because of how we forced their hands.
That kind of coercion is why women hold roughly 70% of the lowest-wage jobs in the U.S. economy, and why, like Akari, those women are disproportionately moms of young kids. In the absence of a sturdy social safety net, moms like Akari end up filling low-wage, no-benefit, dead-end jobs in fields like retail, food service, home health, house cleaning, and childcare.
The message to these mothers is often some version of “You should have…” Should have gone to college. Should have majored in engineering. Should have gotten married and waited to start having kids. And yet, the evidence tells us that good choices won’t grant women a seat at the table or even guarantee a roof over their heads.
Why? Because you can’t lean in if you’re being leaned on. And, because, due to the giant holes we’ve left in our social safety net, women are still bearing the brunt of the weight. Like Akari, they’re the default parents —the ones forced to fill in gaps in our childcare system. They’re also the default caregivers for sick and elderly family members . And they’re often the ones who pick up the slack at work for colleagues who need support, as well.
All that responsibility—and the risk that comes with it—makes it hard for women, especially mothers, to find a foothold on the corporate ladder , let alone demand high salaries or compete with men for a spot at the top .
And so, I for one will be holding off on celebrating American mothers’ return to the workforce until we invest in a social safety net that offers universal paid family leave and sick leave, universal childcare and healthcare, decent welfare benefits without punitive work requirements, subsidies for families with dependents, and a robust minimum wage. That kind of safety net would eliminate the kind of coercion that drove mothers back to the workforce in the wake of COVID-19 all while making it easier for mothers to choose to rejoin the workforce—and likely leading more of them to do so overall.
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Here’s one mom's story about losing her job on maternity leave, the stigma she faced, and how it affected her ability to afford childcare.
Stephanie Taylor
Published Jun 25, 2024
Moms returning to the workforce face many hurdles. One of the greatest is the burden of childcare. Without affordable childcare and support from employers, it can be impossible for new moms to return to work.
Mercy Badmos knows firsthand the reality of workplace bias and the burden of childcare costs. After giving birth, she couldn’t afford childcare because it cost more than her salary. Shortly into her maternity leave, her employer let her go . She had to get on public assistance and lived on less than $300 a month.
Now, as the CEO and founding director of the Girls Empowerment Movement , Badmos recalls a time when the financial strain and lack of affordable childcare options were overwhelming. The burden of childcare significantly impacted her ability to return to the workforce.
“The high costs and long waitlists made it difficult to secure a spot in a reputable daycare,” Badmos told 21Ninety. “Without affordable and reliable childcare, returning to work was impossible.”
Flexibility is often a missing link in the support for moms returning to the workforce after pregnancy. In order to better support moms, employers need to offer more flexible work arrangements, including remote work and flexible hours. As soon as her former employer found out she was pregnant, Badmos shared that the energy shifted.
“When I needed time off, they were immediately upset,” she said. “As I neared childbirth, my employer resisted my request to work from home.”
In the modern age, where many jobs can be done remotely, working moms are still expected to be physically present. This is despite the increased demands of caring for a child.
Badmos also is a big advocate for on-site childcare.
“When I suggest it, people often think it’s unrealistic, but it’s a practical solution that would make a huge difference,” she said. “Being able to bring your child to work can ease the transition back to work and reduce the anxiety about childcare.”
Badmos gave birth in April 2020. Once she had her baby, Badmos shared that her former employer seemed to dislike that she was on leave.
Toward the end of her time off, Badmos felt nervous about returning to work. She had to figure out how to split up the 12 weeks of her leave over her child’s first year. She also had to figured out how to live on a reduced salary. If she needed more than 12 weeks off, her employer would reduce her wages – this time to less than $200 per week.
When her employer fired her during her leave, Badmos was surprised. Her former employer said they let her go due to the COVID-19 pandemic and that her last day would be in November 2020.
“I don’t believe I was truly let go because of the pandemic,” she said. “They hired someone for my position a few months later.”
This experience reinforced Badmos’ belief that childcare needs to be more accessible for all new moms. Employers can better support moms by providing on-site childcare and affordable childcare options. They should also create policies that allow parents more time to care for their children and themselves.
“After childbirth, I couldn’t perform at the same level, and my job didn’t support me as a new mom,” she said. “If they had worked with me, then I believe I could have regained my footing within a year.”
Pregnant women and new mothers are often passed over for promotions and excluded from important projects. They are also generally treated as less valuable employees, Badmos added. These misconceptions not only undermine moms’ professional abilities but also create an unsupportive and stressful work environment.
“The stigma is that pregnant women and new mothers can’t be as productive,” Badmos said. “There’s an assumption that we’re less committed to our jobs and more likely to take time off or leave the workforce entirely.”
To employers, Badmos encouraged to address stigma and biases toward expecting and new moms head on. Employers should educate their teams about the value of diversity and inclusion. Make it clear that pregnant women and new mothers are an integral part of the workforce.
“By providing these supports, you not only help your employees but also benefit from their loyalty, productivity, and diverse perspectives,” she said.
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R eturning from his paternity leave last week, your columnist was keen to get writing. After all, numerous studies say parents’ careers can suffer after they have children. Best to immediately dispel any notion that his might do so. But then he remembered that he is a man, and went to get a coffee. For the child penalty, as the career hit is known by economists, is commonly believed to affect mothers alone.
In fact, it might be that women returning to work after childbirth can afford to relax, too. It is true that their immediate earnings are likely to fall, and perhaps infuriating that those of new fathers are not. Yet two new studies suggest that, in the long run, compared with women who do not have children, the motherhood penalty may vanish—or even turn into a premium.
The disparity between men and women who have children is well known. In a widely cited paper from 2019, Henrik Kleven of Princeton University, with co-authors, charted the careers of Danish parents after their first child was born. Mothers’ pay and working hours plunged, by a third and a fifth, respectively, in the first year after childbirth. Fathers’ careers continued roughly as before.
The same study found that mothers’ careers do not recover. After ten years, the hit to Danish mothers’ incomes was still 20 percentage points bigger than that to fathers’, with larger gaps between those with more children. This was down to women with children either leaving the labour market, working fewer hours or earning a lower hourly wage. The paper’s authors have repeated the exercise for 134 countries, with strikingly similar results.
But the difficulty in divining the effect of children is that the stork does not drop babies randomly. To get round this, the Danish paper was based on an “event study”. This supposes mothers’ incomes develop along a smooth trend until they give birth, which causes the trend to break. After the break, each mother’s pay is compared with the trend (continued by other women in the sample who give birth later), and the drop is assumed to be the effect of the child. The same calculation is then carried out for fathers.
Such techniques are useful for pinpointing short-term effects, but work less well when trying to gauge what happens over the long run. Many things change over time for women with children and without, meaning that comparing mothers’ pay to a trend formed by women who have not yet given birth may distort the picture. Take a recent study by Simon Bensnes of Norway’s statistical agency, and co-authors, which shows that women tend to wait to have children until their earnings have started to flatten. In other words, part of the pay gap that opens up in event studies may simply be mama economica in action.
And so other researchers—including Mr Bensnes and colleagues—approximate randomisation differently, by looking at women undergoing in-vitro fertilisation ( IVF ). This has the advantage that all potential parents in the sample clearly wish to have a child, but those who succeed are decided by nature and chance. Several such studies have now considered parents from Nordic countries, where researchers can access sensitive data on IVF treatments and match them to administrative records.
The Norwegian study followed women undergoing IVF treatment for roughly a decade, finding that the annual incomes of those who gave birth fell by an average of 22% in the short term, compared with those who remained childless. In the long run, however, this penalty narrowed to just 3%. Fathers’ incomes did not drop; instead, they rose by around 10% over the long run.
A new Danish study considers a longer timeframe. Petter Lundborg of Lund University, along with co-authors, looked at up to 25 years’ worth of data from the point of each woman’s first IVF treatment. They found a similar pattern: a sharp short-term drop in mothers’ earnings, but no long-run earnings penalty compared with women who did not have children. In fact, their data reveal a small “motherhood premium” after about 15 years, which over a lifetime more than compensates for the initial drop.
Should such studies be trusted? The researchers are careful to point to the downsides of their own methodologies. As much as the success of IVF treatment sounds random, it may not be. In the Norwegian study, for example, the authors show that education levels are slightly higher for successfully treated mothers.
Meanwhile, unsuccessful IVF treatment is not harmless. Four researchers from Stanford University recently published a working paper that uses Swedish data. They, too, found no long-term motherhood penalty for women whose treatment succeeded. For those whose treatment did not, the results were disquieting: the women were almost 50% more likely to later take medicine for their mental health, and the couples had a higher chance of divorcing. Both motherhood and fatherhood premiums may thus be related to the suffering of those who remain childless.
Parents from outside Scandinavia may reasonably wonder whether all these results extend to them. Danish and Norwegian mothers’ incomes may recover particularly well because they have significantly better access to child care than those in many other countries. Nordic norms around gender equality could encourage fathers to play a bigger role in raising children, giving women more room to re-start their career.
As your columnist pondered such questions, he turned to Claudia Goldin, who won the Nobel prize for economics in 2023, for wisdom. She argues that the “parenthood gap” has three parts: the motherhood penalty, the fatherhood premium, and the cost of being female. The new studies suggest that the motherhood penalty narrows over the course of a career; the fatherhood premium is something of a mystery. But the cost of being female exists regardless of motherhood, and varies from place to place. Researchers have plenty of work ahead to quantify and explain these. ■
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Balancing work and family responsibilities brings many challenges for working mothers and fathers with children younger than 18. Roughly half say being a working parent makes it harder for them to be a good parent, and about as many say that at times they feel they can’t give 100% at work. Despite these challenges, many working parents – including about eight-in-ten full-time working mothers – say their current employment situation is what’s best for them at this point in their life, according to a new Pew Research Center survey .
A majority (55%) of U.S. mothers with children younger than 18 at home are employed full time, up from 34% a half-century ago, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau Current Population Survey data. The rise in full-time employment has fueled the overall rise in employment among moms: Now, 72% of moms are employed, either full time or part time, compared with about half in 1968. Among fathers with kids in the home, the vast majority (89%) are employed full time.
About half of employed parents with children younger than 18 – including similar shares of mothers (53%) and fathers (51%) – say being a working parent makes it harder for them to be a good parent. But employed moms (50%) are more likely than employed dads (39%) to say being a working parent makes it harder for them to advance in their job or career.
Among working mothers, those who are employed part time (57%) are more likely than those who work full time (47%) to say being a working parent makes it harder for them to advance in their job or career. At the same time, full-time working moms are more likely to say being a working parent makes it harder for them to be a good parent (57% vs. 44% of part-time working moms). There aren’t enough part-time working fathers with children younger than 18 in the household in the sample to analyze separately.
When asked about some specific challenges they may have faced at work because they were balancing work and parenting responsibilities, about half of working mothers say they’ve needed to reduce their work hours (54%) or that they’ve felt like they couldn’t give 100% at work (51%). Smaller but still substantial shares of working fathers say the same: About four-in-ten say they’ve needed to reduce their work hours (44%) or that they couldn’t give 100% (43%).
About one-in-five working parents, including 23% of working moms and 15% of working dads, say they have turned down a promotion because they were balancing work and parenting responsibilities.
Roughly a quarter of working parents (23%) say they have been treated as if they weren’t committed to their work because they have children, while 17% say they have been passed over for an important assignment. In addition, 16% say they have been passed over for a promotion for this reason. Mothers are more likely than fathers to say they’ve had each of these experiences.
Still, most parents with children younger than 18 say it would be best for them personally to be employed, either full time or part time, at this point in their life. Among fathers, 82% say it would be best for them to be working full time; 11% say it would be best to be working part time and just 7% say it would be best to not be working for pay at all. Views are more varied among mothers: 51% say it would be best for them to be working full time, 30% say part-time work would be best and 19% say the optimal arrangement for them would be not to work for pay at all right now. Mothers across income groups express similar views of what would be best for them at this point in their life.
Among full-time working mothers, 84% say their current employment situation is what’s best for them at the moment, while 14% say working part time would be best and just 2% say not working for pay at all would be best.
About half of part-time working moms (54%) say working part time is best for them at this point in their life, but a sizable share (33%) say working full time would be best and 14% say not working for pay at all would be best. And among stay-at-home moms, 39% say not working for pay at all is what’s best for them, but a similar share (35%) say it would be best for them to be working part time; a quarter of mothers who are not employed say it would be best for them to be working full time.
When asked more generally about the ideal situation for men and women with young children – rather than about what works best for them personally – about three-quarters of U.S. adults (76%) say working full time is ideal for fathers, while just 33% think this is the ideal situation for mothers. About four-in-ten (42%) say working part time is ideal for women with young children, while 21% say not working for pay at all is ideal for this group.
About a third of women (33%) and men (32%) say working full time is ideal for mothers; 44% of women say working part time is ideal (vs. 40% of men), while 19% (vs. 23% of men) say not working for pay at all is ideal.
The view that working full time is ideal for women with young children is more common among black adults: 57% say this, compared with 38% of Hispanic and 27% of white adults. Just 8% of black adults say not working for pay at all is the ideal situation for mothers; 25% of whites and 15% of Hispanics say the same.
Across age groups, similar shares of those ages 18 to 29 (35%), 30 to 49 (37%) and 50 to 64 (35%) say working full time is the ideal situation for women with young children; 21% of those ages 65 and older agree. Three-in-ten in the oldest group say not working for pay at all is ideal for mothers, compared with about two-in-ten of those ages 30 to 49 (20%) and 50 to 64 (21%) and 14% of those younger than 30.
Among full-time working mothers, 45% say working full time is ideal for women with young children, while a similar share (41%) say working part time is ideal and 11% say the ideal is for women with young children to not work for pay at all. Part-time working moms are more likely to say working part time is ideal for women with young children (53%) than to say working full time (27%) or not at all (16%) are ideal. Among stay-at-home moms, a plurality (42%) say working part time is ideal for women with young children, while similar shares say working full time (27%) or not working for pay at all (28%) is ideal.
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Juliana Menasce Horowitz is an associate director of research at Pew Research Center .
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From volunteer to NOAA Fisheries-funded graduate student at the University of Hawaiʻi, learn more about Josefa Muñoz’s sea turtle journey.
My cultural and home connection is rooted in Guam. My CHamoru upbringing taught me inafa’maolek , meaning “to make good” in CHamoru. Inafa’maolek is the restoration of harmony and it is the foundation of CHamoru culture. An inafa’maolek tenet is showing respect to not only elders, family, and community, but also to the land we live on. Customs like this highlight our belief that all of nature should be respected. This connection to nature instilled in me a sense of stewardship of Guam’s land and sea and a drive to restore its harmony. Altogether, this influenced my decision to pursue the marine biology field and contribute to the conservation of protected species. Additionally, my cultural connection gives me an extra layer of motivation to devote my marine biology Ph.D., and my lifelong career, towards Pacific Islands sea turtle research and protection.
As a University of Guam undergraduate, I wanted to serve my island community and subsequently volunteered as a Haggan (“turtle” in CHamoru) Watch Program research intern. This program fed my strong interest in marine research and ignited my passion for sea turtle conservation. It led to my selection for the Native American and Pacific Islander Research Experience where I characterized rainforest bird vocalizations in Costa Rica. Later, I was selected for the Scripps Institution of Oceanography’s Undergraduate Research Fellowship in California where I studied deep-sea bacteria. My participation in these internships broadened my perspective and approach to scientific research. They provided a strong research background in experimental design, data analysis, writing skills, and scientific communication that I readily apply as a graduate student. Most importantly, they gave me the confidence to believe that as a female Pacific Islander, I can pursue an advanced degree, a STEM career, and represent my CHamoru people—especially CHamoru women—in a broader scientific community.
After graduating from UOG, I worked as a sea turtle biologist where I resumed nesting beach monitoring. My fascination with Guam’s sea turtles grew exponentially, and I was certain I wanted to pursue a graduate degree and fill knowledge gaps. Concurrently, I met my mentors and was awarded National Science Foundation Graduate Research Fellowship Program funding, which made my graduate education possible. I became a University of Hawaiʻi at Mānoa marine biology Ph.D. student and have been closely collaborating with the NOAA Fisheries Pacific Islands Fisheries Science Center Marine Turtle Biology and Assessment Program for my research. Currently, I am in the Center’s Quantitative Ecology and Socioeconomics Training Program.
Since Mariana Islands sea turtles are understudied, I was determined to devote my dissertation towards establishing baseline information of Guam’s endangered nesting green turtles. I am studying three main areas.
Warmer nest temperatures produce more female hatchlings making climate change a concern for populations worldwide. With suspected feminization of Guam’s green turtles , where more than 90 percent may be female, I aim to determine if they have one or many mates, which can be a buffer for the potentially female-skewed bias. I also aim to determine the breeding sex ratio by counting the number of turtle moms and dads that successfully contribute to Guam’s green turtle population.
Understanding the inter-nesting movement of Guam’s nesting green turtles is crucial for local conservation. Using satellite tracking, which can give exact locations of animals using the GPS, I aim to find the ranges of the inter-nesting movements by Guam’s turtle moms. This will help define important in-water habitat that may need protection during the nesting season.
I use satellite tracking and stable isotope analysis to study animal migrations. This analysis uses the chemical makeup of an animal’s skin tissue to indicate what it eats and the environment it lives in. Therefore, stable isotopes can reveal an animal’s previous location (e.g., feeding area) when it is encountered on the nesting beach in Guam. This chemical analysis paired with tracking data is an integrative approach to potentially determine Guam’s sea turtle feeding areas, and the latter can be used to precisely determine migration routes.
Sea turtle work that is novel to an understudied population and involves strong collaboration between diverse teams has always been inspiring to me. I modeled my fieldwork after this framework by introducing new research on Guam’s nesting turtles and also brought together various agencies. I’m most proud of involving the community and students in my research. I created the Sea Turtle Research Internship, where I trained 10 students per field season in conducting sea turtle work. In this way, the students gained valuable hands-on field experience in their backyard working with an endangered species. I offered this opportunity to this particular group because I was once in their position as an undergraduate. These students were so inspiring to work alongside. I hope that I can inspire them to conduct innovative work on Guam’s protected species and bring together the community while doing so.
My role involves carrying out sea turtle research projects from start to finish. It is very satisfying to lead and execute the full scientific research process from the experimental design, preparation, and logistics; to data collection in the field; analyzing data and samples in the laboratory; and publishing those results. Lastly, I love presenting my research at scientific conferences and providing outreach to students and the public to equip them with knowledge about sea turtles.
Having technical knowledge is important in marine conservation; soft skills are overlooked—but needed—for this field. Key soft skills include communicating well, adaptability, and being dependable and respectful, all of which are important for teamwork. Additional important soft skills include persevering, demonstrating empathy towards colleagues and the community, prioritizing diversity and inclusion, and having cultural awareness. Having these soft skills opened many doors for me and I suggest focusing on building and utilizing them as much as the hard skills.
Networking was always intimidating, but I recommend that future students network. I met many professionals on my science journey and I’m grateful I learned from each person. I wouldn’t be where I am today without my network. Additionally, I strongly advise building a network with the people where you’re conducting your science. It is important to establish and maintain relationships and trust with this community. Involving my home community in my research is so rewarding and I enjoy empowering them with the knowledge of Guam’s sea turtles through my research and sharing sea turtle experiences with them.
Being raised in CHamoru culture taught me to maintain humility. I appreciate the CHamoru culture for favoring this beautiful value. However, it left me in a bind as a graduate student. For example, humility will come in the form of speaking only when spoken to, being shy when sharing input, putting others first, and the fear of highlighting one’s accomplishments. This, combined with imposter syndrome, heightened my self-doubt. I still struggle with this, but many mentors taught me that humility and confidence are not mutually exclusive. So I’d like to remind future students that it’s okay to maintain humbleness but also have confidence in themselves and their abilities. Lastly, you’re not an imposter and all your hard work and skills have gotten you to where you are today!
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